Those hard conversations are often walls finally being broken down, with love and connection waiting on the other side.
Sometimes feeling safe is what allows you to open up and be vulnerable about fears or insecurities that you’ve been wanting to express for a long time but have been too afraid to.
Those conversations don’t go perfect, but if navigated well, can be the connection you don’t want but the one you need
Well, I snapped out of the recon. Feeling great. Realized that I haven’t been doing ANY routines for a long time. Did a bunch today and that was really hepful.
Maybe the recon wasn’t even recon, it was just awareness of what my life was like.
But, also listened to my LE/COMM custom to boost things up today…
I will not be pushing healing subliminals (other than EOG1) on myself again any time soon… ESPECIALLY not 15 minute loops , my god.
Yep that’s what I always tell her, she dreads those conversations and they are hard and they usually get very messy.
But on the other side, we have more love, understanding, and compassion for each other. And our relationship is now stronger too.
So I lean in, and now she does too, which is awesome because she used to be scared to say the wrong thing (I can be pretty critical of semantics lol), but now she is way more comfortable expressing herself, which makes me happy even if sometimes it’s pointing out some flaw that I have to work on haha
It’s almost bed time so I’ll journal on this later but WOW the Purity Without module is hitting me hard.
Look at the post I just made above. PW has meshed with LBFH to use self love to heal cleaning.
I realized I never learned to clean because my parents as a child made it very clear that if I wasn’t clean, I wasn’t loveable, and me being messy today is my way of saying “see, people love me, and I’m messy, ha!”
I didn’t realize any of this until I was swiffering, sweeping, doing laundry, and washing, then halfway through that “oh god I forgot purity without is in my custom, damn is it working fast!
@Billions : Now this is intriguing. I actually added PW to the wealth and productivity custom that I’m about to order. Then I removed it because I thought it didn’t belong in there. What type of custom did you build?
Well… crazy events have been happening.
First, I signed up for Eli Wilde’s mastermind to go to his house and have a sales-focused-mastermind-weekend with him and a couple of people close to him in his organization. This is in Miami, on Friday and Saturday in Q4 (I won’t say what date for privacy reasons, don’t want to share my travel plans online.)
Eli Wilde is the #1 sales person for Tony Robbins, for context.
A couple of weeks before that, I became colleagues with a prominent online guru, who also worked with Tony Robbins, I go to his house monthly for masterminds/men’s work now, where we don’t keep it high level, we go deep into our fears, insecurities, goals, passions… vulnerable stuff, so we have a level of connection, I give him fat hugs, etc., and I’m going to his house tomorrow for his halloween party.
But it’s not like I’m close with him 1 on 1, although I’d like to be, which is the point of this post.
And
I just found out that the Joel Kaplan in person mastermind is in Miami, on the THURSDAY BEFORE THE ELI WILDE FRIDAY MASTERMIND.
So I’m literally gonna go to Joel Kaplan’s mastermind, then have a VIP dinner with him and the speakers and whoever else paid for the dinner, then I’m going to Eli Wilde’s house the next day for a sales mastermind.
This is only a few days after first declaring I want to build a more powerful network. Just randomly found out the two masterminds are back to back and instantly pulled the trigger on the Thursday one without even really thinking about it.
@Invictus definitely want your support on this if you’ve got tips.
I’ve always been liked but not necessarily had the deepest connections with people, especially more accomplished people.
I know you’re the master at deep connections with higher-level people.
What do I have to do/run/work on so that when these masterminds happen, I make powerful connections of people I become good friends with, even if they’re running businesses doing 2-5M per year?
I’m thinking Stark, or maybe just inner circle
Also thinking GLM in terms of just having that raw power people respect before listening to Stark
@AlexanderGraves would love input on this question too.
Interesting when I looked up 48 laws of power (because I was looking at power can corrupt) I found this interesting bit…
The NEW 48 laws of power.
And they’re actually really good.
Subs that might work for these goals of building up highly accomplished network.
I think Stark would be really helpful, it’s in line with all my goals really, not just this narrow one.
Love Bomb and/or True Social before the event.
HOM’s very first objective is Attract and manifest high value (net worth and knowledge) friends, associates, partners and allies who can help you achieve your goals. which is powerful, but that’s a hella dense sub.
Maybe that’s why HOM gave me recon… because I didn’t want to make connections, I purely wanted to make money solo. Maybe just like how you need EOG1 to heal money beliefs before undertaking HOM, you might need Chosen or True Social to heal beliefs about connection before listening to HOM.
Inner Circle’s objectives are literally perfect
Find, meet and manifest people ideal for you and your situation
Meet mentors that will help you achieve greater results in any area of life you consciously choose
Manifest lovers that will be ideal for you, if you stack it with a romance subliminal.
Manifest acquaintances, associates, mentors, etc. to help you achieve all wealth / success / fitness goals
Meet individuals who will become real friends that will be with you through thick and thin.
Meet people for highly specific purposes.
… and much more.
And then of course, my tried and true classic, Ascended Mogul, with Ascension being all about status and connections.
Hey man, thanks for your comment.
As for your question, I would say that 2 things matter the most:
your social skills
your reputation.
Both need to be developed equally, and I would say that Stark is perfect for this, however, so is HoM.
I would say HoM + TS + IC + Gloryseeker + lifeblood fable + Transcendental connection + Yggdrasil + Jupiter would be more than enough 
.
Inner circle will obviously be great
Sounds like your results with that are great already.
Stark will work with a bent on pulling you towards innovation and potentially other interest-so while the inner circle component might be good- it’s likely to introduce some volatility (not including recon) into the system that is your orientation, purpose, and life.
I’ve found for networking to be really valuable the more you have a clear orientation, direction, offer/value proposition, and your own ecosystem while NOT leading with that the better or even bringing it up the better. Then a moment will come where as there is a perfect fit/ or clear ask.
HOM is incredible for network building. I’ve been running it and just today got a random call from an old friend asking me to be consult or be a co-founder for their start up.
I’ve connected with the people I am most interested in connecting with and their building communities with me in real time.
As far as coming across as powerful and some one others want to connect with
hands down Khan. I hate to say it but no other sub brings together my absolute sense of value and confidence in myself, my best in every interaction- especially political, coaching, negotiation, social, seduction. Khan is simultaneously like absolute conviction in the hunt of whatever kind, while absolute laid back power
Now the recon on Khan for me is still really turbulent and it’s not the time to run it but ultimate stack for networking imo
Khan, HOM, True Sell
Sorry, just to clarify, I’ve never ran inner circle! Just have been thinking about it this last week, even before recent revelations. The timing and manifestation was crazy… wanted a network, then these masterminds happen back to back.
This is what @SaintSovereign Must have been referring to when he mentioned recon from a stack you haven’t even run yet.
Just from the intention to run IC, I’m getting IC results
Yeah I still think Stark is an advanced sub for later once you’ve built the foundation.
@invictus style… yesterday I was looking at clothes, needed a wardrobe update. Today, my friend gave me some of the best fitting shirts I’ve ever owned in my life, 12 new shirts in total, and $200USD jeans that fit me like a GLOVE