Would you explain how you do this?
Im not a master at it yet. But this comes from a guy that was one of the top guys in the dating industry. I’m not gonna mention his name because he don’t want to be asscoiated with that anymore.
He knew all tacticis and then learned it was all just insignificant once you could do what I said above.
The masucline gives the feminine attention so it can shine, be free, feel charged. You don’t try to lead it to sex or anywhere for that matter. The femine recieves.
You are just holding that empty space for the woman to be in. The one her feminine energy always yearn to be in.
The true masculine not this fake alpha shit… Imma explore this a lot more on dates. But I did it on one date before, and we ended back at her place then in her bed. And I did nothing to lead it that way. NOTHING.
Once I realized she really wanted to be taken. I decided to give her that gift and she had her first multiple squirting orgasms in her life. This is practically tantra.
You just appreciate her divine radiance her divine beauty not as a object to fuck as the godess she is. (This does not mean you put her on a pedestal).
If you want to learn more I recommend you study the masculine and femine polarties.
I’m not an expert at this yet but It’s really cool.
This does mean you have to drop all you know about pick up pretty much though.
If you would be willing to elaborate on this, I’d appreciate it. How would you know you are holding that empty space? You’ve made it clear to me what not to do. What would you be doing?
Don’t try to understand this with your mind. You just appreciate her listen to her, Make her feel like a godess with your full attention. You don’t think of what next to say. You don’t think of what action to do to get her to bed or close her.
You are just fully there with her, Enjoying her radiance and making her feel loved and free.
And if you have a need for validation this is impossible.
Thank you! This is much more clear to me:
Some people might say “presence”… would you agree?
Anything else?
Yea full presence. Not like this presence every self help book talk about.
So break for subliminals over the weekend. But went on a date with a girl.
And it was One of the best dates I ever been on. My narrative of leading it to sex quickly got overshined by the joy and love of being with her .
She opened up super much about everything . Truly felt like her feminine were dancing around my masculine in pure Joy
So excited where I get with This subliminals + meditations and masculine energy training.
Sounds good man!
What type of meditation and masculine energy training are you using?
I’ve done vipassana for a long time, but the time requirement for this is just insane.
I do anapanda vipassana Metta. But if you really want to build masculine energy in a fast way. Do strong determination sitting.
Sit down stare at a spot on the wall for an hour without moving at all. Your mind will give you a 100 reasons of why you should not do it. It will itch, It will hurt, but just keep going until the timer for an hour sets off. Im doing this atleast for an hour every weekday now.
This is a extremely fast way to go build masculine energy. But it is also a extremely hard way. If you do that along with subliminals.
You go far my friend.
Very interesting. Will try it out - an hour is manageable.
I don’t know if you ever went to a 10-day course - but as far as I remember from the courses I’ve been to, they never asked to do anapanda in strong determination, so this will be something new.
Day 14 I think. Still no burn outs, I also started to listen to Nancy Friday Secret Garden and reading confession on reddit. Which are probably way to graphic to post here.
Women crave dominant men they want to get choked be a total in bed. But they also want to be loved and feel safe.
Just hearing what turns them on. It’s amazing, Stop letting the hot girl act fool you. I realized this was something I kinda forgot during my dive in spirituality.
Before I knew it but also lacked the love. Now I was all love but forgot about the inside.
Ps with the words I mean nothing bad.
Pss Seriously read confessions on reddit it blow your mind. You think your dating stories are crazy… You ain’t seen nothing.
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WIll keep it more vanilla from now on sorry.
Have started to study and learn about Bdsm dom sub relationships.
Also today I feel weird. It feels like I switched reality or something but have not really entered the new reality… Like i’m more in a limbo. I feel like I want to cry, Yet I feel quite at peace as well.
I think the subs are working mate!
So break over the weekend as usual. Also small things to note I got a random gift from 2 different friends.
It also seems like the break days are really important. Like the brain is always working the other days. And then on break days all that information slowly get integrated into yourself.
These subs, + Meditation and Spirituality and masculinity training is doing fucking wonders.
Also the day I felt awful… After feeling sorry for myself for 12 hours and sometimes entering short states of non duality. A burst of energy surged through me and I came out with a amazing realization that got integrated.
I’m thinking so too.
Yep, sounds like it’s working… and you are too.
can u please tell me more about rest days?
I’m not sure what you might want to know so I’ll do my best.
Think of rest days like time off from gym. If you go to the gym and do a 2 hour workout everyday, you might overtrain and then your body may get into a state of fatigue and not repair.
With rest days with sub, your brain can have a chance to recover from the information being presented to it. Rest. Then you can have more energy to put the script into action.
With Q strength, generally Subliminal Club recommends starting with 1 loop per day 5 times a week, taking 2 rest days on the weekend.
Does this answer your inquiry?
So this week have nothing been short of amazing. Things out of this world have happened and I’m not even gonna try to explain them.
All I know is I can not hide from this anymore. Yesteerday I held a amazing meditation that made the whole group feel loved. Then later one of my mentors and friends called me. It brought me to my knees because the love I felt was so Immense.
Nothing is random.
I’m glad you are having positive and obvious results!
So I figure even I don’t update daily I should at least do updates now an then. First of all I removed the rich from the night stack and I’m now running one loop of rich solace on the day.
This week have been a roller coaster. I got tag teamed abused by my mentors. My ego was utterly broken,. But out of it came something more pure.
So I have radiated love for a long time according to a lot of people I met. But I had trouble expressing it. And even more trouble recieving it. It was like one part of me kept giving love after the heartbreak.
But I never demanded love for myself… Which is prolly why I had trouble connecting with girls for a long time…
So I have now started to express love all over. Send to friends, Say I love you to my mom and hug her.
Like I’m sure you love your parents, But how often do you actually express it.?Went out giving random people. compliments…
Everything to make the love more unconditional and pure.
And also learned a insanely advanced way to super charge sexual energy. And a mindset that remove the. notion of pickup, And instead creates a very loving giving interaction.
Do you have a subliminal that open nightclubs again XD.