Fear of Cold Approaching Women. Always In My head

Primal Seduction, Elixir and Rebirth.

Elixir is like a sniper when it comes to healing, if you already know what your problem is, Elixir is a great choice for diving deep into your specific issue and solving it fast.

“When used in a stack, it will focus on the greatest issues that block you in tandem with the subliminal you are running. Running it with Mogul for example, Elixir will be finding and dissolving the greatest wealth limits.”

I used it with Stark and Sanguine this month and I’m amazed at how well it worked.

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Am actually putting my best to put off porn completely from my life!!

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@SWITCH Probably for the best, haha. Good for you, man!

Primal Seduction + WANTED → you’ll be swimming in girls.

Girls will be way more receptive to you when you say hi.

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@Switch please read this post like 10 times. Lol

Go with Primal.

This is the order:

Personality → Social Fluidity → Escalation → Seduction → Technique

S&S is primarily focused on Escalation, Seduction and Technique.

None of that matters if your Personality, Social Fluidity and potential for Escalation is weak.

Having any type of focus on your outer game right now will be inefficient as it will detract from the focus of developing what you’re lacking the most.

It’s equivalent to learning how to run when you’re too out of shape to even walk.

The first step is Personality. That’s the internal framework.
If you don’t have that, then you’ve already lost.

Personality objectives:
- Eliminate all mental and emotional blockages preventing you from becoming a highly sexual, sensual and sexy man.
- Develop a highly sexual, sensual, sexy, carefree attitude with women.
- Enhance and improve your naturally charismatic attributes.
- Generate a sense of natural, very attractive dominance.

Okay, now you have charisma and attractive dominance.
You’re a highly sexual and sensual man.

Personality, check.

The next step is Social Fluidity.
This focuses on the pathways of expression for your Personality, making your expression of it more receptive to others while increasing your potential for escalation.

Social Fluidity is the bridge between Personality and Escalation.

Social Fluidity objectives:
- Eradication of social anxiety and approach anxiety in particular (mental worry and anxiousness over every detail in the interaction).
- Experience complete nonchalance and enjoyment of everything you do, especially in social situations.
- Develop a sense of relaxed optimism, knowing that all is well.
- Enhance your ability to have fun and be a fun person.
- Experience masterful automatic calibration in social situations.
- Automatic passing of social testing.
- Extremely accurate social intuition and calibration.
- Betterment of social status.

Social Fluidity, check.

The next step is Escalation.
Primal doesn’t focus on fully developing Escalation. It gives you that initial momentum/push to get you going. The Escalation in Primal is foundational, meaning it focuses on removing obstacles of Escalation more than it does enhancing/developing Escalation itself (S&S).

The main obstacles of Escalation, are Anxiety and Fear of Rejection.

Escalation objectives:
- Eradication of social anxiety and approach anxiety in particular (mental worry and anxiousness over every detail in the interaction).
- Create a mental shield against any and all forms of perceived rejection — never feel sad after -rejection, or let a past rejection prevent future romance / social attempts.
- The uncanny ability to be physically and mentally completely relaxed at any moment.
- Easy kino and verbal escalation.

There’s also a cherry on top to allow you opportunities for Escalation.
Romance manifestation — find yourself around women who are madly attracted to you.

Personality → Social Fluidity → Escalation (foundational) are all covered in Primal enough to the point where you should be able to get your foot in the door.

So when you approach a woman, it will be natural, they’ll be receptive to you and you won’t be in your head, nervous or fearful of rejection. You’ll be present in the moment and have fun.

Once you have your foot in the door and have approached a woman. THEN you can focus on Sex & Seduction to take your Escalation, Seduction and Technique to the next level.

Or you can run Primal Seduction and focus on development of the whole package:
Personality → Social Fluidity → Escalation → Seduction → Technique

So Primal for Inner Game.
Then branch out into S&S or PS when you’re ready to focus on outer game and you feel like your inner game isn’t severely holding you back as it currently is.

Now…

You like to use the term “limiting belief” a lot.

Limit Destroyer description:
Limit Destroyer has a very specific purpose in mind — destroying, dissolving and removing any and all internalized limitations, including those you may even know existed. With each loop, Limit Destroyer will drill deeper and deeper into your subconscious, removing the fears and limits that hold you back from greatness.

