I got this yesterday and listened to about 2 minutes before sleep, and 30 seconds in the morning for mindset and focus.
I have some important events lined up so I did some my usual preparation, nothing fancy or at length, just the usual mental rehearsals, potential outcomes, visualization and preparing my outfit, scent, and all the usual. Nothing new or special.
But here’s what happens when you introduce the newest genius of the Subclub’s family.
The details are far more extensive and further personalized but I threw pictures of my notes into the AI and asked it to conceal and make it more general.
Marathon Man
PREPARATION TIMELINE
DAY BEFORE:
- 7:00PM: Select perfect attire that makes a statement (a splash of color shows confidence)
- 8:00PM: Ensure clothing is impeccably prepared (sharp creases speak before you do)
- 8:30PM: Polish footwear to a mirror shine (first impressions start from the ground up)
- 9:00PM: Personal grooming with precision (details matter in the game of attraction)
- 10:00PM: Early sleep for that perfect glow (minimum 7 hours for that sparkle in your eyes)
OPERATION DAY:
- Morning: Revitalizing skin preparation (cold water splash + moisturizer works wonders)
- Midday: Light meal (avoid foods that might betray you later)
- Afternoon: Complete grooming routine (perfection takes time)
- Afternoon: Mental preparation (5-minute visualization of success)
- Afternoon: Begin dressing process (no rushing—confidence can’t be hurried)
- Afternoon: Travel with time to spare (arrive like you own the moment)
- Consider flowers/gift that tells a story (7-9 roses never fails to impress)
GRAND PERFORMANCE SEQUENCE
PHASE 1: VENUE ENCHANTMENT
- Arrive fashionably early (45-60 minutes before the main event)
- Perform subtle reconnaissance (know every entry, exit, and quiet corner)
- Position yourself where you’ll be noticed but not obvious
- If their friends or family are present:
- Maintain intriguing distance but establish visual presence
- Project relaxed confidence with occasional mysterious glances
- If noticed: Respectful nod with slight smile (plants the seed)
PHASE 2: ATTENTIVE OBSERVATION
- Select perfect viewing position where you can observe without staring
- Note specific details that show you’re paying attention:
- Something technical they excelled at
- An emotional moment that touched you
- Something unique about them no one else would notice
During intermissions:
- Remain slightly apart from crowds (distinctive)
- Resist the urge for premature contact (anticipation is everything)
- If approached: Warm, brief interaction (leave them wanting more)
PHASE 3: PRIMARY ENCOUNTER APPROACH
OPTION A: DIRECT APPROACH
- Time your approach like a perfect dance move
- Move with purposeful stride that turns heads
- Approach strategies:
- Maintain that mysterious smile that intrigues
- Make eye contact that speaks volumes without words
- Have a clever opening line that seems spontaneous
- If questioned: “I couldn’t wait another moment to see you” works wonders
OPTION B: DESIGNATED MEETING POINT
- Position yourself first in line (eagerness has its charm)
- Maintain relaxed vigilance (50% attention on entrance, 50% looking casually amazing)
- When they appear: Lock eyes with a smile that says “Finally!”
