Look for smaller changes! ✨

[sid]

@SaintSovereign

“Major change” is just a bunch of small changes that add up to a large one. Look for the smaller changes.

Because we usually miss the Small changes and are looking for the major and grandiose results . I will take the challenge of listing 1000 small change you can notice in your self your reality . When you notice that change and recognise it say this amalgam
"the sub works "

there will be alot of editing to this post so please share your small changes we can notice and I will add them to this post

1. buying new glasses (level of identity change factor)
2. cleaning your shoes/clothes regularly
3. cleaning your home and place
4. start reading or desiring to read books or magazine about the subject of the sub
5. sitting and visiting new places
6. a new activity is knocking the door of your life ex horse riding , skydiving etc possibilities unlimited
7. feeling more stability , grounddness , lightness , excitement , anticipation
8. speaking about your self more with others aka “opening up” or maybe the opposite
9. or enhancing the ability when to open up and when to hold off
   the way you present your thoughts and opinions to others logically or spontaneous
10. what is your tone and body language when you present your opinions
11. the way you use your phone
12. small habits are you now considering
13. visiting back your old desires
14. new music taste (look for the energy This type of music provide is it soothing or energising )
15. you find yourself browsing about the topic of your sub if it’s HOM may find yourself browsing about small companies for sale
16. Start to join new social media groups about the topic of the sub
17. you find yourself interested in learning a certain skill
18. people you admire comes to your mind
19. thinking about the people you admire life journey (modelling is active at this point )
20. new found interest in personality types
21. you find yourself in energy reserving mode (efficiency)
22. you intuitively understand every step matter (this result because it means 1) you now care about the process and not just the end goal 2) self sabotage at a minimum
23. you start acknowledging and recognising the strength of other people
24. accepting and receiving gifts gracefully .
25. you learner what gifts to give and how to present them
26. words and situations that triggered feeling and modes of victimhood or self pity or hopelessness . Is not effecting you any more or these feelings intensity at it’s minimum
27. more engagement with your life the people around you active interest in your work and life (this means high energy )
28. you find yourself sleeping more especially with paragon
29. thinking that you can succeed on your endeavour
30. thinking that the situation can be different than the last time eg: you will perform better in this new relationship or your coming business or test
31. thinking that a situation can be different compined with feeling of stability and certainty
32. changing your hair style either it’s colour , length etc
33. finding yourself more attentive to the way you spend money , treat your parents , friends etc
34. starting to put more effort here and there
35. if you are playing rich you will start to notice pepole around you get richer every one in his own way and level , (your mind is paying attention)
36. if you are playing wanted you will see what makes everyone attractive or not . (Your mind is paying attention )
37. anxiety subsiding (stability in your new reality) or anxiety approaching (recon)
38. you start seeing and recognising the potential of people as a business partner romantic partner etc
39. you start seeing and recognising the potential of certain business ideas or business tactics
40. you take a new action and you look back that your fear was at bay (neutral)
41. you start seeing coincidentally people out of your sphere of influence for example if you are an accountant then you may see (writers , party organisers , fashion designer etc
42. you start paying attention to dimensions you never cared for . Example : in your fitness you start to care about 1) agility , 2) reaction time 3) coordination etc instead of just the regular known thing like healthy eating , physical attractiveness
    Example : in your finances plus caring for regular things like saving and tax management you start paying more attention to your income streams insurance retirement planning
43. instead of being absent-minded and living your life aimlessly you wake up and start paying attention
44. feeling regrets of certain addiction and waking up the intention of removing that addiction from your life
45. you start exploring the culture you want to be part of . Wanting to be a a coder you read biographies , join forums , social media groups (by this you are connecting yourself to the energy of this reality )
46. people who triggered in you feeling of enviousness , or inferiority complex . Are not triggering it any more because now you find yourself actively and positively engaged in your own way .
47. instead of living your life avoiding pain , you start looking to challenge your self
48. instead of believe I don’t deserve to be safe , you start securing and protecting your source of livelihood
49. instead of believing "no one would want to have sex with me " you start recognising partners who would want to have sex with you.
50. instead of believing " no one will be interested in some one as scrrwed up as me " you start putting your life in order and gaining some ones affection .
51. instead of believe " I refuse to bring child into such a messed Up world" you start healing a broken relationship
52. instead of believing " I’m too selfish to be of any use to anyone " you start belonging to or fitting in with a group
53. instead of acting like you don’t need others to be fulfilled you start building deep relationship with others
54. Instead of being unable to do things alone. You start cooperating with others
55. Instead of Living for the moment, and never thinking of or planning for the future. You start to think through your life in 3 months 6 months 2 years and 8 years
56. Instead of Falls in and out of love easily — loves 'em and leaves 'em type of situation , you start recognising what type of partner that makes you tick and you learn from your past relationships
57. Instead of being manipulative and flirtatious.you start to have deeper conversation with the people you like
58. Instead of being impulsive , you find yourself thinking and reflecting about the best course of action
59. Instead of being very self-focused , you start expanding your care , compassion and your help to your inner circle either it’s family members, friends or pepole on work
60. Instead of being very opinionated and thickheaded , you start recognising the valiablity of other options , opinions and ways .
61. Instead of forgetting the goal at hand , you remind yourself regularly about why take certain action , why you meet someone and why you have this new behaviour . Now everything thin is centred and connected to your goal (all your systems aligned)
62. Instead of becoming irrational because of your need to win at all costs , you start seeing the flaw on your logic and way of acting and change the course of action accordingly.
63. Instead of taking on the traits of your aggressors in order to feel equal to them , you start to have pride , confidence and trust on your abilities and skills .
64. Instead of being only attracted to powerful men/women , you start recognising, building up and expressing your own power . (You recognise that you are the centre)
65. Instead of being workaholic , you start recognising that your own worth is not dependent on you being workaholic then you start playing the game in a little bit more smarter way and so on.
66. Instead of always strategizing , you start doing the work needed to achieve certain goals
67. Instead of being unable to fully express your feminine side and be in touch with your body , you find yourself moving your body more and dancing a lot more and expressing yourself in intimate ways .