These could be beliefs along the lines of “I am not good enough”, “I cannot do this”, or even “she is too good for me,” Limitations we have can manifest in many scenarios.


Limit Destroyer should also help you with PMO as well…

Voytek (verified owner of Limit Destroyer) – July 18, 2021

I’ve broken out of the nasty addiction of watching porn and masturbating after almost 30 years of doing so on a daily basis. I attribute it to Limit Destroyer


I would run Wanted, Primal, Limit Destroyer as a stack.
Swap Primal with S&S or PS when your Inner Game is better.

That’s all I got

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Surprised noone here has mentioned Khan at 1.

I would probably agree with Luther that Primal is a much better choice than PS, for all the reasons he mentioned.

But Khan 1 is PURELY focused on those beliefs.

It would make more sense to go Khan ST 1, then Primal, then PS.

Or, for an extremely light title that would hit fast, GLM

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I always forget about Primal.

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be careful with this area man.

i suspect everyone will just jump in and say…

STOP PORN!!!

STOP PORN!!!

STOP PORN!!!

but this is flawed and UNSCIENTIFIC reasoning

why?

everyone has different body chemistry and biological make up

for example, i knew this guy who jerked off and watched porn regularly but was also very successful with women in real life.

THIS IS NOT ME ENCOURAGING YOU TO WATCH PORN

im neither telling you to do it and im also NOT telling you to stop

what im telling you is to NOT just assume one way or the other is good.

my advise is always the same, test different approaches and see what works best for you.

if you have any specific questions let me know, i have a lot of information in this area as i spent years very seriously tracking the impact of porn and masturbation on my life. and i even went as far as consulting with experts in this area to get the best info available.

unfortunately i have similar issues that i have yet to really find a solution to so im not much help with this.

but one thing i would suggest that might help indirectly is to try and get girls to approach you.

Libertine should have some girls approaching you in the nightlife.

i have also heard wanted gets girls approaching you but i have never used that product so im not speaking from actual experience.

But for libertine i have a lot of experience with that product and if you have issues going up to girls then you can test libertine in the nightlife and it should get girls coming up to you.

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I agree with @Luther24. I also recommend Primal based on your description of your current reality. None of the outer game stuff will matter if your inner game is not solid. Confidence in yourself and in your approach is the foundation of it all if you lack that then the battle is lost before you even open your mouth.

My final answer is Primal

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but there is also the aspect that some of these things intersect.

for example, i actually consider muscle to be an inner game element of success with women while most people think of it as outer game.

why do i think this?

because in my experience the most valuable thing by far that gaining muscle can do for a guy is improve his dominance, assertiveness, etc…

That’s a whole lot there!!
Thanks. Am still thinking Primal or PS?

Every kinda of person has insecurities either tall, short muscular or beautiful. I had this insecurity that lead me to start hitting the gym in the hope that getting big will get off my insecurities yet 6months in am still feeling the same way I felt before hitting the gym.

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That’s an interesting perspective and I agree with you from a certain point of view. Muscle changes the way you look, but the drive, dedication, and discipline required to gain muscle is completely psychological, and transfers over into other areas of your life. In short, if you wanna get big, you gotta learn how to work hard and show up, very important for life.

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I hear you. I think a lot of people here that are giving very good advice about this problem. Innerwork vs outter work seems to be the theme here and it seems like you need more inner work. Don’t stop hitting the weights but spend more time thinking about the person hitting the weights?

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Actually you have the keen sense of observing one,I suggest you might be a good Coach /counselor.
Your posts has always been outstanding since the last 3months on this channel, you quite became more popular due to your long and educating posts. Thanks once again.
If I must say , If I had a chance for you to mentor me more deeply I would grab that chance!!

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This is my 3rd month on Wanted. But I haven’t seen all those claimed objectives yet. Apart from dreams that is related to myself and a girl playing love.

Actually Porn is never an option.(Porn is a digital DRUG)it destroys one’s self esteem overtime, just that some people don’t watch much due-- time factor making them less prone to the side effects of porn addiction!

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Why should I run rebirth when I had already ran Regeneration in the past ?

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Rebirth helps you become who you want to be.

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I’ve found that True Social is really good at getting me out of my head

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