You’ve highlighted some important points.
I had considered that possibility that you were not annoyed or frustrated by using the word “might”. So you clarified that it might be possible for someone to use harsh language and name calling even if one isn’t feeling anger or frustration.
Sometimes when I’m extending genuine empathy, I’m possibly inaccurate. I also realize empathy can be a risk for me as some people might object to, protest, misconstrue, or reject my use of empathy in what I offer or how I offer it.
Also “pretend” could be ambiguous. It could imply feigning the process of (that is, feigning to be empathic when I didn’t feel empathic), or it could imply falseness in the content (the guess I had about your feelings was inaccurate). If you meant in that you weren’t feeling annoyed or frustrated, and you didn’t actually feel that way, then I was inaccurate. If you meant it that I was extending empathy when I felt none, then you are inaccurate.
I would like you continue to post because you have made valuable posts in the past, and I expect you to do so in the future.
Please remember when you post that what ever you might be feeling, even if you are feeling nothing, and regardless of how you interpret or respond to what is posted, you are still expected to follow the rules for respectful posting.
As I look back on your posts, you seem to have an inclination towards insulting people’s mental capacity. Please stop the name calling, insults, and harsh language.