Height Insecurity

Thank you so much.
I can remember in Game Thrones that dwarf that seems more confident than most men in the movie.

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Exactly, Youā€™re doing fine brother. Just run Wanted and have some fun.

I wish you all the best :pray:

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I ran wanted in the past, all my insecurities came to the surface and I kinda feel a bit low key and mysterious.

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Am writing an exam from the 30th if this month. I will be running Limitless and Lovebomb for humanity. After a 21 day stack am running Wanted and Primal Seduction.

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Run a stack for at least two rounds before switching. Honestly, if I was you I would leave LBFH in my stack for a few months. If you donā€™t have intellectual or mental challenges, you might not need Limitless. Why donā€™t you run LBFH and PS for 4 - 6 months to see where you get, before adding something as dense and challenging as Wanted?

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I understand, from your stand point of view, at my current state I feel insecure, empty and unconfident am thinking if Stark and PS or Lbh and Stark ? Which of them can help.

Also I noticed am sarcastic person, which affects my relationship with people expecially women, how do I solve this issue.

Nothing wrong with a bit of sarcasm here and there. Depends on the delivery, audience, and intentā€¦itā€™s served me well, but Iā€™ve also used it coming from a place of pain and it made things worse.

Use Godlike Masculinity for a couple cycles. Itā€™ll help with how you communicate to others and how you feel about yourself.

(I didnā€™t read this whole thread, so if this was suggested already, then take this as a +1)

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Actually Lbfh is something else, I ran one loop yesterday and today I have to say I feel better, less comparing myself to others . Am going for Love bomb for humanity and Primal Seduction for now.

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Hi @Brent, you seem like a really smart and knowledgeable guy on this subject.

What benefits do you get and what opportunities open up for you?

Iā€™m asking for myself lol, Iā€™m 5 ft 10.

How is my life going to become better if I get taller?

I have no issue getting women and most people I interact with in real life respect me.

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Thank you @Luther24

Iā€™ve noticed more unconscious respect, a respect for boundaries, etc.

It is something you notice going up, but donā€™t notice if youā€™ve been up for a while. It is an experience, and Iā€™m unable to describe it with just words alone.

Being taller, or bigger makes you much more intimidating. I do fighting sports and weight classes exist for a reason. Reach is always a factor in matches.

Just like anything, height is a fractional of your overall person, and how people look at you. However, it is an important part that we should want to improve on if we want to.

I was unhappy with people on here asking him to just accept the fact that heā€™ll stay his height forever. Especially the first post. If being shorter was not a disadvantage in many phases of life, people who are shorter would not have to bring up stories so offer of their successes. No one needs to prove that someone 6ft has success in the same areas.

Keep in mind I say disadvantage not as crippling, but just as something better exists and should be pursued.

I personally experienced a lot of attraction being 5ā€™3ā€™ā€™ in early high school.

What I can say is that you will only benefit from gaining in height, and if optimized, you can seriously improve yourself to where you want to be.

Iā€™m unsure why my previous post was hidden when the first post told him that heā€™ll barely grow and should just accept it. Arenā€™t we here to shift reality?

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I donā€™t think you understand why people gave that advice.

You say that wanting to get taller is not a superficial desire, but realistically speakingā€¦ that depends.

I completely agree with you there. Jon Jones has an incredible reach and the heavyweights look quite monstrous. Nobody is denying the advantages of height in combat sports. Speaking of Jon Jones, he was training with Henry Cejudo (5 ft 4) lol just throwing that out there.

If youā€™re into fighting, then height can help but itā€™s more so to help you with goals in the sport or if you want to fight at a higher weight class. This isnā€™t a superficial desire.

The superficial desire weā€™re talking about in regards to wanting height is where the desire is driven by stuff like this:

ā€œPlz plz plz like me and respect me because Iā€™m a fucking dismissible wimp with no frame or masculinity.ā€

ā€œGirls, plz like me and accept me plzā€

Only weak men look for approval like this. Itā€™s called using height as a way to fill in the void of your own internal issues. The epitome of weakness.

Men like this canā€™t survive in the dating marketā€¦ they eliminate themselves from the competition. Iā€™ve seen it happen countless of times.

