I’m a beginner and starting Ascension

Questions and Comments
#1

I’m pretty new here and I bought a number of subs right away without reading the master class. I did a bunch of sub hoping then decided to go with Chosen and LBFH for 21 days. I wish I would have started with Ascension but once I did more reading on this community I didn’t want to sub hop again. I didn’t start out with micro loops and did full loops but I did do them as instructed. I just finished a 4 day wash and started with one minute of Ascension this morning. I am planning on adding Wanted and Primal in a month or so. I just started journaling which I know I should have been doing this entire time.

My situation is that I am 52 years old and single. I’m an alcoholic and 1 year and 8 months sober. I just moved to a new city to be around family and I’m unemployed by choice to help my mom as my dad died 3 months ago. Most if not all of my life I have been plagued with low confidence and self esteem. I have had some success in my life but mostly I have settled for careers and women and not truly going for what and who I really want.

Any advice is much appreciated.

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#2

I don’t have the time to write a lot, but a few short thoughts.

Ascension is a very good title to start your journey. I would recommend to focus on yourself right now. Give Ascension at least three months before switching to Primal. You can’t build a skyscraper on sand. Ascension is this foundation you need. Another part of the foundation should be Lovebomb. Looking at what you wrote about your past and your challenges, selflove is probably low as well, so Lovebomb will help you build it up.
If you’re asking yourself if you need more selflove, there’s an easy experiment.
If you know, you need more, don’t do it.
9 years ago, while in a serious depression, the first step was more than I could bear.

Also don’t rush into wanted. I know it’s tempting, but if you don’t have what it takes, you will not see the results you desire. Yes, wanted will work over a long period of time, but building a foundation is the faster way.

Experiment

Stand naked in front of a mirror, look at yourself, and then look yourself in the eye for a few minutes. Then tell yourself aloud “I’m a wonderful human being and deserve to be loved unconditionally. I’m a gift to mankind”.
If it doesn’t feel 100% authentic, you need more selflove.

This way you can only determine, that you need more selflove. It can’t prove that you have enough selflove.

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#3

Ok thank you for the advice. Are you saying to run Love bomb in a stack with Ascension or run Ascension for a few months then add Love bomb?

#4

There’s a subliminal that just released called Emperor Daddy which is for men over 40 years old.

Ascension is an incredible starting sub but empD is literally made for men like yourself. Check out the forum thread about it especially with most recent results. Including members with lifelong confidence issues who have been through every sub say that nothing has been smoother or more effective

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#5

Ohh, I saw that one but never really considered it. I’ll check it out and what others say on the forum

#6

You are a success

:wink:

Enjoy your earnings

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#7

Welcome to the forum

Time to change this unhelpful common phrase to

:point_down:

I have been 1 year and 8 months sober, I am not a alcoholic anymore, I am free from this addiction, I am a free man.

Take it or leave it, I had to say it, I respect your journey and all the people struggling with addiction, I care greatly on this subject and I think it’s time we reframe and optimize certain thought patterns around this.

I wish you an awesome journey with subliminals, you are lucky to be here, this is the best place to be for these specific healing tools.

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#8

Thank you

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#9

I have read a number of takes on this subject which is to say that our words have power. So maybe I should start to say that I am a recovered alcoholic. Either way thank you for the message

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#10

Your words have power in the sense that they are an expression of your beliefs, so speaking your beliefs out loud reinforces them through the power of sound (which is what subliminals are too, spoken beliefs).

You are so right in this affirmation, much better than what I said, affirming what you are rather than what you are not.

I could recommend to further refine the affirmation by excluding completely the word ‘alcohol’, it’s like an old relationship that is being let go, no need to bring it around your whole life, you learned that lesson, time to move on, it has made you who you are but is not defining who you are anymore.

Enough said from me, I apologize for being so forthgoing on this, I am refining my own perceptions around addiction and recovery while reflecting on this, thank you for allowing the space for this.

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#11

No need to apologize. I totally agree. It’s been a wild ride. I go to Alcoholics Anonymous and many people don’t realize this but it’s very much a spiritual program. I believe that spiritual power brought me to Subliminal Club

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#12

Do move this to the Q&A section

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#13

How do I do that?

#14

Can you see a pencil or edit button on your first post?

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#15

Nope you should erase that association completely and give yourself a better state/word about yourself.

Allways

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#16

In AA we always use it. Any suggestions?

#17

Find something good about yourself and choose to call you that instead.

The choice is yours

Also imagine sitting at a desk and write on a paper : I am an alcoholic

Then write in red letter over the sentence : invalid.
have a fire beside you and shoot the paper in the fire, watch it burn completely. Then write in golden letters positive statements about yourself and let the paper fusion with you

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#18

No I don’t

#19

Oh that’s pretty cool. I’ll do that. Thank you

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#20

It’s ok. Have notified the admin for this post to be moved to the correct section.

Do make sure to put your post in the correct category next time. You will see a drop down menu when you open a new topic and you can select Questions and Comments in that drop down menu if you have a question to ask.

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