[sid]

Hey @salchichon

@Salchichon

t. I do not want to define myself as hard gainer or similar yet.

And I don’t think that you are hard gainer also . Have can eye on the above list it will be updated regularly . I think you will find it helpful in recognising the smaller results that are accumulating in your experience . Wishing you all the best

[TheSunlightCaller]

@sid

Because we usually miss the Small changes and are looking for the major and grandiose results .

@sid that is me to a t. I want the big over night changes and don’t celebrate the small changes.tha do happen. Thanks for the post.

[sid]

68. Instead of Finding your sole identity wrapped up in helping or saving others, you start to care about your self,life and aspirations.

69. Instead of Worrieing constantly about your children , you start cultivating peaceful & trusting attitudes in word and deeds.

70. Instead of self-sacrificing and taking on too many projects at one time because you can’t say no , you start growing your boundaries , to learn how to communicate your desires

71. Instead of taking things family says personally , you start realising that they 1) may don’t know you 2) or you need to learn how to take criticism 3) or realising that your worth is not dependent on other people’s opinions

72. Instead of Needing someone to care for , you start to become an embodiment of self love without any need for outer reality validation

73. You find yourself crying while having a sense of relief

74. Instead of Depending on your husband’s/wife or friends’ love for happiness , you start cultivating happiness that comes from within and start realising that giving happiness expand yours .

75. Instead of Dropping your friendships when you finds Mr./Mrs. Right , you start to have a stable and engaging social relation with your past and current network

76. Instead of Seeing your identity as wrapped up in your family, you expand your identity definition , you may have new interests & activities , new social circle

77. Instead of being obsessive in your need for order , you start open space in your life for spontaneity and you start seeing coincidence and synchronicity that teaches you about a higher type of order

78. Instead of being dead serious , you start knowing how to have fun with others.

79. Instead of Living in isolation even if others are around , you start sharing parts of your life with others and newfound trust and appreciation is springing out from your heart

[TheSunlightCaller]

@sid

Instead of taking things family says personally , you start realising that they 1) may don’t know you 2) or you need to learn how to take criticism 3) or realising that your worth is not dependent on other people’s opinions

@sid You go for the heart! Lol.What more can I say.

[sid]

Thanks! @TheSunlightCaller , wish you all the best

[sid]

80. Instead of being shy and somewhat timid at times , you start to relax more , release fears and building your confidence and social skills
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81. Instead of Living in your head too much , you start to do physical activities or find yourself interested in relationships in general with humans, animals and nature

82. Instead of Doesn’t really want to be “here” and dreaming of other planets or dimensions , you start realising the beauty and magnificent of physical life , you start to have new personal experience of concepts like as above so below .

83. You still Tells people the truth even if it’s harsh , but now you do it without aggression with compassion and love pouring out from your heart .

