You’re not wrong and it all comes down to what you want to do. I just propose it doesn’t have to be either or you know?
These are totally valid concerns
But I do want to show you some of the objectives from the copy for WANTED. Because I find it interesting how your frustration aligns with the similar wording and concepts. I’ve never actually read it until now, but it’s really similar to a lot of the stuff you’ve been talking about
The Constant Chase
This module makes being approached by beautiful women a natural, ongoing part of your life. Instead of effort or strategy, women take the first step—starting conversations, seeking closeness, and finding reasons to be near you. Social spaces transform into opportunities where attention flows in your direction without prompting. You aren’t just noticed—you’re pursued, with women showing curiosity and desire openly. Being surrounded by beauty becomes normal, a constant reinforcement of your value and attractiveness. Each approach deepens the sense that you are the prize, and that women feel compelled to compete for your attention.
Seduction Without Chains
This module removes the rigid rules and expectations often tied to attraction. There’s no script to follow, no rituals or forced steps. Seduction flows freely, on your time and your terms. You don’t need dates or structured situations to create intimacy—connection can spark in any moment, whether casual, playful, or unexpected. Women are drawn to the authenticity of someone who moves without pressure, someone who is unapologetically himself. The freedom creates ease, and that ease amplifies desire, because nothing feels rehearsed. Life itself becomes the stage for attraction, where every encounter carries potential without obligation or pretense.
Wholeness in Connection
This module transforms intimacy with women into a source of deep healing. Every interaction, from conversation to closeness, dissolves old patterns of neediness, shame, or unworthiness. Instead of seeking validation, you feel complete, confident, and at ease in their presence. The company of women affirms your strength and attractiveness, reinforcing your value without effort. Moments of affection or desire become medicine for the soul, leaving you lighter, freer, and more self-assured. With each connection, emotional weight is released, and what remains is a steady sense of worth that no longer depends on approval.
Note – this is an extremely profound module. Tackling neediness, shape, desperation, unworthiness, etc., is important, but adding such direct healing would turn WANTED into a healing title. Instead, we utilize the natural healing energy generated through genuine male-female interactions to easily dissolve these issues, without any burden on the user’s system. Enjoy your interactions, and you’ll notice a wonderful transformation happening that will lead you to becoming more and more WANTED.
Also keep in mind that while WANTED might not be the most direct way to tackling self esteem issues, the NSE seems to have come about because external experiences carry a HUGE amount of advantages and sometimes the more indirect way can contribute to greater change than a head on approach.
I just want to say though I totally empathize on trying to figure out the right combination of things. It’s really tough. I’ve found that in moments of stress or feeling low I default to old coping patterns. I’m not sure how it is for you, but mine was always isolation and I’ll start gravitating towards subs that cut out the human equation which is ironically necessary for more growth. Life is strange.
This is deep!
Best thing is the complete non neediness - I could make her evening a great one, but I choose not to.