Exactly, lol.
9/10 men are addicted to PMO.
When you explain to these men that what they’re doing is basically a ritual designed to congruently damage them on all levels and castrate their self-worth, then they try to find some rationalization.
I’m talking about strictly porn. The pure voyeurism, the jerking yourself to another man having sex, the spikes of unnaturally high levels of dopamine that you can’t get in nature (100’s of attractive women and infinite novelty at the click of a button), the micro-transgression overtime of sexual desensitization leading to development of weird fetishes, the subconscious mental framing of one not being good enough, etc. Jerking to porn, is not rooted in any self-worth… it’s on the level of seeing a sex worker or some shit. It’s gross.
How is any of that healthy? It’s fucked up, lmao.
Someone said “balance”. There is nothing “balanced” about porn, lol what the fuck.
It’s beyond fucked up, depending on how healthy you are.
Normal, is healthy and fulfilling relationships with real women… not artificial pixels and watching men/women who don’t even know that you exist.
There is no such thing as having a high sense of self-worth and also having a PMO addiction… the math is not mathin. That’s not congruent.
People bring up NoFap sub-reddit and how it’s extreme…
The NoFap sub-reddit is literally the best example of PMO destroying self-worth, self-image, self-concept, and your psyche as a man on all levels. Look at the level of state, feeling, thought and perceptual change on a subconscious level that thousands and thousands of men experience from 1 PMO. The internal interplay is off the charts… one is either unaware of this or in denial of it. Or they’re already so fucked up that the screwed up baseline is just normal to them.
I promise you that there is absolute no healthy man in existence with a strong masculine framework of high self-worth, personal power, healthy sexuality, etc who is watching PMO. It’s not congruent… they wouldn’t be subconsciously compatible.
If you have high testosterone/sexual energy and are being overwhelmed by libido to the point that it’s difficult to focus, then some people self-regulate their sexual energy by masturbating. That’s just a mechanical act and manipulating your sexual energy… there is no visual stimuli, novelty, porn or voyeurism. That’s not going to damage your self-worth on the level of PMO. There is nowhere near the same level of interplay with your subconscious mind.
Porn is not self-improvement and it’s not self-neutral. It’s self-damage on a very high level.
Subliminals are self-improvement on a very high level.
If one was serious about growth, then they wouldn’t be doing both.
Your rate and level of self-improvement can be offset by self-damage and people are underrating the damage of PMO - that’s the whole point of my post.
Now of course, when I tell people to quit porn… 9/10 men want to jump me and flag all of my posts because they get hyper-defensive over the idea of dropping such a powerful addiction. They then normalize it and corroborate each other in a group-think fashion… bringing back the goal-post to where it’s “okay”, “normal” and “just balance bro”, in regards to porn… like good luck. I want absolutely no parts, lmao.
