Thank you @RockyHandsome, your input is very valuable 
Although I don’t really like this frame:
I prefer to believe I am highly valuable. That, like in Libertine that British girls says: “What is between your legs is the source of life.” So I am simply communicating my value in the right way, because I like myself and want to share that awesomeness with girls.
Then sex happens as an increase and expansion of intimacy. She is not “giving me access” to her pussy, she is enjoying the ultimate intimate connection, of feeling me inside her as one 
That is why I believe I am offering something special, not “hoping to get access to pussy”.
I think a Tantric Guru like @anon2351792 will agree.
Either way @RockyHandsome, you’re a handsome wealthy muscular guy. So girls like you, with whatever beliefs you have. You are like the future version of @rising 