That’s the best summary of how recon works I think I’ve read to date.
And yeah man, you’re absolutely right, I haven’t set or been firm about the boundaries, and I’ve even been a little whiney about it lately.
Going to reflect on what is actually OK with me, and what’s over the line, and have a conversation about it with her.
Appreciate you brother!
Daddies. Discipline. Daughters.
Hey i got similar recon too with a one minute loop, which was my first loop of this sub. For me it made me very impatient and angry and if my girlfriend so much as opposed me a bit i would shut her down immediately and if not i would feel terrible and beat myself up about it, don’t know why the daddy scripting or emotional stability scripting didn’t kick in for me but yeah that was my experience.
100% 
Whenever my mates need a relationship advice im hitting them with that tripple D wisdom
Did khan1 3min 5min drred 5min ED all back to back, calling it the Jason Statham blend.
Recon first few hours but after it hits bloom the confidence, dominance and sexuality on another level. Few being called daddy manifestations as well.
Yesterday i did find myself lecturing a young guy on what i suggest he do. He was hitting a cross road in his life in his mid 20s.
You could track these moments for the next week or two and identify exactly what behaviour is triggering this response in you. If it turns out to be immaturity well - you’re dating a young woman who is in uni surrounded by other people her age where that behaviour is most likely normal. So if her acting her age is triggering you might have to either suck it up or make some hard choices.
Now if it’s disrespect - be really clear about the exact behaviour and talk to her about it. And if it’s how she is with her mates and she doesn’t mean to be disrespectful…you may need to give her a bit of grace as she modifies the behaviour (if she wants to). Could take a few months. Maybe you both come up with a fun safe word/phrase to call it out. But if you do it every time just know it can become annoying so you may need to be gentle.
Congrats on being more fully vested in the relationship. The fact you’re even asking for input means you care, that’s a beautiful thing.
Dude that’s lowkey what I don’t want LOL, I don’t want to treat her like a child. It’s one thing to have her call me daddy in bed (which she does unprompted, before the sub existed), but it’s another thing to act like her dad in the relationship haha. Maybe my paternalistic instinct doesn’t lean towards the sexy vibe, because I do want daughters one day and getting those concepts mixed up in my brain doesn’t sound appealing lol
This is glorious advice, you’re absolutely on the money, thank you!
Yes, I think a lot of it does come from how her and her friends act with each other, as I’ve met them several times already and it seems to be part of their generation to be rude/mean to each other in a “funny” way. We actually talked about a safe word this past weekend for when things make us upset actually, we didn’t land on anything fully yet but I liked “apple sauce” while she was going with some wild suggestions, going to show she’s more playful than me in most respects which is what attracted me to her, but yes there are times when I prefer a more serious/calm energy.
I’ll start taking note of what rubs me the wrong way in the following week, and go from there.
@Dreamevile check out the above reply from Fusion, it could help you too!
It sounds more like Primal or WB. In my experience, Empereor sets strong boundaries with close friends, which creates significant contrast. Personally, I love WB; it fits my personality like a tailored suit.
If the shoe doesn’t fit, don’t wear it.
That might be just what I need though, y’know. For my personal evolution
It happened!
I got called PizzaDaddy at work tonight.
I got a pizza tattoo today, pizza daddy 
I listened to it for a week on the days of my regular stack to get a feel for it. Next thing I know I purchased a face washing product, went clothes shopping, and went to a barbershop to clean up my beard… it has been years since I did any of those things! Years. I realized the force was strong in that sub, I also realized my stack has to be rearranged lol.
I see you need a spanking too.
Mature chats are … boring.
What if I told you, that she WANTS to be punished?
What if her calling you Daddy is an invitation to initiate that dynamic?
What if your recon is about growing up from a child’s concept of romance (aka Disney), to an Adult Man’s vision of it?
What if she is trying to be your personal po*nstar, while you are treating her like an innocent daughter?
good explanation
Does Emperor Daddy also create a deep masculine voice?
Building a Custom with it and thinking if I should add additionally Synergy: Voice is the Law
Time and place for this amigo, but I can guarantee ignoring the emotional needs of her and instead spanking her is not the way to go. I agree on having a strong masculine frame, but at the same time that Disney/media has created weaker men who can’t stick up for themselves, the red pill movement has given those damaged men reason to over compensate and move into this fake alpha category that are really acting in ways to cover up their insecurities.
Everyone’s relationship is different and I don’t know the exact situation here, but I used to really lean towards the red pill side, which works for getting other insecure girls, or maybe even when you first meet, but in a long term relationship I view it more as just being a man with a strong frame, and showing up for your partner.
I used to get shit from my partner all the time, and basically since showing up for my partner, being more attentive and patient with their emotional needs and showing them genuine care my relationship has totally transformed in the past month in the positive. No more fights, no more shit tests, more connection, more genuine desire on both sides. Not running any other romance subs for context.
Red pill is good for having a foundation, awareness of certain biological, psychological realities and truths so one doesnt get taken advantage of or become a sucker, as well as knowledge on what works and what doesnt in attraction and relationship dynamic between genders.
Tho one shouldnt get too stuck and jaded in this as you can get too emotionally closed off and thats not good longterm or enjoyable.
I’ve personally never tried to be “alpha” or manly. Imo it’s a waste of time, why try to be something you literally already are (edit: as in a man I mean)? Do dogs try to be dogs? No, they just are. My focus has always been more on looking as good/healthy/sexy as I can, and then going for women/things I’m interested in, period. The guys i’ve known throughout my life who were good with women were never guys who tried to be alpha or anything, in fact I think they’d laugh at the concept. I actually think a problem that is at least equal to “men not being men” these days is women not being women. Women not being the kind, soft, feminine creatures they naturally are, and instead are brainwashed to be not even masculine but just plain rude and ill-mannered. No guy wants to go and fight wars for a bunch of ill-mannered female dogs back at home, we wanna fight for beautiful, soft, pleasant, lovely, kind, compassionate honeys. And not just fight wars but paint Mona Lisa’s and write songs and build empires etc. If women acted more like women, men would shine and wouldn’t have to “try to be men”, they would be naturally inspired. Crappy women = no inspiration for men (or very little at least). At least that’s what I think.
Hmm but what’s the solution 
I guess it’s hard and impractical to try to “remove” the “forces” that are socially manipulating people, so maybe the solution is for guys to do what I do, as in look as good as possible and go for what you want (though be smart about it of course) and that’s it 
simple. If people or women look down upon you for doing so, just know they are brainwashed and don’t know it, and that you are actually kind of on a mission to heal society lol 
or just forget about that and do the first part. Or simple selective hearing, treat and respond to women as if they are feminine even if they’re not. For example: you hold the door open for a woman and she says nothing, turn your head and say “no problem babe” with a smile. Kind of a lame example but extrapolate that to any other scenario. I think at the very least some women will realize and feel silly about how unkind they’re being. Anyway, if anyone else has ideas I’m all ears.
It does on top of that if all your hormones are in sync its even more powerful.