I’m coming up on my 22 days of running DG limit destroyer and rich and one thing that’s become glaringly obvious to me is I’m scared to work. I do security and I would like to pick up extra shifts but I’m scared and it makes me nervous. Going to an unknown place makes me nervous because I have thoughts of what if I work with guards or disrespect me ? what if I run into a mean engineer or building manager ? In security there’s lots of low lives. It’s very easy to get in trouble.
I need to overcome the fear of work soon. I need to starting picking up extra shifts at different job sites.
The 3 subs I plan to run are eog 1, ascended Mogul, and Mogul. I plan to run all 3 just wanna know which to start first.
On my next cycle I’m running DG LIMIT destroyer and I need one sub above to help the issue of being scared to work.
To handle the issue quickly which of those 3 subs do you recommend?
Also which sub to deal with fear of working would take the longest to work ? Again I plan to run all 3. All will be ran for 1 cycle
I forgot to add I work night shifts and the idea of working day time scares me so much. Having to deal with people and problems that are likely to come up gives me so much anxiety
Maybe find a job in a different industry… 
That’s definitely the ultimate goal I need to get out of security.
I have over twenty years in security, corrections, and law enforcement. I don’t mean to be indelicate here, and I’m not trying to insult you.
All of these things WILL happen. Get used to it and stop giving a /&:$$. If you can’t develop a very thick skin, this isn’t the line of work for you.
I actually been doing security since 2012. I’m trying to develop thicker skin it’s definitely something I’m trying to work on. I need to put myself more out there and deal with it
You’re not afraid of work you’re afraid of conflict.
And your job is a source of conflict.
If you want to remove the fear of work, run HERO. You won’t be disappointed
It’s just a matter of accepting that it is what it is and checking your feelings at the door.
Yes 1000 percent it’s definitely a fear of conflict because I have the same issue when I’m out and about. Nervous to bump into someone in the gym, nervous to make eye contact with people etc. I have lots of anxiety especially social anxiety. Fear of running into conflict at work is definitely an anxiety and fear trigger for me. I don’t own hero maybe some time down the road I’ll run it though
I need to get into the habit again of getting comfortable with being uncomfortable again. Maybe I’ll run mogul or AM to help deal with the issue right away. I will say In the past when I worked sites I was scared to work it wasn’t as bad as my mind made it out to be. If it was bad I still survived it
That’s the key thought right there.
In my case, after working corrections for a long time, I know that nothing else is going to seem that bad.
I could imagine that must have really thickened ur skin. When it comes to conflict ur right in it 24/7. I would think someone giving ur a dirty look out and about probably doesn’t even phase you now ?
Exactly.
You don’t have to overcome your fears. (Though that’ll be very nice when you do.)
But for now, you just need to show up and do things anyway.
The ACT metaphor of the Unwanted Party Guest, describes our options for dealing with the thoughts and emotions that can sometimes invade our inner world when we start to put ourselves out there more.
The Passengers on the Bus metaphor is another take on the same thing.
They can be useful reminders.
Part of why I like them is that they remove shame from the whole thing. Shame wastes a lot of time that could be better spent on other things.
Depends. I have a much better sense of what dirty looks I can laugh off and which ones are actually bad news.
This is actually the first time I heard of the act metaphor. One thing I got from it was dealing with the uncomfortable guy Brian ended up not being as bad the the main character thought it would be. I just need to put myself out there more as sub club would say take action.
I work the election polls twice a year and I deal will all sorts of people you can imagine. From nasty to impatient to rude etc but I’m not scared to work here. I know how to run the machines, iPads and answer any question etc.
But for security working at a unknown location the thought of it and thinking of the types or conflict I can run into gives me major anxiety,
I hate to admit it but I turned down work because of this
Did you ever consider Ascension?
A Titel with a very narrow focus that would show effects rather quickly.
And the objectives would help with your current job.
And when you’ve developed these qualities so much that you’re not scared to work anymore, you’ve built a solid base for any other job as well and can delve into job search.
So if you have a fear of conflict…
How does Mogul/AM help with that…?
Ascension would, so by extension, AM might, but you’re looking at the problem from a financial lens which is NOT the way to look at the problem.
EOG and stuff won’t help at all. This is about confidence, status, power, dominance.
Consider subs like Khan, Emperor, the OG Godlike Masculinity, HERO, Sanguine, Sanguine Elixir, Love Bomb For Humanity (free), or something that will directly confront the social anxiety.
It’s hard to be successful if you’re that socially anxious - sounds like this issue is driving your whole life and it’s time for you to take control of it.
Bro. Run Aegis Initiative: Survival Instinct with your current stack. It will immediately help you resolve any issues of fear when dealing with other people.
Recently I had an event where a person tried to blackmail me. Ran Survival Instinct for 2 cycles and both my fear and the person disappeared from my life.
You just triggered me also, you not alone in this fight, we will be victorious. 
Ok. I think that the best plan for you is definitely to go with Ascension. And that for at least six months. Survival instinct might go perfectly with that too. Good idea @Lion.
HERO might be a good choice after that. Perhaps GLM The Commander.
Ascension and Hero