Is WANTED black centered around the aura more than inner growth?

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#1

@AnswerGroup

I don’t usually do this, but I’d appreciate some honest input since you know more about these titles. I’ve been on WB for a little under 5 months now. The goal was long term, but I’m beginning to question if that’s doable anymore. I thought I could grow into this title but now I’m not so sure. It seems like from what I’ve picked up on the forums over these past few months is that WB is heavily aura based and it’s more about that than underlying personal development? Correct me if I’m wrong. I’m just trying to make sure I’m not spinning my wheels trying to utilize something that’s not the right tool for the job at my current level of growth.

Or asked a different way. Does the title have a very strong focus on aura and energy, then any subsequent supporting scripting is to further enhance utilizing that aura?

Truthfully I never expected women to throw themselves at me on this title. I know enough to understand an aura can’t sustain anything meaningful if there’s a lack of congruence behind it. That’s what I was hoping to develop, more than the aura itself. So if that’s not the case with WB maybe switching back to WANTED would make more sense for me.

I had to put my ego aside for this one, especially since I’ve already invested a few months into it and maybe should have assessed things earlier.

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#2

I thought that the main difference between Wanted and Wanted Black was indeed the heavy stress on aura. I am not good at distinguishing subliminal subtleties. I just know multiple women at work have wanted me since starting Wanted Black and I didn’t do anything different from before. Wanted OG didn’t do that. I ran Wanted Black non-stop till a few weeks ago… and Wanted non-stop till Wanted Black was released (years of exposure). If you don’t want to lose momentum, and of course if it’s feasible, add Sex & Seduction X to Wanted Black.

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#3

I literally had to keep blowing off some women at work. Some weren’t my type… others I was just concerned with their immaturity and the possible adverse consequences… I am no master seducer. That is why I originally added SSX… I bet most guys here are way more experienced than I am in seduction.

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#4

Yeah it’s not enough to just have women more interested in me. It runs deeper. That’s what I was looking to overcome with WB. I could add ssx, but I was looking to scale back vs add more if that makes any sense. Trying to give more bandwidth to execute a sub vs adding another one to fix an issue. I’m also running a Genesis custom for myself so idk maybe it’s too much.

#5

Wanted Black is definitely close to perfect in it’s goals. It’s possible Primal Seduction is what you’re looking for (or even maybe Wanted). I think I need it for my growth or I’d happily jump back on Wanted Black. I also started Emperor for the first time, as I think I need what it offers and I think it might solidify or bolster what I’m looking for in Primal Seduction.

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#6

No, that isn’t true. There’s an incredible amount of growth scripting in it geared toward the stated goals of Wanted Black. Thing is:

What are your goals, exactly? From your post, they seem pretty vague and as such, WB – as fun as it sounds – may not be the tool for you, and that’s okay. Some people just don’t resonate with those types of titles, especially if that’s not who you are at the core. Subliminal audio has its limits, it’s why we’re so confident that the individuals who do strange things are just being themselves – strange, rather than the titles. If Wanted Black just doesn’t fit who you are on a deep level, no amount of listening is going to force you to change. You have to be open to it, as well as genuinely want it.

When you say “develop the congruence” behind the aura, what does that mean? I get the impression that increased romance isn’t necessarily your main goal, but rather become the type of person who WOULD get the attraction.

If that’s the case, Wanted Black could do that, but you could start with something a bit more foundational. You might even want to consider something like Chosen, which builds an incredible amount of self-esteem and sense of self, and has a remarkable effect on potential romantic partners as they sense that positive leadership aura. @AlexanderGraves was one who noticed improved romance on it.

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#7

Thanks for the clarification. I guess I misunderstood some stuff

You know how sometimes people can look desirable and put their best foot forward, but it’s not sustainable? That’s kind of what I mean. A potent aura isn’t gonna do much for me if it’s smoke and mirrors. I actually really value authenticity, but I’m honest to a fault. So the contrast between a strong aura like that, but not exactly being able to back it up with my own actions and general state of being is troublesome. It’s almost like a type of imposter syndrome for me. I’d like to reach the point where I can be my authentic self, even with my flaws and be comfortable enough connecting despite that.

Admittedly my goals are a little vague. I have a tendency to be a perfectionist so I ended up on WB because I wanted to use it as a catalyst to experience more romance in a broad sense to really explore my options with less pressure of engaging in some type of commitment long term. I’m not really relationship material so I was trying to use this to bridge the gap of experience and learn more about myself. That might have been a stretch for this title though.