84. You still Pushes people beyond their limits to help them grow. , But you do it in more sophisticated version including new dimension example if you coaching basketball players instead of focusing only on their physical skills , you teach and train them about the importance of 1) there family 2) how they manage there money 3) how they deal with angry & not satisfied fans etc for the purpose of creating whole some players in and out of court

85. Instead of Doubting your self , you start have good feeling about what future holds for you

86. Instead of Dependent on someone else for your survival and freedom , you start building your own sources of income and have and secure plan Ps

87. Instead of Needing attention and loving the spotlight , you start to get the attention you needed and are now learning how to behave and speak under spotlight example how to face the camera , where and how to stand on the stage , you are now preparing for the opportunities that may come to you

88. Instead of Having trouble committing to one relationship , you start to heal your old relationship

89. Instead of not understanding the consequences of your actions , you start reflecting back on all your past actions either positive or negative and now you’re thinking through the best course of actions to take

[sid]

90. Instead of Walking around with rose-colored glasses as if nothing will happen to you , you now able to look fearlessly on the worst case scenario without trembling and losing your focus and clarity of mind

91. Instead of Keeping your opinions to yourself to please others , you learned and realised that your opinion matters and it may benefit others even if it harsh . now you are developing your communication and conflict resolution skills while releasing any anger you may hold

92. You may still Feels entitled to a separate life outside of the family and marriage , but at the same time you realise that this doesn’t mean living carless and aimless life . At the same time you do progress toward living the life you dream about .

93. You may still Feels your wife should take care of all the day-to-day family issues so you won’t be bothered , at the same time you learned to express what you feels in words instead of expecting others know what you think of without verbalising it , another possibility that you now flexible in your expectations and help her when needed (possibilities are endless)

94. you may still Enjoys instilling fear in others but decided to transform this need to movie creation , novel writing we may be blessed with another great writer . Another possibility that you realised that you can achieve your goal with cooperation with others and healed yourself from destructive behaviours /attitudes .(possibilities are endless)

95. Instead of having trouble expressing your emotions and seeing them as weaknesses , you start to have another perspective about emotions and how it’s driving Human behaviour , you now start seeing/knowing role models who are powerful and respectful yet still expressing there emotions . Maybe you start expressing your emotions to people close to you only at first

96. You may still Obsesses about your career , but now you realise that with simple habits you can inject liveness on your other priorities (family, health ,etc) , to avoid looking back regrettably after years and realise that you neglected important aspects .

97. You may still Gives your attention only to those who can further yiur career , at the same time you may start to offer help using your experience to help other people’s careers and life .

98. Instead of being arrogant , you now channel this energy of power to encourage and give credit to others you become a beacon of hope and people start seeing you as great leader.

99. Instead of Doesn’t handling rejection well , you now have new perspectives about what rejection is , combined with your arising confidence in your self and skills . Rejection now is not a big deal any more.

[sid]

100. Instead of Physically reacting to an attack without thinking that lead to more trouble , now your intuition is on spot making you to know what is the best choice to do .
101. instead of Acting as if fighting for your survival all the time,you start to relax more , realise that you are safe and cared for and a strat of trusting relationship between you and the world .
102. You may continue to Live on the edge , but now you give your self time for rejuvenation so you keep advancing without depleting your energy .

[TheSunlightCaller]

@sid

Instead of Physically reacting to an attack without thinking that lead to more trouble , now your intuition is on spot making you to know what is the best choice to do .

@sid I think I need to work on a little more. Lol!

[Leandros]

Great topic @sid

Bravo e Grande

[sid]

Thanks @Leandros Glad you like it whenever you have time share small changes we can all notice

[Leandros]

Small is not small in this case

[sid]

Enterprenual and business small results to notice :

103. you are learning in theory and action how to build an optimized business that exceeds your entrepreneurial and financial goals.

104. You are learning and applying the right tools and Principles, you are gaining a clear path to consistent and sustainable growth - without risking your company’s stability or your sanity.

105. You are now considering to Create roles and processes that dramatically upgrade you and your team’s abilities, while amplifying your unique skills and passions.

106. You are now Harnessing ingenious automation frameworks to free yourself from work you’d rather not be doing, while building a business that runs, earns, and grows by itself - even if you decide to take a month off, a year off, or even forever off.

107. You are always contemplating with your self your team and your inner circle questions like this
     Does my product or service in its current form match the grand vision you have for it?
     how to leverage your upgraded systems and processes to create, perfect, and market the best version of your offering to the world.?

108. You are now Dreaming or considering to Create a working environment that elevates you into the most effective and inspirational leader you can be. and as result of this , Work satisfaction, collaboration, and each team member’s personal growth are skyrocketing under your watch.