I’m Scared to work

Questions and Comments
#21

@Parsifal @Jouissance @Lion @Present1 @COWolfe @RagnarLothbrok
My thinking for mogul, AM, eog st1 was to destroy my limiting beliefs surrounding my fear to work.
Like in AM here some bullet points I thought would have helped great

  • Breakthrough and eliminate any and all internal wealth ceilings (negative beliefs capping your earning potential) preventing you from achieving complete financial freedom.
  • Breakthrough and eliminate any and all internal success ceilings (negative beliefs capping your ability to achieve widespread success)
  • Eliminate and dissolve any internal sense fear, procrastination, doubt.
  • Unleash your sense of inner power, grow your independence, willpower and confidence.

I never looked at this problem from an inner power issue, but maybe u guys are right. Maybe something like ascension is the way to go. I was thinking dragon limit destroyer paired with mogul, AM, or eog st1 would have destroyed my fear of work but maybe ascension could do just the job.

As for aegis I never read the description until now and wow. When I first saw the name I thought this was the covid sub.
Some bullet points from aegis that make me go :eyes::eyes::eyes:

  • Situational awareness, guidance for the correct action to take in a high-stress situation.

  • Growth of courage, fearlessness and calm.

  • Development of the ability to heal, help and protect others especially in stressful situations, ideal for doctors, paramedics, firefighters, policemen, etc.

This sub seems like it would go perfect with Pcc or something like godlike masculinity or godlike masculinity commander.
Also aegis seems like the perfect sub for someone in security

I def have options to choose from.
I was so set on deciding to run eog 1, mogul, or am but now you guys have me considering ascension
As for hero I never heard of it. I’ll check it today and read the description.
As for sanguine and love bomb they are definitely on my radar big time. After one more cycle of DR LD I’ll be adding one of those 2 to my stack

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#22

Love Bomb For Humanity, like HERO, has scripting to ward off negative people & situations from you. Combine that with the love energy & kindness manifestations, LBFH will be absurdly useful with helping you do your job in the security department & your fear about people treating you badly.

HERO Origins is an artisanal title, while it fits your scenario perfectly, it’s recommended for a more experienced user. You can use it if you feel that you’re ready for it.

I agree with the others too, ascension’s goals deal with your problems directly. Since you also want to use mogul, AM will be a good choice.

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#23

In addition to the good advice already in this thread, I have two suggestions to address your fears of confrontation:

  1. Take a martial art that emphasizes the grappling range like judo or bjj, even jjj.

Why?

Because if you know you can better handle violent expressions of conflict, then you’ll be more calm in a confrontation.

  1. Learn and practice your “verbal judo” and “tactical empathy” skills by studying how the pros do it. Chris Voss has a good book on high stress negotiation.

Why?

Because if you better understand how to use your words to diffuse a mean/emotional person, then you’ll be more calm in any situation.

One of the the most effective guys I learned from in the field stood 5’5" and could diffuse ANY conflict situation and guide it to the best outcome just by talking to people. It was like magic…some people treated him like a friend afterwards, too. He was also built like a ripped bulldog, and studied martial arts, so that capacity was always there.

Subs are only part of the equation to get to a place of having composure under pressure.

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#24

From my experience, run Hero and do muay thai, you will not be scared of anything.

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#25

Start with Ascension. Build your internal foundation and frame. Don’t over complicate this. Follow the directions and run Ascension for no less than 6 months

If you were to choose a stack I would go with Ascension and Love Bomb for Humanity. The reason for the second title is because the fear of confrontation sounds like something related to establishing strong boundaries. This stack long term will fix that

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#27

Echo’ing and second-ing what @James said ^

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#28

@summit @Viktor @James @RagnarLothbrok @Jouissance
Looks like I’ll be running back to ascension lol it’s probably one of the subs I’ve ran the most but never long term. I’ve never ran this for 6 months. Love bomb also seems like a good choice to which could help smooth out any conflict or tension that could come up. Summit you recommended training and I definitely agree. I’ve seen stuff like this online where people do some type of training and when people mess with them outside or give them a dirty look it doesn’t phase them or move them from their center. I need to train harder and get my body to look better. I have alot of inner and outer work to do I’m nervous but I feel ready to overcome these struggles

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#29

Remember you are running a Healing title .
I can relate to your anxiousness.

From what I read , you are under recon . Try reducing the exposure .

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#30

You mean like instead of listening to all 15 minutes listen to like 3 minutes of it instead ? Today is my last day of running this cycle so I’ll try it and see

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#31

Yes , start slow .

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