I am running a Genesis custom alongside WB to fill in the foundational gaps. I don’t know if that’s conflicting with things though or if I’d be better suited with something else. But I was also going to see if I could harness some of the scripting from WB into areas of music production.

This is my eternal struggle though. Something not fitting who I am on a deep level isn’t really discernible to me. I can’t tell if it’s a mismatch vs a comfort zone/fear thing. I’m also still learning to understand and validate my core self. I spent most of my life dismissing it just to get by so it’s not always the easiest thing to intuitively understand.

I guess writing all that out my usage of WB is kinda vague, but it still feels like it has some kind of purpose or slot in my life. I can’t really explain it beyond that.

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#8

So long as you do not care, you’ll be able to back it up. And YOU should think YOU are sexy.

Allow good things to come into your life on their own accord and don’t try to keep them but be grateful. And it’ll be ever so. You deserve good things in life. You don’t need anyone to be happy.

I did have many of these beliefs prior to Wanted/Black I should add…
And all of my friends are of a similar mind.

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#9

It sounds like PS or SSX is more of what you need. Helps you bring out your natural seduction style and refine / hone that. WB is very much a particular type of title, centered around the notion of being mysterious and elusive to entice women into “chasing” you. It might be a bit TOO focused for your tastes, given that you’re saying that it feels like having imposter syndrome.

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#10

My problem I think is that I love WB objectives and PS objectives, like I resonate with both. Like I think I prefer to approach because when girls approach me (which hasn’t happened in a while) I’m usually caught off guard. But I like the nonchalance and physical shifting aspects of WB, as well as just feeling cool and smooth.

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#11

I’ve kinda suspected for a bit now that creating an aura of mystery was working against me because my own sense of self is kinda hazy to begin with. Appreciate the advice. Learned a lot here from this thread and have some stuff to reflect on.

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#12

You gotta believe you deserve IT- regardless of what romantic title you play… and you do. You could try Emperor or something like that, which covers a lot of ground. I find Emperor super-empowering and I’ve only played it a few times.

Suppress the urge to doubt.

The universe is set up for you to succeed. Don’t interfere with the design by not fully understanding. You don’t need to understand everything.

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#13

Truth be told man I’ve abandoned cultivating belief in a vacuum. It’s a fickle thing for me that invites frustration. I just focus on running titles and trying to build new experiences to shape my view of life. I’ve found the most powerful change is when my long held beliefs dissolve in front of me when I see irrefutable facts that challenge them. Anything else just turns into hamster wheel ruminating for me.

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#14

Remember previous successes and where you were and how you felt. We all were great at something and we all were liked by someone also. Those states are the shortcuts… I heard this from a mentor.

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#15

For me wanted Black has an avalanche of internal growth and a aura like magic.

I did one loop in between my Khan Black st4 & Phoenix run and so far I stopped to chase after women, I flirt with reality, I accepted my shortcomings and turn them into a sexy feature of myself, I learned that Self value is more important than a woman can give me-also more consistent and solid, I am at peace to be alone, I enjoy my company, I am sexual attractive. I have and give myself value all the time. I flirt with women slightly and I love life and know the good things come to me

And so much more

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#16

We wanted a certain trait but then we keep doing the things pushing us away into realizing that.

We set a goal, a desire to somehow acquire that trait.

But then the real way is to get that goal to become part of us.

What I did with Wanted Black is not to prove that it won’t work but to tame it somehow.

The aura is just part of the equation, it’s in there and you don’t need to look around to make it work.

When I listen I make sure that I am ready, I am not holding anything. I am relax.

I keep noting changes on me, and I’m not ignoring the things I want to change but I let it pass. I’m always thankful on new good things.

What happens in the inner is different from the surface, you might be seeing people bend their reality with nice clothes and good perfume but on my own I am not wishing or waiting I am always expecting beautiful women to come to me.

After listening I have this thought and feeling that I am being so important. I noticed this everywhere and it doesn’t really matter if I had the proper clothes on or if I have taken a bath.

Don’t confuse Wanted Black with seduction.

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#17

@SaintSovereign I just realized a week ago while going through recon hell I wrote in my offline journal that SSX was probably the better path. Which I apparently promptly ignored. I’m guessing that was the self care scripting in action.

#18

What do you think about primal and ps?

#19

Not really for me at this point in time. I think one of my valuable lessons I’ve learned this past week is to be more selective with what subs I use.

#20

What do you mean when you say something isn’t “who somebody is”? I’m not quite sure I understand. How does somebody discern that something is an uphill battle, herculean task that’s ultimately still doable, and trying to get blood from a stone?

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