I joined not even a week ago, so I’ll share a little about me first.
Not sure what the opinion here about YouTube subliminals is, but that’s what I’ve been doing for the past ~6 months with good results. I had 3-4 favorite channels and got consistent benefits, so I decided to take it to the next level and joined SC.
My goal is to advance in my career. As I’ve been going up the ladder I realized that so far it’s been enough to “be” good, but I’m getting to the point where it’s equally important, if not more, to “play” good. I’m HORRIBLE at office politics. I’ve always despised people that advance this way, yet at the same time I admire and envy them because what they do seems out of reach to me.
My main problems are that I try to avoid conflict whenever possible and I hate being the center of attention. Think about me as being the complete opposite of the typical obnoxious, egocentric, asshole. Also, when it comes to socializing, I’ve always preferred a small group of good friends, over being surrounded by many acquaintances. The result is that I’m typically not the guy everyone knows around the office because I tend to fly under the radar.
So, with that in mind, I ordered Emperor, Stark, and Commander because it seemed the description fit very well with my objectives. I put the three tracks on a playlist and I’ve been playing it throughout the day on a loop. I take breaks here and there, but on average, I’d say I have it on anywhere from 10-14 hours (including at night most of the time). Here is what I noticed:
- Best mood in months in the second day of listening (faded away the next day)
- More confident talking to others
- More inclined to get involved and to express my opinion
- A feeling of knowing everything will be fine or fall into place with time
- More resistant to physical pain (very surprised about this; not sure if it has to do with the subliminal)
- I feel like I need more rest, particularly in the afternoon
- Easily frustrated with people / shorter fuse
- Randomly feeling “horny”
- More aggressive, blunt, direct
I really don’t like the aggressiveness aspect of it. Even though I’ve always tried to avoid conflict, when the conflict is unavoidable, I go all-in and don’t hold anything back. I’ve always been like that, and maybe that’s why I always try to avoid conflict in the first place. Being more aggressive in those situations is the opposite I need. I’d like to be more assertive and set boundaries sooner, before there is a conflict to deal with.
Problem is I don’t know which of these effects come from which subliminal since I’m running all three in sequence. I wonder if it’d be better to stick only with one.
What are your thoughts? Should I do just one, and if so, which one and for how long?
Is there any other subliminal you’d recommend based on what I want to achieve?
If there are any synergistic effects of running them together I wouldn’t want to lose on that. On the other side, I’m also concerned that there might be “conflicting” messages in this stack, which could reduce the overall benefit.
Hope someone can offer their opinion and share their experience dealing with something similar.