I’ve been listening to regeneration for two weeks and since then I feel like my life has continued to go downhill. I’m losing more of my friends and am just getting worse luck. Is this what reconciliation is like and should I keep going or is that a sign that I should stop?
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Don’t over-perceive the impact of the subliminal. You have the power in your life. The subliminals are just helping.
See if you can understand what’s happening with your friends in terms of your real-life interactions and the issues in them. If you weren’t using subliminals, how might you explain what’s going on?
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@footballman91
Thats one way of looking at it as @Malkuth explained.
The other way could be…again im just guessing. Those friends were feeding of your emotional state. You also felt good having them around because of your emotional state. Now that regeneration is working on you, those friends cant feed of your vulnerabilities and will fade. Also you seemed to have contentment with having those friends around that made you feel good and now that they fading you looking for that support from them. Thus feeling lonely. Remember there is nothing wrong with being alone.
My suggestion is dont stop the sub carry on. Regeneration is healing and healing is not the best feeling as well.
Stay strong buddy!
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Did you do anything that could cuase that reaction in your friends directly? Like insulting them or sth of that sort? I don’t thinks so just asking.
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Thank you for your advice, I’ll keep going and listening to the subliminals as I think they’re my best hope at getting a better life. I appreciate your advice and support
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I think inadvertently being rude, I never mean to but I’m in a certain mental state of perhaps depersonalization where I can’t think properly and I can never think of things to say to people. I’ve been using regeneration and Ultima elixir and I’ll be using daredevil soon as well in hopes that it could help with the situation.
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I like the way you put that, I have been expecting a little too much from subliminals recently. I think the ultimate problem that’s been happening is I have some sort of issue where like I can’t think properly so I can never think of things to say to people or responses in conversations. So I just end up not talking as much and I think I come across as rude because of it
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how many loops of regeneration are you running daily, and how many days off are you taking?
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My current stack is Regeneration 3X and elixir Ultima 2X and I’m trying to run it all day. I take two days off a week. I sometimes am not able to run it all day because of other obligations but I do try to listen to it as much as I can during the days that I listen
Let’s hope it’s only a temporary state of affairs, and I’m sure it is, and that those people accept apologies.
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Listen to the tune, mate, and relax 
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I saw your post when it came up this morning. You’re brave to admit these things. It could be reconciliation, but I am not convinced considering what you shared.
I have spent a bit of time on emotional healing subs, here and elsewhere. Something I’ve repeatedly seen and am facing now using Regeneration is that my old ways, old habits, and old reactions are being questioned and challenged. When that happens, old fears surface. When I am scared, it’s like I can begin thinking anyone in my vicinity wants to hurt me emotionally–I’m vulnerable, and by reaction, angry and defensive (even if I’m not verbalizing it). I wasn’t raised with an emotionally healthy parent, and I never learned how to sanely and safely protect myself. I’m at Subclub
- healing those issues, and
- finding out who I am and who I want to be.
- Life is short. Why not heal?
My guess as to why you’re losing friends is you’re scared and defensive due to Regeneration–and your facial expressions and verbal responses may be telling on you. I like to smile and be pleasant when with others…but when Regeneration has some memory pop up, I can feel suddenly young and defenseless. Me trying to hide it rarely works (effectively), as people who know me know something’s on my mind. They notice things I don’t.
Healing can feel like shit sometimes.
But there are victories. Definite ones. The small ones affect me the most, like me being mature today around a 30 yo adult having a whiny, angry temper tantrum when I spoke up about something I didn’t like. It turned out surprisingly well in the end since I didn’t react like I imagined I could. Regeneration (by itself, and also in my custom sub) along with Elixer are making a real difference for me. And being honest, I didn’t know what to expect starting it. My fears have continually tried to cease me using it. I’m still on them since others here are on similar journeys, so I don’t feel alone. That’s golden.
And also since I’m seeing some strengths appear, where all I saw before were weaknesses. That’s extra golden.
I wished to encourage you. It takes some guts to begin and stay on a healing sub . You made a brave start here.
Welcome aboard!
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Thank you for the encouragement and for sharing your story. Your story resonated with me because I went through a similar childhood and I appreciate you for sharing your experience because it gave me more motivation to keep going. I agree with you, I believe that it might just be my perception on things that everyone hates me and is wanting negative things for me. I’m actually wondering if everything is just based on our mental state, because it seems like when we’re in a bad mood everyone is mad at us and then when we get into a happy mood it’s like everything goes our way. Good luck with your journey too and may you have a quick recovery
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Thanks bro, I needed to listen to some upbeat music
If I’m seeing this right, this would definitely bring on reconciliation. A 3/2 mix is good, but if you’re continuously looping it, overload happens–and some undesirable reconciliation. Are you just leaving it on continuously, or are you stopping once these have run?
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For me, it’s exactly what you stated. I’ve learned I’m projecting my own thoughts and feelings onto them. When I sometimes see it, I quickly check if it’s me, or them. 99% of the time, it’s me. I’m trying to make it “their fault”, making myself innocent.
I just learned that a few years back. Owning my shit, when in fact it’s mine, keeps me out of quarrels. And that’s a relief. I’ve thrown a lot of barbs at people closest to me 
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Cheers!
We also have to bear in mind that life is changing all the time and we’re not condemned to be entrapped by the current circumstances. We’re all people, we all do crazy shit from time to time, as long as you didn’t do any real harm to anyone your conscience should be clear and your mind at peace. Best wishes, mate!
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I currently have that stack in a playlist on my phone that should keep playing in a loop. Do you think it might be a better idea if I were to take some breaks with it?
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That’s a good idea to do a quick check to see if it’s our own thoughts and feelings. I need to keep that in mind, I feel like that would save a lot of unnecessary fights especially ones that can end up causing permanent damage to a relationship.
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That’s a good point, in the heat of the moment I often forget that. Thank you, I’m gonna try to keep that in my mind. Best of luck to you too
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