I’ve heard from one of the Neville modern teachers say that what you feel about your SP (specific person) they also feel about you.
To add my own two cents here, if you can get to the place of being okay with our without. Nonchalance. Then from there you’d just know that whatever your desired version of reality is so. It just takes practice if you’re so inclined. Persist until your desired reality comes to pass. That’s my understanding of it. So simple yet even those of us who love to study these things, have we completely mastered it yet? Or is it more of intellectual fancy.
That’s also why Neville Recommends you get to the ‘I am’ state. Before you do your imagine the feeling of the wish fulfilled stuff.