I’ve read his book as a guy, and I have to tell you, for men it’s not as sexual as it is for women.
Female sexuality is different.
And the insights from the book are breathtaking even if you never should do the exercises.
You just start to understand yourself.feom a completely different perspective. One that allows more self love.
I’d say, give it a try.
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I am. Seems like it’s about shadow work. Something I know of but not really much about. Feel like I’m once again on a journey I wasn’t expecting. Not a bad thing though
@TheEmpress First few pages have me intrigued and laughing. For whatever reason I feel like I’m about to read a Jim Morrison biography.
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@TheEmpress Existential Kink so far sounds like something Dragon Reborn and Love Bomb would address
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As genuinely challenging and damned difficult as things have been, and they have been difficult, recognize that there is a strength and a spirit within you that has supported you and enabled you to survive; and that’s why you’re still here.
Strive to trust that spirit. Appreciate it.
And honor it, by always getting up and trying again; getting up and keeping on.
As children we heard, “it’s not about winning or losing, it’s about how you play the game." At first, those sound like empty words; to soothe, calm, or pacify us. (Especially if we are the ones who just lost!) Then you get older and you realize there really is nothing more precious.
All we really have is that heart, that effort, that spirit. All else? Smoke and dust.
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For me, adding Dragon Reborn: Phoenix to Love Bomb For Humanity took away a lot of the recon and made LBFH easier for me. At first, I had the stack as followed: 1. Day: Emperor and DR:Phoenix, 3. Day: LBFH. Then I switched to: 1. Day: Emperor, 3. Day: LBFH & Phoenix. What was a good choice. Since I did that, I rarely had self-doubt or bad thoughts and feelings about myself. Before, such feelings and thoughts were common.
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It reinforces the objectives from your titles for sure. 
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Play is the way!
I’m currently rereading ‘The Game of Life and How to Play It.’
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@James Your name is of Hebrew origin it means strength and leadership think of the great King James, think of James Bond a hero flawed with a tragic past yet he stands strong, a man of power.
James Cameron a great man indeed !!! do you recall the movie the titanic ?
James Dean an icon of the 1950s who women wanted to sleep with a rebel without a cause.
Now go and walk the path of the rest of the James’s and mark your place in history.
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My uncle James is pretty great too.
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See @James I see a pattern of greatness in each James a greatness awaiting to be unleashed !!
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And dont forget him…
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@James unpopular opinion, but how about DR:LD with LB ? you seem to mention fears about failing and struggling to love yourself. This is the best sub to build that momentum by removing the hold of these fears.
And, if you go this path keep DRLD at 30s
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Fuck !!! James Kirk I remember him from the 1970s !!
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I use LB with Phoenix. Can’t tell the effects, but I trust the process.
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Not a good day. Feeling bad about myself. Probably a sign I need to keep Love Bomb in my stack for forever possibly. Lots to work through. I don’t know if it’s recon or the fact that I have felt this way for so long if not most of my life
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Keep it going. It was the same with me, and in the first two cycles of LBFH I felt more bad about my self on some Days as before. In the third cycle it started to go away and never had that feeling again (except on the last washout of 7 days). It’s mostly the opposite now, means I mostly think good about myself. That’s absolutely a new thing but it feels so good 
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Good choice to par it with Phoenix. It worked wonders for me with LBFH.
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Are you welcoming the feelings to process?
I cried like an effing baby couple days ago with this title.
Shake dance & bounce it out of you.
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I do. I probably cry more than most guys. I can be super sensitive.
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