How about writing a reconciliation plan on some note cards and posting them around the house with ideas to help you through the reconciliation? That way when you feel bad, all you have to remember is to look at the note card, instead of trying to figure out what to do when you feel bad.
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2 days ago I did the 3rd loop in total of ST4 and today I am overflow since 10 hours with bad emotions, non stop.
I am realese nonstop one bad state after the other.
Can’t even concentrate for 6 hours.
I cryed 2 times, I suffered very hard.
this is really hard and very unpleasant.
Anybody else experienced something like this?
Damn, not really… St4 for me has been very smooth and a lot of extra energy.
Seems like you are clearing some really deep stuff. Maybe you could back down to the first stage or second stage again? St4 is the full blown experience, and if you have some deep stuff still there it might be though.
I know @RVconsultant mentioned something recently about jumping to soon into St4 and got some major recon and emotional upheaval.
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I have done 8 months of st1-3
But Holy Moly that was out of this world.
Now I am completely relaxed and happy.
I didn’t even know where this bad emotions where stored. ( obviously they came from me)
And no, no recon, I can handle it. But I was very surprised
Thank you Tobyone
Not my style
That’s my style
I ordered this beauty
Dragon Reborn st 4
The Elixir Ultima
DEUS
Attachment Destroyer
Discordia Deliverance
Divine Self image
FEBRUUS
Courage Reclaimend
I Am
Inner Gasoline
Negativity Displacer
Negative Energy Transmutation
Negativity Shifter
Pride Unbroken
Sanguine
Solitude
Steadfast
Ares
Limit Destroyer
Rebirth
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A very “light” healing sub I can tell… lol
Enjoy!!
Btw DR st4 + Elixir + Rebirth is an awesome combo!!
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Super light indeed
That’s funny my custom arrived 10 min ago.
I try it tonight
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That’s one way of doing it
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I recently went back to running Dragon Reborn St 1 as I am running Quantum Limitless St 1 as well and I don’t want to run them out of sync with each other.
I will never be able to say enough great things about Dragon Reborn. My only wish is that I would have had it 10 or 15 years ago. I would definitely be in a very different situation and place right now.
As someone with severe ADHD who also recently discovered that I am on the spectrum Dragon Reborn has done more for me and my mental and emotional healing and growth than anything else
I decided to run Quantum Limitless to not only accelerate learning but I am incredibly fascinated by Stage 3.
The ability to never be bored just sounds amazing
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Your new custom looks like it will bring you a lot of profound healing.
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Me, too man! I wished I had it as soon as I turned 18.
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Likewise! This would have undoubtedly changed the direction of my entire life from then. But then I’d wish to also have all these other subs at their current power back then.
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Yes I hope so
LET’S GO
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This is interesting. I used to think like this a lot a couple of years ago, I wish I knew/had .X. when I was younger. It always made a knot in my stomach.
But lately, and especially after DR and other subs, this thought with an attached emotion almost never occur to me anymore. Time is starting to be non-existant and of no particular meaning, it’s just now, now and even more now. Everything else is just mental gymnastics.
I’m in no hurry anymore, the world feels eternal, just this physical life will expire, but it feels to me like everything is the way it is, and evolving like it is suppose to. This might also be from a lot of spiritual work and also spiritual sub I have been running lately.
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@Tobyone I completely understand that sentiment. I feel like the longer I run Dragon Reborn the less attached I am to certain things. Massive switch in focus and priorities
It’s sort of weird at times to look back at all the things I did or used to mask my true self and how I was feeling or avoiding feeling at that time.
It’s just insane how our trauma and insecurities have blinded us all to so much
Going back to what I said about being less attached I will say some of what I do miss at this time is the certain level of solitude I had then
I was and I am still very happily married but the fact that we had our own apartment and mode of transportation is what I’m referring to
That independence is what I must work to achieve once more
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I’m very glad to hear that @James. It has been fun and inspiring to read about your journey here on the forum. A big one for me is detaching from societal norms and ways of thinking. The age thing is so heavily ingrained into us as we grow up.
The victim mentality is so detrimental for personal growth. We are to be responsible for everyone around us, but when we stumble ourselves, we blame the world and everyone else. Being selfish is to me this exact behavior, putting your resposibility on others. It’s a perpetual state of learned helplessness, and keep people stuck in the rut.
Just by talking to people and hearing them speak, there’s almost always some remarks about lost youth, or residing hairline etc. It is on auto pilot for most middle aged and upwards that I meet. You know that you have come a long way when the thoughts about it almost never crosses your mind anymore, and if they do, it’s someone else talking about it.
There are a number of journals here on the forum where Dragon Reborn has helped the individuals spot and reverse engineer their way of thinking to relieve this sense of helplessness. And it’s so inspiring everytime you see it click for those individuals, and they start to turn their lives around.
Just the fact that you are aware of it, makes it already within your reach. It all starts with awareness
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@Tobyone That’s oddly ironic as I had someone tell me I may be too self aware if that’s possible
I feel like yet another great thing about Dragon Reborn and now Sage Immortal is that you become not just mentally and emotionally mature but also wise.
I was just telling a friend of mine how I don’t see the point in being angry about anything anymore. Why? It’s just a minor inconvenience and it’s so incredibly draining. Just seems like a lot of unnecessary work
Fuck that. I just want to be chill and do my thing
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Someone telling you that you are too self-aware 
I would say that this person might just be a bit jealous of your awareness 
I’ve found on my own journey that all my anger that I used to throw at the world, was just a form of sadness I had inside from having disowned my inner self when I was younger. All the trigger points were out there in the world, but the hurt was inside me, so the triggers were actually there for me to grow from.
Dragon Reborn has delt with a lot of these inner hurts, and healing has been going on the inside of me. So today, those triggers out there are not triggering me anymore, and from that arises more wisdom. And that wisdom I can now use to help others because I’ve been there. If I help others, I help myself, it’s the complete circle.
Yep, you are stepping up to your own life, the only adult mature thing to do 
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I did yesterday my first loop of ST4 custom (16 hours ago)
Today I stood up and I am quiet
Internally quiet
Its a great feeling
When I did just ST4 (no custom, regular) it was like a storm rushing trough me
Its frustrating at times though because I feel like as I grow I’m even more sensitive to how shitty people are to each other a lot of the time. Taking out their own issues on others. It’s just so immature and so fucked
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Mhm, I know what you mean. When you grow a lot you are actually tested even harder because these old frustrations comes up to the surface.
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