Hard Gainer.. thoughts

Questions and Comments
#69

Bro can you start studying about copywriting.

It’s basically just writing like how you talk to people with just certain tips and tricks to improve the quality.

If you can write scripts for youtube videos, they are in very high demand for decent writers with proper english.

You can go on YouTube and look at any video like how to write scripts for youtube.

Then immediately start writing scripts for any topic that you can.

If you have 2 or 3 scripts for 8 minute videos which are slightly above average, you can sell them for about 70-150$ per script.

Depending on quality the prices changes.

If you have such scripts you can cold email any youtube channel in that niche and just directly sell it.

I know people who do it and they have shitty english. You actually have a head-start because you english is solid.

Just have to understand certain nuances from youtube and immediately start writing based on what topics you like?

Heck you can even write about your failures from a third person perspective. As long as it’s interesting, you can sell the script for good money.

#70

its hard to practice gratitude when you have almost no money for food… and I miss meals… so then sleeping is hard…as I am worried about stuff.

#71

No one said it was always easy. It might be a struggle or feel foreign and difficult in the beginning, however, the more you practise, the easier it becomes, and the more comfort you experience from it. You don’t have to feel like giving gratitude. Just do it and see how it benefits because it can only help. It sure beats the opposite.

Now Sei you asked for our thoughts and we’ve given lots of advice. Are you prepared to receive even some of it?

Or do you just want listening ears, us to empathise and a place to vent?

Not asking you to do it all or all at once. Just pick one small (yet huge) possible step in the right direction…

Gratitude would be a great one. I’m speaking to myself here too. Just started increasing this.

WE ALL have that ability. It will open your heart up. It might not be instant, but it will get to work on it and eventually will, and you will start to feel better. :hugs:

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#72

Many good advice has been given.

I understand where you’re coming from. I also dealt with a lot in my life; thing is at my saddest moments I realized I had to be on MY side no matter what, otherwise it will be an even more uphill battle than it already is.

As for subs, all subs here are intended to improve your life in various ways. No matter what you use, the intent behind it is it’s a tool to add in your toolbox to assist you in your journey through life.

Many of the titles here worked for me. Some gelled better than others, I find it depends on my own personality and what my strongest and inner most aspirations are.

I would have also recommended Chosen, because with it I felt not only the world being kinder but myself as well. I felt people saw me in the best of light, and saw myself in that way also.

However, seeing that it’s not the best time to make additional purchases, I’d simply recommend for you to stay consistent with the titles you already have and just let them do their work on the inside while you do your work on the outside.

Just let them be, and when something truly doesn’t gel after a reasonable amount of time, try something else.

If someone spoke to me like I spoke with myself at my lowest moments I’d feel angry all the time. I don’t deserve that kind of disrespect from anyone, and I realize I’m not honoring myself by accepting such words even from me.

Regardless of my circumstance or what’s happening in my external world, I must be on my side.

It’s the bare minimum that I could do to keep me going. It’s that little gas in the tank that no matter what, it will never run out because I control it.

In the realm of my mind I am king. I’m becoming better than I was and on my way to becoming the best version of myself.

I’m using these tools to keep it that way.

What I’m saying is that I realized I’m only here once, and I owe it to myself to stay in my corner because no one will be there 100 percent of the time, just me.

I wish you well friend. Stay strong, be kind to yourself and again stay on your side. It’s hard, but only you can do it. You’re the main event of your own show, your stage is yours and you have to be your biggest fan.

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#73

That’s not true @sei I had experienced that situation your in right now. There is no such thing as a bad situation, but delving on a bad emotion can make everything bad.

When I lost someone special in my life, I declared that the world is against me. I no longer listened to advice’s anymore including my mom, my mentors, I don’t even know what to do with my car keys. I miss most of my meals, I keep on blaming everything. And when I go outside I saw these group of people living on the streets, they are much much worst than me, so I asked myself ‘why is it the world is so unfair?’

I always felt that I wanted to hurt anyone. I keep on having flashes of my family, people that I loved so much, and when I did decided to visit my surviving mom she offered me comfort and I said thank you. That thank you did something to me.

Whenever you gave thanks on something you already had, or even things you wanted to have, it’s allowing the universe to give you a lot more.

The very first thing I did was fix myself. I begin by letting go of my past, forgive myself.

Nobody can expect any change if we keep on holding the same old-self we have.

