I have to make a tough call on things. Lately I’ve been going through a lot of recon and I keep telling myself “when you get past this it’s all gonna better”. And I have my days don’t get me wrong, but I’m losing days almost every week where I just don’t do anything. And by dont do anything I mean I just get stuck, stuck in this feeling of anxiety that keeps me in place. And my executive functioning gets worse. I can’t relax and I can’t do anything, it’s absolute hell for my mind.
My main issue is I need consistent input with subs. It keeps me “level” so to speak. The problem is, my mind can’t tolerate the processing. So more rest days are unfortunately not the answer as too long away from the subs and I revert to bad habits that I haven’t fully broken free of yet.
3 titles might be too much. And this custom along with ZP might be pushing things a bit for me.
Qv2 is still arguably heavier than ZP for me. My custom hits me like a sledgehammer. A few hours after running it and I have a tendency to descend into this deep internally focused state filled with heavy emotional processing that pulls me away from being able to do much else. Unless I have something like coffee or take my stimulants. I’m suspecting it’s part of the emotional dysregulation that comes with ADHD. ADHD brains can’t “put things aside” so when it’s there it’s there. I’m not saying compartmentalizing all the time is good, but it has its uses when you need to get things done. Unfortunately it seems I’m very deficient in that.
So I’m thinking of dropping wanted zp. Main reason being. I’m in no place right now to invest in a new wardrobe, redefine my style, improve my looks, etc. I have a hard enough time just doing laundry on the weekends. That combined with the physical shifting demands and I think this is just asking too much than what I can reasonably give right now.
Dropping my Qv2 custom. It’s important, but again too much with ZP I think. This custom has fueled a lot of growth but it’s met with challenges. Again prior to ZP I was one loop a week for my custom, but I ran into that issue where one loop wasn’t quite enough but more than one demanded too much from me.
Current plan is UA ZP and Ascension ZP. Ascension to build my foundation more and UA to pursue my music goals. Cutting back to only 2 ZP titles I’m hoping I can balance out my recon more so I’m slanted towards positive results. Again not saying I haven’t been getting results, but I’ve been trying to bulldoze through all this and it hasn’t really been as efficient as I could have it.
@RVconsultant You have a lot better outside perspective on my growth. What do you think of my plan here?
All insight from others welcome as well. Don’t want to feel like I’m running away from wanted ZP and I definitely want to revisit in the future. But if Saint can’t handle 3 titles no way in hell I’m pulling this off right now.
Might hit an extended washout until the 4th which is my last day. That’ll give me about 8 days to recover and reassess what I want to do. This is probably gonna get painful.