Height Insecurity

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#12

those and YouTube, Redpill forums, group-think, social media, tiktoks etc

If you constantly expose this content to your subconscious mind, it’s not good it just makes you insecure and feel inadequate.

ironically this same energy is what makes you less attractive to women, lol. Women don’t like insecure men. See how it’s a self-fulfilling feedback loop. Do you see how that works?

Meanwhile the guy who doesn’t care about that shit like me or @Psiklou are just chadded out and freely confident and secure which is magnetic to women. Guys who have picked up all the crap look at us like we’re some type of magical wizards.

“How is he so confident what the hell!”

We stand out from people who sit in height/looks/penis/redpill dating forums learning how to feel inadequate all day long. If you weaken your mentality, you weaken your frame and become dismissible. Come and join the cool table of not giving a fuck about nonsensical crap like the circumference of your spinal disc or whatever they talk about nowadays.

Take care of your mental health, don’t bombard your mind with nonsense. The internet is rife with crap designed to weaken you mentally, make you feel inadequate and coax you into the trap of comparing yourself to others. I don’t say this to fearmonger but I’m saying this to stress the importance of being responsible and using discernment with what you ingest into your mind in the same way you don’t eat 5 meals of Mcdonalds for breakfast.

Porn, which I’m sure you’re well aware of, is just 1 part of the puzzle.

even mainstream guys like an Andrew Tate talk about things like programming and self-hypnosis as well as how it creates your reality. This stuff isn’t a secret anymore, it’s time to wake up and take back your power.

What you need to know about height, which no ones talks about is that…

Women aren’t attracted to height, they’re attracted to what height displays and most importantly how it makes them feel.

Masculinity, security, power, etc. You don’t need height for this, you can literally exude an energy as an overall manifestation of your mind which women respond to.

A women I’ve been with feels safer with me than they do with a 6 ft 3 college footballer player (4 inches taller than me) because the mentality or mental framework is like comparing a piece of plastic to titanium steel. Women sense shit like this, they sense your frame, they sense your energy, they sense your capability, they sense your formidability.

They sense your congruence.

They sense your masculinity, but masculinity is not just a physical trait tied to dimorphism.

You don’t need more height, you need a beastly internal.

You are using height to make up for a weak internal as 99% of men who desire height subconsciously do.

The irony is that when you develop a beastly internal… you won’t give 2 fucks about height. It becomes menial or low ROI. This is the paradox in the desire for height.

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#13

@SWITCH my friend, remember this?

you agreed with me lol, what happened

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#14

Learn to love yourself brother and 10000 will love you.

Peace.

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#15

And this is what sooooooo many people do not understand. The world is a projected reality. People see you the way you see yourself. Neville Goddard says “Everything is you pushed out”. Reality Transurfing calls it The Mirror, etc.

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#16

Indeed brother i am going to do a special pray for you tonight. I wish you a magnificent day.

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#17

@SWITCH

What’s going to happen when you get to the height you want and people still don’t respect you? You’ll try to grow even taller?

When being 6 feet tall doesn’t fix anything. Are you going to try for 7 feet?
The title of your post is “Height insecurity”. It contains the answer to the real question you’re not asking. The real issues here is not the height, it’s the insecurity. That’s what you need to deal with.

There are plenty of guy who are not even your height (5ft7), but who are enormously respected.

Let me tell you a story. I went to school with a guy who was one of the most successful guys with women that I have ever seen. He wasn’t even 5ft7, and he had always been overweight. Most girls he bedded were taller than him and some of them were incredibly good looking. He would regularly take girls from dudes that much taller than him.
Now here are a few things that guy had going for him.

  • His self-confidence was sky high. He never seemed worried about being short and overweight.

  • His way with words was immaculate. He knew how to talk to women. He also had wit and humor.

  • He was a sharp dresser.

  • He was also a great dancer. The way he moved on the dancefloor was just unbelievable. Girls couldn’t wait to go to the club with him.

You see, there are a million different things you can work on to develop charisma and magnetism that will get you the respect you want. Those things are intangible and don’t have anything to do with how tall you are.

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#18

So far I came to understand that, my problem is not height I need to focus of something else ,am going on 3months dopamine detox. In this months am running love Bomb for humanity and Revelation of the mind.

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#19

Thank you.

