@Fire could you please add something in Primal to address this issue?
I enjoy evolving, learning and improving. However, when it comes to something so ābasicā as success with women, it feels bad to improve this. I keep getting the thoughts that: āI am a man, I am supposed to be born knowing how to seduce women. What is wrong with me that I have to learn how to do it at this age?ā And so there is friction, where I put effort into this and part of me considers any effort into it confirmation of being a loser, inadequate, and not able to do something as ānaturalā as seducing women.
Intellectually, I know this is not true. But this seems to be a very strong belief. That as a man, you should be able to seduce women, and if you donāt know how to or fail, it means something is wrong with you and youāre not a man.
I have been listening to limitless since release, and SS since the release of v1. This belief is still strong and did not subside. Yes, I āforceā myself to do it through willpower, however I hope Primal in some way will make it feel like:
I am awesome the way I am, and I enjoy getting better to become the best version of myself and get more and more out of life.
Without this saying anything about me being āless thanā and that is why I need to improve and fix things.
I know there is in self-development a talk about this paradox, that the more you work on improving yourself, the more you confirm to your subconscious that you are not good enough as you are and therefore destroy your self acceptance in the process.
If you can add something about this in Primal, everyone involved will benefit immensely and the process will be much more fun because it will mean something good rather than confirm inadequacy.