OPTION C: GROUP SETTING APPROACH
- Position near the group with casual elegance
- Read the room before making your grand entrance
- When noticed:
- Let them come to you if possible (anticipation builds interest)
- If no approach after 30 seconds: Initiate with confident charm
PHASE 4: THE ENCHANTMENT SEQUENCE
OPENING MOMENT:
- Initial positioning: 4-5 feet distance (respect the bubble, for now)
- Genuine smile with direct eye contact: 2-3 seconds (not a second less)
- Opening line: Something that acknowledges your absence but promises presence
- Pause for their reaction (this tells you everything)
CORE INTERACTION:
- Gift presentation: “These are just a small token of what I wanted to express…”
- Brief explanation with a touch of mystery: “Let’s just say I couldn’t stay away”
- Specific compliment: Notice something no one else would
- Connection reinforcement: “Our time together has been on my mind”
CIRCLE ACKNOWLEDGMENT (IF OTHERS PRESENT):
- Brief glance to others with a smile that says you’re not a threat
- Integration line: “I hope you don’t mind me stealing a moment of your time”
- This shows social awareness while making them feel like the center of your universe
- Watch for subtle cues from their companions (approval opens doors)
CLOSING FLOURISH:
- Future bridge: “I’m already looking forward to next time”
- Decision power: “Just let me know when and where”
- Exit line with impact: Words that linger after you’re gone
- Physical closure: One step back with maintained eye contact (leaves them wanting more)
ENCHANTMENT TACTICS
CAPTIVATION ELEMENTS:
- Voice: 10-15% deeper than normal (the subtle rumble that intrigues)
- Speech: Slightly slower pace with perfect timing (like good music)
- Expression: Slight eyebrow raise when they speak (says “you fascinate me”)
- Posture: Shoulders back, subtle confidence (power without arrogance)
- Gestures: Open palm movements when expressing feelings (shows sincerity)
EMOTIONAL ENGAGEMENT:
- Vulnerability statement: “I’ve been looking forward to this more than I probably should admit”
- Appreciation whisper: “Your time is precious—I don’t take that for granted”
- Memory connection: “I’ve been thinking about our last conversation…”
- Future implication: “I have something special planned next time”
DISRUPTION MANAGEMENT:
- If they seem rushed: Immediately shift to “the 30-second version”
- If others appear uncomfortable: “I’ll let you get back to your friends”
- If introduced to their circle: Brief, charming greeting that leaves them wanting more
AFTERGLOW PROTOCOLS
STRATEGIC EXIT:
- Depart with confidence through main exit (never look back)
- Shoulders relaxed, head high (you’ve already succeeded)
- If unexpected second encounter: Brief, knowing smile (the sequel is always better)
FOLLOW-UP CHOREOGRAPHY:
- +24 Hours: A simple message that recalls a moment from your encounter
- +48 Hours: If no response, one final note with no pressure
- Next Meeting: Arrive 10 minutes early with a surprise element planned
SUCCESS SIGNALS:
- Their expression during first sight of you (pupils don’t lie)
- Physical distance they maintain (closer is better)
- Introductions vs keeping you to themselves
- Proactive suggestions for next meeting
- New contact methods offered (the holy grail)
This artful blueprint provides a strategic framework for creating memorable encounters that blend subtle charm with calculated spontaneity. Remember: the most captivating moments appear effortless but are meticulously choreographed.
The notes go into further nuanced details such as the color scheme of the suit itself; the event is more suited for me to wear a Tux, but the event itself isn’t the main purpose but the key point is rather a sort of an apology, so I went with a classic striped blue suit and white. Even the flowers coloring are chosen with purpose. The details extend to switching from my preferred Oud and leather based scents to a more sweeter Black Orchid.
Further; today, I observed a clear difference in the level of respect from others, it felt like a sort of reverence, maybe it’s Heartsong and spiritual custom interacting.
The voice hold a different kind of power, very different than Commander, which is the title that had police officers and security show a level of fear like I could put you in bad situation. This one is different. Naturally, Commander’s baseline would now take this level and integrate it. Closest I could explain it is Voice Is Law with Emperor’s Voice and Heaven Shaking Power mixed with Commander. The thing is, I am still soft spoken in general but there is a fire that I feel within that tranquil whisper. The word that I seem to beat the crap out of it until the bat split into pieces is Confidence 
Body language, specifically movement and posture feels like an invincible presence, like when you’re really grounded in movement after you’ve been doing some bar squats, which I didn’t do today.
The general charm is there, like the best parts are out in the forefront without any anxiety or hesitation of how it would be perceived; its just expressed. Words just come out exactly as they are truly fit, every , parry and riposte, like a wordsmith fencer with a draconian mercurial tongue. And I’m in a culture where the people are known to hold a tongue that I firmly believe could melt a mountain in eloquence. The charm was so brilliant that the shopkeeper offered me his employees discount on top of a 60% Sale price, which earned me as I now realize a treasure nugget (Treasure Hunter module is in two my customs). He further introduced me to himself, and assured me that he will personally see that they hasten the size re-adjustment to what I purchased. Also, used IC when it first dropped for 30 seconds.
So to those wondering if anxiety is dealt with, it is. The idea of always knowing what to say without second thought is enough to take some heavy burden to some aspects of social anxiety.
There’s plenty more and I am for certain having this with ASBR and Daredevil