You should be quite familiar with this superficial, trauma fueled desire and you know what Iā€™m talking about - Iā€™m not even going to quote the family-related trauma in your journal.

Short men think everybody dismisses them because of their lack of height.

In actuality, they are being dismissed because of their subconscious internal framework. These men are incredibly insecure and constantly compare themselves to others. Theyā€™re so uncomfortable in their own skin that just seeing someone taller than them makes them feel threatened or inferior. They donā€™t like what they see in the mirror.

Weā€™re here to grow, manifest and shift reality.

What weā€™re not here to do is use coping mechanisms for our internal issues.

I have met men much taller than me, who have tried to be my friend, start conversations with me and get into my social circle. Unfortunately, they didnā€™t pass my gigachad filter so I let them go lol.

When you tell weak-minded people to grow taller to get respectā€¦ I donā€™t know who youā€™re trying to get respect from.

Alpha Males, high status, high quality intelligent people and sharks look at characterā€¦ we donā€™t give a fuck about your height. We pay attention to the details. We look through you and see if youā€™re even worth our time. Are you competent? Can we trust you? Are you reliable? Can you get shit done? etc.

We donā€™t look at what youā€™ve done or what you have, we look at who you are.

A few inches on your skeletal frame means nothing to the upper echelons.

When you tell a super insecure man that ā€œhey buddy, if you get taller then people will respect youā€, etc. All Iā€™m going to see is a weak man with a longer skeletal frame. Like the ex-boyfriend (6 ft 3 college football player) of an IG model I used to date, who basically left him for me.

When I give this foundational advice to people, Iā€™m trying to make sure that they donā€™t become like that guy. Getting your girl stolen from you because you have a piss poor foundation. This guy started to show up at her gym because his ego got destroyed and he didnā€™t understand what happened.

He is that outlier guy in the ā€œredpillā€ groups going ā€œbut what about my situation? Iā€™m 6 ft 3?..ā€ because people donā€™t understand that thereā€™s levels to this shit until it hits them in the face.

Like, you can learn the hard way if you want but just donā€™t complain after lol.

You donā€™t dominate with size or height, you dominate with mentality, beliefs, intention, energy and exudation of your entire fucking being as a consciousness. Your height doesnā€™t co-create or have an influence on other people and realityā€¦ itā€™s your mind. This isnā€™t ā€œsnowflakeā€ shit, this is real truth and complete power. Even in Planet of the Apesā€¦ Caesar wasnā€™t the tallest but he was the most noble, compassionate, wise, mature, intelligent, authentic, determined and mentally formidable. His entire being commanded respect. Who even gave a shit about his height lol. If you fucked with him, you knew that it wasnā€™t wise.

Men need to become like that lol. It sounds like Iā€™m coining some ā€œsuper archetypeā€ but this is just part of being a normal, grown adult man.

We live in a superficial societyā€¦ donā€™t be a product of that.

Anyways, I was quite confused when you said that this is ā€œsnowflakeā€ advice when itā€™s the complete opposite.

Our advice is to grow a pair of balls and become a monster. When you listen to LBFH, you kind of do this because you stop comparing yourself to others, which @SWITCH is already beginning to do. He is getting his power back and becoming Alpha. He is becoming a secure man and this is what grown adults respect. This is what women shit-test.

Once you level up even a little bit in your sense of self (becoming congruent), suddenly you become a different type of animal.

You gain a level of respect from people that is infinitely deeper than something superficial like height. You begin to emanate a sense of leadership that even the tallest men would happily kneel down to, seek guidance from and get inspired by.

Basically, there are fucking levels lol.

Now if you want to be the top percentile, top dog that gets all the womenā€¦ first work on strengthening your internal framework and becoming congruently Alpha at a level which compels the people who implemented these control structures and disempowering systems to shit their pants.

But then again, this is all nothing more than my opinion lol. Feel free to do whatever you want, I just felt like your unhappiness was due to misunderstanding so Iā€™m clarifying.

In other words, be happy lol.

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First of all thank you for this post,

I clarified in my second post that height isnā€™t something that is absolutely essential, but it is fractional, as with everything else. Just like how we aim for another X amount of income this year and the next, height shouldnā€™t be anything different.

