This is a much better phrasing of my
Thanks for that. And I’m gonna look into that book.
Is it a self-help book? Something I can put to use?
Or “just” information?
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Soooooo… if you want to be a coach, Psycho-cybernetics better be one of the books you know like the back of your hand. It is the precursor of 90% of everything that we have in personal development today.
As a matter of fact, if one of your clients mentions it and you don’t know what it is, you could lose some credibility. It’s an old book but very practical and entertaining.
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Getting the book on the 17th.
Even the German reviews were great and gave away more than I dared to expect.
@ James sorry for Hijacking your thread
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Hijack away. If my journal and journey can help others I am all for it
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I had the audio book version years ago. I struggled with it because I can’t seem to visualize no matter how hard I try
What I believe is that self-worth, action and goal setting go hand in hand if you want to make more money. Do you even have an idea how much you want to make? Do you have a number? Making one million yearly might be out of your comfort zone right now but what about making an extra $100 monthly? You have start somewhere! You can run subs forever and have the healthiest self-worth but until you start taking money making actions, you won’t make money. At your current level of self-worth, what is a monthly amount that you think you can create and it won’t trigger your limiting beliefs?
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I will have to think about that. Honestly don’t know.
Any advice on how to implement Psycho Cybernetics for a person that struggles with visualizing?
There is nothing to think about. Just pick a number and start working on it. I don’t care if it’s an extra $20 or $50 monthly. Making money is a habit, you have start building it somewhere.
If what you said here 
is true, for your own sake, pick a number and start working on it. How much time you think you got? You can’t say that you’re afraid of working until you die and then say that you haven’t thought about the lowest amount of money you can make easily.
Overthinking is avoidance. Avoidant people don’t make money. Don’t get stuck going in a circle @James . While subs are great, a small money-making action that could bring you $5 weekly will be enough to rock the foundations of your limiting beliefs. Time to start thinking practical, my friend!
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Damn I was thinking about this book yesterday lol
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I can say with certainty sticking to 30s will make things move faster for you. You’ll start stacking actions faster, those will build, and you won’t be bogged down in recon. When you do start getting good results, stick with the 30s for a bit till you move up. I always made the mistake of having the good things roll in on 30s, then thought that was a sign to bump it to 1 min for even better stuff. Nope, not how it works.
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Yeah you’re probably correct. As much as I was against microloops for so long it now seems like in order for things to work thirty second loops is what I have to do.
Not sure why it feels like by doing a less things will take forever but there’s nothing I can do
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If I had to give an analogy.
Have you ever been in a position where someone rattled off a task list to you or instructions and you only caught a small piece of it? Then you have to ask them to repeat themselves or go more slowly or worse you nod and pretend you got the instructions but didn’t (this is me, I’ve done this)
Same deal with the subs I think. A lot of that info is flying right over your head and then you have to doubleback which makes more work just trying to parse the instructions vs actually carrying them out. Better to build a small foundation of internal understanding of HOW to execute the sub and build off that. Cuz really these are new ideas, beliefs, mindsets, it makes a lot of sense why we won’t grasp it the first time around or second and even moreso why it’s different for everyone. Some people have that foundational knowledge or intuitive understanding to build off the sub and others don’t and have to construct it first.
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I appreciate the analogy. I get it. It just feels like I always have to be patient no matter what. I have almost accepted that I probably shouldn’t run anything other than Love Bomb until my self worth and self love improve dramatically. Even if that takes months or years. I honestly don’t know what else to do other than follow the advice given by everyone else.
Stick with one title for as long as possible. That means I have to fight the impulse to switch subs or add a title when an update or whatever comes. I want it to be worth it.
I honestly feel a couple of the biggest things I want to accomplish with LB is to stop comparing my life to others. What people do for them and what they’re able to do while I seem to endlessly struggle with no clear way out at this time
So many people have said on here that self love is the foundation of everything. I hope they’re correct .
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Found this just now on Reddit. After reading it a few times I think I can work on being patient
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You always struck me as one of the ones on here looking to improve himself no matter what and your posts are a testament to that and I fully believe you will conquer whatever it is you feel is holding you back.
Trust yourself James, you got this
Rooting for you bud
Peace
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Back to running one thirty second loop every other day. I’m not going to even think about increasing the time at all over the next couple of cycles. To me it’s a sign that I have a lot to work through which isn’t really surprising given my past.
I never thought that learning to love myself would be so difficult or time consuming
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James be strong keep your chin up brother and stay with LB !! you make these community proud.
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Each time @James stand in front of the mirror and read these affirmations every morning,
- I am worthy of love and respect just as I am.
- My self-worth is independent of others’ opinions or judgments.
- I embrace my strengths and accept my weaknesses with compassion.
- I give myself permission to grow and learn from my experiences.
- Every day, I am becoming a more confident version of myself.
- I am deserving of happiness, love, and fulfillment.
- My mistakes do not define me; they teach me.
- I treat myself with kindness and patience.
- I am a priority in my own life.
- I am proud of who I am becoming and celebrate my uniqueness.
- Self-love comes to me naturally and effortlessly.
- I honor my boundaries and insist others respect them too.
- I am filled with gratitude for the person I am.
- I am at peace with my past and look forward to the future.
- I radiate love, and it returns to me in abundance.
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Or I could just do what Kamal Ravikant recommended in "Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It " and just say " I love myself " all day .
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