Anyone experiencing vivid dreams with childhood memories? Healing at play?
Feeling like Jason Statham on ed khan drr
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I’m curious about what Emperor Daddy would be like combined with KB4. 
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Yup. That sums it up. Minus DR.
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Ok I am listening 
Better life choices with EmpD. Instead of doing a bad copy paste job, linking to my last journal post. It’s a bit all over the place but good results.
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I’m going to attribute the following results to Emperor Daddy:
Recently, I have had to go to a new part of this metropolis for work. The demographics are different from my normal areas. The stares I’m getting from women here are reminiscent of old school Primal x Emperor. Lots of interested looks, hair tossing or other little things like women purposely walking in my direction or standing near me.
What’s interesting is my own internal dialogue about it. I mostly have the response, “That’s interesting.”
And I just keep going. I don’t listen for those responses, but occasionally they are so obvious as to be undeniable. And recently they have been so plentiful as to be obvious.
Where ED really shines is in the emotional control and the ability to calmly guide situations to a resolution rather than attempt to blame, explain, or otherwise.
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This - spot on.
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After running this for about 1-2 weeks, I’m getting an interesting result that I want to bounce off the forum to see if others are getting the same, or maybe it’s due to recon… more specifically are any of you struggling with -
Becoming less patient with your girlfriend’s immature moments, or straight up attitude?
I have a feeling it’s recon, because it’s been destabilizing me lately, and I think that’s because I’m more emotionally invested in the relationship now, whereas in the beginning I could easily bat these immature/attitude-y moments away with more amused IDGAF mental frames.
Not sure what the answer is here, as trying to reframe this back to a IDGAF perspective strikes me as tolerating disrespect. I think I want to strike a better balance between being playful with her when she’s giving me a more playful immature attitude, and lovingly but firmly shutting it down when it leans towards name-calling that I perceive as mean.
Anyone here running EmpD with experience around this?
Note - she’s in college and I’m 30, there’s an age gap that accounts for the immaturity, which I knew going into this. And now I am looking for a better way to handle this than going back to my non-committal IDGAF frame of the first few months of the relationship or what I’ve been doing lately which is get kind of butthurt about it.
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I had that on Khan and that’s how my bad breakup happened. I was heavily invested in the relationship and she wasn’t. Being on Khan she started testing me and of course I didn’t give in to getting upset or anything. Then finally when I did put her in her place, that’s what she wanted, but at that point it was already too late and I realized that what was best for me was to walk away from that relationship. Still kind of coming to terms with the idea of dating if me being invested and caring is going to make them lose attraction and play games, or just finding a woman who is into me but I’m not invested so there’s no work on my part to maintain that dynamic to keep her attraction high.
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Honestly this sounds depressing, as I am romantic and lovey and I enjoy doting on my girl and treating her well.
I think getting a stronger frame for “shit tests” is just the answer here… as much as we’d all love a woman we can always drop our guard for, that might be too rare to be feasible, and learning when vulnerability is “acceptable” versus when to put on a stone face might be what the world demands of us.
Although even that sounds fucked lol. There must be a balance to strike between leadership in your relationship and vulnerability as a human being seeking to love/be loved that we are missing, and I refuse to succumb to the cynicism of thinking “all women are like that” or even thinking in the terms of red pill/PUA shit, as none of those guys model the types of loving romantic relationships I would want for myself.
Alright fuck, chalk another result up for Emperor Daddy - getting me to think more maturely about my role as a leader in my relationship and how to balance the needs for love and respect from my woman.
I think I need to go back and read some more David Deida and John Wineland haha
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Your recon is likely caused to point out an issue of boundaries. You haven’t set the boundaries with her in a way that communicates it’s disrespect and you will not deal with that in a relationship.
Recon is the emotional version of stubbing your toe. The recon points to an unresolved issue that is not congruent with the reality you desire.
Over listening without enough processing time causes this because of the mismatch between reality and what you are trying to create with the sub.
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That’s the best summary of how recon works I think I’ve read to date.
And yeah man, you’re absolutely right, I haven’t set or been firm about the boundaries, and I’ve even been a little whiney about it lately.
Going to reflect on what is actually OK with me, and what’s over the line, and have a conversation about it with her.
Appreciate you brother!
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Daddies. Discipline. Daughters.
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Hey i got similar recon too with a one minute loop, which was my first loop of this sub. For me it made me very impatient and angry and if my girlfriend so much as opposed me a bit i would shut her down immediately and if not i would feel terrible and beat myself up about it, don’t know why the daddy scripting or emotional stability scripting didn’t kick in for me but yeah that was my experience.
100% 
Whenever my mates need a relationship advice im hitting them with that tripple D wisdom
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Did khan1 3min 5min drred 5min ED all back to back, calling it the Jason Statham blend.
Recon first few hours but after it hits bloom the confidence, dominance and sexuality on another level. Few being called daddy manifestations as well.
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Yesterday i did find myself lecturing a young guy on what i suggest he do. He was hitting a cross road in his life in his mid 20s.
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You could track these moments for the next week or two and identify exactly what behaviour is triggering this response in you. If it turns out to be immaturity well - you’re dating a young woman who is in uni surrounded by other people her age where that behaviour is most likely normal. So if her acting her age is triggering you might have to either suck it up or make some hard choices.
Now if it’s disrespect - be really clear about the exact behaviour and talk to her about it. And if it’s how she is with her mates and she doesn’t mean to be disrespectful…you may need to give her a bit of grace as she modifies the behaviour (if she wants to). Could take a few months. Maybe you both come up with a fun safe word/phrase to call it out. But if you do it every time just know it can become annoying so you may need to be gentle.
Congrats on being more fully vested in the relationship. The fact you’re even asking for input means you care, that’s a beautiful thing.
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Dude that’s lowkey what I don’t want LOL, I don’t want to treat her like a child. It’s one thing to have her call me daddy in bed (which she does unprompted, before the sub existed), but it’s another thing to act like her dad in the relationship haha. Maybe my paternalistic instinct doesn’t lean towards the sexy vibe, because I do want daughters one day and getting those concepts mixed up in my brain doesn’t sound appealing lol
This is glorious advice, you’re absolutely on the money, thank you!
Yes, I think a lot of it does come from how her and her friends act with each other, as I’ve met them several times already and it seems to be part of their generation to be rude/mean to each other in a “funny” way. We actually talked about a safe word this past weekend for when things make us upset actually, we didn’t land on anything fully yet but I liked “apple sauce” while she was going with some wild suggestions, going to show she’s more playful than me in most respects which is what attracted me to her, but yes there are times when I prefer a more serious/calm energy.
I’ll start taking note of what rubs me the wrong way in the following week, and go from there.
@Dreamevile check out the above reply from Fusion, it could help you too!
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