Renaissance Man - First Loop
Last night, I was talking to my girlfriend about how it feels running RM in social situations, and I said a lot, but I ended it all by saying "I’ve never felt so free in my life
I was free to dance, and I normally never dance, but any time music came on, while we were all just sitting there I was dancing in my seat, laughing and swaying to 2000’s rap like 50 Cent - Candy Shop and Akon - Mr. Lonely. Rather than be the odd duck, it inspired everyone to enjoy the music more. I was free to dance
Conversationally I was free flowing. What I was saying was great and everyone was receptive to it, but, even more importantly, I never had a second of doubt around whether or not I should say something. I was free to speak my mind, and did so, and it came out eloquently and I learned and had fun in our convos.
As far as the social dynamic was concerned, i was free from the worries of who’s coolest, who’s alpha, who’s not. I lived in a better paradigm, where I was having fun, everyone was having fun, everyone was equally awesome. And because of that, I noticed that I ended up on the top of that social ladder at times. But I didn’t care if I was, or if I wasn’t.
And of course, yesterday overall, even before going out, was just so tremendously fun. And purposeful. I didn’t use my day yesterday to have a productivity grind, but I did great things like reading, connecting with my gf, cooking, going to the gym and sauna, and never felt bored for a second. I woke up with such tremendous optimism that I KNEW it was going to be a good day the moment I opened my eyes