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#20

I’m 5.7ft as well and I live in the Netherlands which means you’re 5.3 lol. When I lived in Spain I was 75-80% taller than most girls, here in the Netherlands it’s more like 50%. I always thought that it matters because of social media and it does matter in some ways. Most girls don’t like to date shorter guys because it’s not very masculine which makes sense. I honestly don’t like it when I date girls that are taller than I am. It’s not that I’m too short, these women are way too tall haha.

All jokes aside, I know how you feel and I can be insecure about it as well. When it comes to getting respect from other men, I would suggest starting Jui Jitsu or MMA. It’s weird what happens with your internal state when you know U can fight/handle yourself. It is some subconscious vibe that you’re radiating toward another man. That’s also what women pick up from you.

I know plenty of guys that are amazing with women that are like 5.5, but they just don’t care about their height. They rock with what they have and they do just fine. I remember I was working as a personal trainer for the first time and training 6 times a week. My confidence was at its peak (and so was my ego lol) but I remember this tall girl coming to me and starting to flirt with me.

Height doesn’t mean shit. It’s that we think it matters, that’s what gives it value.

To quote Andrew Tate “You actually think Floyd Mayweather gives a fuck about his height?”
Don’t focus on what you don’t have, focus on what you got and make the best out of it.

I am talking to myself here, gotta remember this post next time I’m acting like a insecure kid when I see guys that are taller then me :joy:

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#21

Thank you so much.
I can remember in Game Thrones that dwarf that seems more confident than most men in the movie.

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#22

Exactly, You’re doing fine brother. Just run Wanted and have some fun.

I wish you all the best :pray:

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#23

I ran wanted in the past, all my insecurities came to the surface and I kinda feel a bit low key and mysterious.

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#24

Am writing an exam from the 30th if this month. I will be running Limitless and Lovebomb for humanity. After a 21 day stack am running Wanted and Primal Seduction.

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#25

Run a stack for at least two rounds before switching. Honestly, if I was you I would leave LBFH in my stack for a few months. If you don’t have intellectual or mental challenges, you might not need Limitless. Why don’t you run LBFH and PS for 4 - 6 months to see where you get, before adding something as dense and challenging as Wanted?

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#26

I understand, from your stand point of view, at my current state I feel insecure, empty and unconfident am thinking if Stark and PS or Lbh and Stark ? Which of them can help.

Also I noticed am sarcastic person, which affects my relationship with people expecially women, how do I solve this issue.

#27

Nothing wrong with a bit of sarcasm here and there. Depends on the delivery, audience, and intent…it’s served me well, but I’ve also used it coming from a place of pain and it made things worse.

Use Godlike Masculinity for a couple cycles. It’ll help with how you communicate to others and how you feel about yourself.

(I didn’t read this whole thread, so if this was suggested already, then take this as a +1)

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#28

Actually Lbfh is something else, I ran one loop yesterday and today I have to say I feel better, less comparing myself to others . Am going for Love bomb for humanity and Primal Seduction for now.

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#30

Hi @Brent, you seem like a really smart and knowledgeable guy on this subject.

What benefits do you get and what opportunities open up for you?

I’m asking for myself lol, I’m 5 ft 10.

How is my life going to become better if I get taller?

I have no issue getting women and most people I interact with in real life respect me.

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#31

Thank you @Skadoosh

I’ve noticed more unconscious respect, a respect for boundaries, etc.

It is something you notice going up, but don’t notice if you’ve been up for a while. It is an experience, and I’m unable to describe it with just words alone.

Being taller, or bigger makes you much more intimidating. I do fighting sports and weight classes exist for a reason. Reach is always a factor in matches.

Just like anything, height is a fractional of your overall person, and how people look at you. However, it is an important part that we should want to improve on if we want to.

I was unhappy with people on here asking him to just accept the fact that he’ll stay his height forever. Especially the first post. If being shorter was not a disadvantage in many phases of life, people who are shorter would not have to bring up stories so offer of their successes. No one needs to prove that someone 6ft has success in the same areas.

Keep in mind I say disadvantage not as crippling, but just as something better exists and should be pursued.

I personally experienced a lot of attraction being 5’3’’ in early high school.

What I can say is that you will only benefit from gaining in height, and if optimized, you can seriously improve yourself to where you want to be.

I’m unsure why my previous post was hidden when the first post told him that he’ll barely grow and should just accept it. Aren’t we here to shift reality?

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#32

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We don’t discuss other similar modalities here and instead prefer to focus on subliminals.

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