Shorter dudes can get girls with mentality, I got loads of it being 5ā€™3ā€™ā€™ and 5ā€™4ā€™ā€™ in high school. Much of it really is what they consider themselves. Itā€™s like seeing a beautiful girl somehow insecure just because sheā€™s a bra size under the average.

I havenā€™t dated an IG model, but did have a college club founder, charity organizer, animal rescuer, former gymnast catch feelings. Her father owns a business, and travels around. She transferred to a great university to become a doctor. I say this not to bump chests, but because I do get your viewpoint. There were guys taller than me who she did not even consider.

I have told guys taller than me what to do, and have had them follow me.

If I didnā€™t conduct myself the way I did during high school, I would have had different results, evidently.

All sizes have advantages and disadvantages. I did taps against a 6ā€™3ā€™ā€™ guy who could barely move around the ring. He was so huge it was difficult for him to catch me.

What I want to say is that it would be convenient to not practice slipping so often and just have the reach advantage. That time can be put into technique. It would be a lot nicer to run farther during cardio. It would be great to see over people (cause I like that lol) In that, I wouldnā€™t look at wanting more height as being weak, but looking at reality objectively and moving to a state to adapt your circumstances. It is a strong thing to want to do better and actively change your life for your goals. Thatā€™s because seeing yourself as not the best is a hard pill to swallow, but that is really where the growth begins and you have the opportunity to really become the best version of yourself. I donā€™t know if you agree :wink:

I really thank you for your advice, and putting the time into it

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@Luther24 from today I opt you as my mentor, this words are real shit!!
How old are you man to reach this state of understanding, you just gave me this vibe of Tommy Shelby in Peaky Blinders, a 5.8ft man with best Alpha frame I have ever seen.

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As much as i agree with @Luther24 's points about having a mindset that transcends the physical body, I do think @Brent makes very good points about our desire to look or be a certain way.

Whether it be Height, Male Enhancement, Breast Size increase, Hair Growth or any other physical metric, we can work on both our mental and physical aspects to become the best version of ourselves.

I heard once that coming from a place of self-love and self-acceptance helps to change the way we are to the way we want to be. That is correct. And since it is all in the mind, let us take that into account to see how far we can go to push the boundaries of our beliefs to get what we want out of life.

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Have you ever had dialog with your body? Do you talk to your body? Ask your body whatā€™s it point of view about this is.

Body whatā€™s your point of view about this? Ask and you shall receive.

Body could you grow taller for me?
Body would you do X for me?
Body how can I contribute to you?
Body could you give me information about this?
Body whatā€™s really going on here?

The body is constantly giving you information. Tune into it. Listen to it. Talk to it like itā€™s your best friend. Your body is always there for you. It wants whatā€™s best for you. Have communion with your body and you have communion with everything and everyone.

Get out of your head and listen to your body.

Bodies love being cared for. Bodies love massage. Bodies love being sensually stroked. Bodies love it when you bath. Bodies love receiving sex. Bodies love kind words. Bodies love exercise. Bodies love communion. Bodies love stretching. Bodies love movement. Bodies love being happy. Bodies love connection with others. Bodies love cuddles. Bodies love sleep and rest. Bodies love to receive. What are you not willing to receive from your body that if you did would totally change your reality?

What else is possible with your body that you havenā€™t considered yet?

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Say this to your body.

Iā€™m sorry
Please forgive me
Thank you
I love you

Maybe this can help with physical changes that you all desire.

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You can always buy shoe inserts to increase your height a few inches and see how that goes for you.

hey @Geoff I saw your posts before you deleted it. What made you write that? Was it a lie? Was it actually you writing that or someone else? Are you asking for help? What ever it was. I care.
You can reach out to me if you want.

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Nah, I realized it was unrelated to the thread and I was going off topic so I reigned myself in so as not to derail or violate campfire policy.

Sometimes itā€™s a struggle seeing/perceiving things others do not and sometimes I say things that are unnecessary in the context/situations I bring them up in.

I find your base or foundation interesting. As in its root, where you came from in respect to your approach/es.

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