The Americans that start sex officially at 18 are they better?
most of them are worst than one can imagine 
I know that. I know what a harem means in Islam, and I know it’s halal.
In the western world, harem is interpreted like a sexual fairy-tale. I’d guess there were a few rulers (Sheikhs, Sultans, Kaliphs, Emirs,…) with huge harems like King Salomo.
But for the normal average guy, the rules are as you described.
I studied Islam for one semester, I know the basics, but that’s not that much. That’s why i said we would have to ask an Imam on that. Bu you delivered the answer straight, so no need for that.
I overlooked this because I was in the hostel then and I would rather say I broke up with her wmfor a long time when am in the hostel. Until I started living alone before we started dating again.
Actually right now I deleted all her contacts from my phone logged out of Facebook where she can message me easily.
But am already feeling this sense of emptyness.
I just hit the gym to forget about her but still.
I want to ghost her for 2 wks let me know whether she will call, if she doesn’t I move on. If she does I keep her for knacks.
Best thing you can do for yourself bro
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I finding it difficult to get this girl off my head , tomorrow Am starting by burning all those letters she wrote to me in the past.
Am feeling am still emotional attracted to her
God how can I have a harem of women and not be emotionally attached to any of them even after having sex with them.
It gets 10x easier when you have 2, and 100x easier when you have 3.
Abundance and options naturally help you be outcome independent
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The NEW Sex & Seduction is a good choice for your goals.
That’s a great plan 
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I just came to understand that asides from reading my books, watching movies, playing video games , learning a skills I don’t have this hyper active social life or let me say how to enjoy myself.
I want to ask how do you guys enjoy yourself as a guy because me I don’t even know how to enjoy myself without worrying about woman or sex.
Let me say I don’t know any other enjoyment asides watching movie, playing games and sex🙁
Gym?
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There is Something I did that I don’t understand why I did it up till today.
Actually am not a fan of sucking a girl v***a but the day I discovered my girl is cheating, that morning I don’t know what came over me to suck her like crazily, she moaned after doing it I feel regretful and my dick went limp , I started asking myself whether I did that because of the guy he is cheating on asked her whether she has been licked down there .
I know I didn’t enjoy it because it’s was against my rules and boundaries but I still did it🤔
Even after she left I still messaged her and told her I enjoyed the act when
I believe that any man that sucks a woman down there has submitted to her🥹
Dancing, fencing, hiking, having long conversations, learning new stuff im excited about, doing some crafting with leather, playing board games, reading, listening to good music,…
I might have been like sucking out the venom after a snake bite.
Or you liked it exactly because it’s against your rules. The forbidden fruit. How well do you know your kinks? Do you allow yourself to acknowledge everything that is within you? Or do you suppress certain parts that don’t fit with your image of masculinity and dominance?
We people are strange creatures from time to time.
Bruh you just gotta make some friends with non women who are doing cool shit and taking action on their life in areas not related to chasing dirties
Fastest fix
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“Focus. Speed. I am speed.” - Lightning McQueen
Be more like Lightning McQueen but not too fast since it might be too much for some.
Shouldn’t I acknowledge what I believed in ?
Would you call it suppression?
I just feel doing that means submitting to her or to please her and displease my self.
What I’m trying to say is, that many, if not most, people are wounded in their sexuality.
This can be caused by porn consumption, abuse (even if it wasn’t sexual), neglect and many more. If any trauma is deeply rooted in your personality, it will translate into your sexuality.
Most prominent example would be Christian Grey from the 50 Shades series.
He was deeply wounded in his core, so his sexuality was twisted in a very unhealthy manner.
But only because we are wounded and have strange kinks therefrom, doesn’t mean we automatically know of these kink, even less acknowledge the kink.
Especially when the kink is opposed to our ideal, be it moraly, or what we see as masculine etc.
When we are confronted with these unknown aspects of us, it can be very disturbing.
Let me make an example. I was a porn addict for about 20 years. I watched all kind of porn, from vanilla to very kinky. In the first year of my relationship I played a game with my fiancée. We had to talk about fantasies we had, but never spoke about before. Suddenly I had a realization. One thought that made me very horny on the one side, made me also very anxious about what it would do to my relationship if we ever act it out. It was a cognitive dissonance. It hit me so hard that I got serious headache and had to take a few pills.
A first step was to acknowledge this side of me. I did accept that a part of me had this fantasy. Over time, the connected fears disappeared.
But, most beautiful, over much more time, the kink disappeared.
Because I was healing this wound, caused by porn.
And that’s a typical pattern I notice in many journals. We listen to subs. Suddenly something comes up again, more intense than ever before. And then it’s gone.
Like a splinter in your body. It causes all kinds of little pains. If you start healing, it comes to the surface, what might be more unpleasent than the little pain it caused. But once it left your body you can finally heal for good.
You’re using subs for quite some time now. It could be, that that day, something deep inside dislodged and came to the surface so it can go for good.
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An addiction to self-improvement. Turn your life into a video game and look at everything as a chance to improve.
Hit the gym, make art, write books, do LITERALLY ANYTHING and do it with an effort to improve. Learn music, do whatever.
Turn your life into a game, and do whatever you want.
If you’re happy with how you’re living your life, then things matter less.
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I want to ask you if you would want that somebody treats you, like you treat her.
If you live in the UK, your behaviour towards her is a crime:
and
Think deeply about your values and maybe listen to a healing title like Dragon Reborn to find out more about the way you want to live your live and how you want to treat other people.
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He’s from Algeria.
Considering this, as much as I understand you, and share your point of view, its questionable, that putting western morals and Ideas on someone from a vastly different culture is expedient.