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#74

@sei read through this entire thread, fire has given a potential way for you to make a lot of money.

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#75

bascially, I sort of know what I would like to be doing…
but it requires cash… and I have none and as you know, I am badly in debt.

#76

still on the experimental Hard Gainer pattern… day 15, no noticeably changes in anything…
same random panic attack scenario last night…
no cash for food or anything… same old same old :frowning:

as for being angry or anything like that… no… just the same as I always am, cant see light in any direction.

#77

Sei, you have just been coming back to us with defeatist words.

There is so far no aknowledgement of members’ efforts or advice given.

Are you valuing and considering any of our input here?

Else, tell us how you think we can help or support you better.

What is it you would like from these conversations?

If your goal is to make progress, what do you feel is involved with that?

Since you can’t see the light, then how about turn one on - Gratitude

“It is better to light a candle than to curse the darkness”

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#78

did you read what fire said regarding your situation in this post.

and what would that be by the way?

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#79

I will not involve my parents in anything I do, they need peace… and I will not spin them into a sob story.

I mentioned it a long time ago. I am technical, that is clear, I also love flight, in my youth, I did the theory for flying… but not the practical… then years after a payout for an accident, I almost did Helicopter Pilot training… it was a dream, but one that impacted my partner at the time… so I gave the dream away… and later she left… then a few years back, I read about Drones… like the US, its a thing here… it has a place in the world… its not by visual flight anymore… its the realm of a tech… also allows me to work independently, as I dont like working with people as in 30 years, I havent seen anyone that wants to do impeccable work… so for me, it would be a Commercial Drone license and Drone… but that is about 15k here… I have tried for the 3k for 3 years… just for the license… but no hope… I am so negative in funds… cant even get a business loan… no incoming funds.

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#80

I dont know what is involved in progressing… I have tried different things for a very long time.
As I have said, I am lost, and dont feel good about anything…
even with my parents, that I love, I am ashamed… they help me when they have nothing…
it is my job to help them… they did their bit… I am a good person with a good heart who works hard.
I said it to my father today… if I had a million more days left with them, that still wouldnt be enough for me to pay them back for everything.

i wanted to make their lives easier… not harder.

Wouldnt that hold you in disgust of yourself?

#81

I have found this article about drone regulations in australia. I’m sure inside this rules is a place for a business without a RePL license. When the business grows bigger you will have the means to get the RePL license and grow even bigger:

As you like to do impeccable work, your business should take off easily, you just have to find your niche.

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#83

May I ask what your current business is exactly? Maybe there is room for growth? Do you have a business plan, a marketing plan, etc.?
As I read from @Hoppa’s posts there can allways be a way to turn a stale business around, as he did with his family business. He just approached it from a different angle. It is always easier to ramp something existing up than start something new without any foundation. Maybe that is also true for you.

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#84

A Commerical License is required. It is based on weight. Without this, you cannot fly.

#85

website www.my-tech.com.au
this is what I do… My Technology | Sydney NSW
Australia is not like the US, last 2 years massive import of actual immigrants…
we have a housing crisis now here
I know Indian techs who work for $40 an hour. I have dropped my rates that amount, business $100 residental $80, for 2 months, to help for the hard times most austalians are going through. All my work is only taken up by Caucasian australians. Other cultures, Indian, Chinese, Muslim… only deal with their own.
I live in the inner west of the city… most people only are able to rent here with 2k a week… i exist as a janior to a community centre of my culture… hungarian, my rent is low… and I still cannot survive.
as I said… typically a few times a week… I dont eat…
I have said before… I have had a number of people help me over the years, at their expense… only to fail…

#86

I also dont have money for plans… although in the past, I have paid for them… and got help with them… and nothing.

#87

Please use the internet and the information your government provides to make real informed decisions.

Here is a good start.
https://www.casa.gov.au/drones/operator-accreditation-certificate/get-your-operator-accreditation#Operatoraccreditationrequirements

It states, that you need a Operation Accreditation when you fly for businesses

You must get a remotely piloted aircraft (RPA) operator accreditation to fly for business or as part of your job […]

but it also states that such a accreditation is free:

Obtaining your accreditation is:
* free
* online
* valid for 3 years.

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#88

Amazing website! Clean, beautifull and looks very reputable. I din’t expected that, if I’m honest. You should charge a premium that is worth your impeccable service! Don’t go down to the level of others.

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