Guiding the growth consciously

Questions and Comments
#30

I believe and I am not pointing fingers at you @GoldenTiger. For a lot of people habits are crutches borne out of laziness and instant gratification. We can spend months, sometimes years ingraining a new habit. Then suddenly we experience a moment of relapse we loose focus and we are back to our old habits. Hence the old saying old habits die hard.

When you are at a mental or physiological low I believe we loose sight of our goals and revert back to our old bad habits. I have had similar experiences due to the abuse I have to deal with from the past.

I think the question you might have to ask yourself is what is causing you to have these moments of loosing focus. Is it personality what i mean by this is lack of will power ?. Is it addictive ? something to do with drugs, alcohol ?.

The biggest killer is the environment well it was for me. For example if you are an alcoholic and want to give up drinking. You need to disconnect form friends who you go out drinking with ?. Are you feeling lonely ? if so it might mean you have to rid yourself of all those things that keep you at home like netflix, youtube, porn etc.

The examples i give might be extreme but I am just trying to clarify my take on what I believe might be causing this.

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#31

Yeah, I do understand :slight_smile: Might be other stuff than beliefs. Do you think tho that eye of the storm could help with this? It’s a strong module, on it I can have nicotine laying around and just don’t jump on it (found out I had 3 gums of nicotine, took one to focus on my work in the afternoon few weeks ago, and didn’t touched it again!!)

I still think this goes in multiple direction. In the sense that if you don’t feel like you are enough, you could jump into a relationship with a really beautiful and smart girl, but feel like you don’t deserve her. At this point I think the best course of action is to change the belief. Might also be good to keep in mind that old belief, like you mentionned, when you have a low, it is possible that the belief comes back!

@Simon thank you for sharing this, didn’t knew you could read the whole post from a snippet haha, but it does makes a lot of sense! I’ll try to push in those direction.

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#32

Do i feel that the eye of the storm would help with this ?. I have read the description however as to whether it will help I really do not know. It might put you back on track however if your old habits react then it might push you into heavy reconciliation. For every reaction there is going to be an equal and opposite reaction.

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#33

Yeah you are right. Reconciliation is something I feel I’ve been keen to forget in these times. Growth takes time.

When I run my Khan custom, I get quick results, but there are mainly the results I was having last year, my subconscious doesn’t have problem with affirmation that has already been dealt with. For permanent growth to happen, beliefs and habits needs to be changed, which means time involvement.

My Khan custom is strong, but like every other subs, it needs time to grow on me and push beyond what my subconscious had already explored.

So, what is you would combine eye of the storm with a sub that had been shown to reduce reconciliation like rebirth? :thinking:

#34

Yup, pretty sure working on this à couple hours a week could greatly increase yearly growth!!

I just tested this in the past few days. Khan, for me, is not the subs that makes me the most productive. I’ve neglected this part of just grinding 8 hours on a work project or doing a homework on superfocus mode!

Yesterday I knew I had to change, I ran 2 loops of my Stark custom (the one with Stark and SS I ran this summer), and consciously focused on the fact I wanted to work on my research work. Boom! Yesterday I worked 6 hours of pure intense focus and today I’ve been working for the past hour and a half, completing lots of small details, correcting mistakes and looking up new content to add for my team!

Conscious focus + the right sub will definitly make you grow. I was able to study 10-12 hours per day this summer (not 10-12 hours of study and facebook Hahaha, real study, 10 minutes break every hour). Running 1 loop of Stark made this programming came back really quick in my brain!

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#35

Hahaha. When you said “Simon should write … at least an article”, I was like "That’s already an article." :smile:

#36

@SubliminalUser just posted about his experience with this journaling process.
It is also a good example of consciously guiding your sub. :ok_hand:t2:

Linking the snippet here. :wink:

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#37

Bro, you keep changing your avatar :open_mouth: I’m confused!

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#38

Don’t worry. I’ll keep this one for a while. :slight_smile:

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#39

Is it because of Dragon healing that you switched up to a dragon :wink:

Now that I realize that WhiteTiger does pretty much confine me to a fixed avatar, maybe I should of choose TheWhiteTiger, which allow more flexibility in my head!

#40

That’s the obvious part. If you look deeper, the avatar also contains Simon, Stark, Gold, and Medici. :smile:

#41

I’m to confused for that hahaha

But I’ll put E2 on my read list! Or try to find the experiment!

Edit : “To up the stakes, you’re going to ask the FP for a blessing or what I call an unexpected gift. You’regoing to give it 48 hours to send you a gift you wouldn’t normally receive—a surprise check in themail, a card from an old friend, something that is truly unexpected.”

“Take note of how you feel about asking the energy field for a blessing. Do you feel a bit antsy,wonder if you’re being selfish, doubt whether it’s appropriate to ask for something good? This feelingprovides telling insight. Maybe you don’t believe you deserve a gift. That thought sends signals to theenergy field and affects its resonance. Perhaps you think it’s only appropriate to ask for somethingyou need. That signal, too, is being radioed to the energy field.To do this experiment properly, you have to set aside skepticism. Not forever; just for 48 shorthours.”

@Simon I really need to be open minded to try this hahaha. Usually not my type, I am so down to earth. But I might just try it. Belive for 48h that I’ll get something from the world.

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#42

Where the medici?

#43

It reminds more of a logo for a Chinese restaurant. There are lots of “Golden Dragon Restaurants” in Chinatowns all over the world.

Anyway, in the old days, many Chinese parents would name their boys “Golden Dragon”, in the hope that the kid would prosper one day and bring glory to the family. Perhaps that’s the Medici component in your avatar.

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#44

Thanks for the info. Didn’t know.

For me the Medici component was that it looks like a Gold Coin – Bullion. :blush:

The original image I wanted to use was this half kilo silver coin,
but the small thumbnail version appeared too much like @Hermit’s avatar.

:slight_smile:

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#45

Speaking of coins and Medici…

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#46

@Simon reading your EoG journal instructions would you suggest keeping Stage 1 of Khan/EoG/DR as part of your journey throughout regardless of whatever sub you’re using?

#47

I recommend stacking any file whenever you feel it can help.

The idea of a multi-stage journey is that your baseline belief level has so changed that {a} such limiting thoughts don’t even occur to you, and {b} if those do show up, they do not have enough charge to derail you.

:+1:t2:

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#48

I see, I understand.
I feel like I may need to expand on the healing stages a little more - even if continuing my current stage.

I think we’ve all come to realise how much healing, as traumatic it is, is massively beneficial.

#49

Bumping this cuz relevant.