That’s not true @sei I had experienced that situation your in right now. There is no such thing as a bad situation, but delving on a bad emotion can make everything bad.
When I lost someone special in my life, I declared that the world is against me. I no longer listened to advice’s anymore including my mom, my mentors, I don’t even know what to do with my car keys. I miss most of my meals, I keep on blaming everything. And when I go outside I saw these group of people living on the streets, they are much much worst than me, so I asked myself ‘why is it the world is so unfair?’
I always felt that I wanted to hurt anyone. I keep on having flashes of my family, people that I loved so much, and when I did decided to visit my surviving mom she offered me comfort and I said thank you. That thank you did something to me.
Whenever you gave thanks on something you already had, or even things you wanted to have, it’s allowing the universe to give you a lot more.
The very first thing I did was fix myself. I begin by letting go of my past, forgive myself.
Nobody can expect any change if we keep on holding the same old-self we have.