To be fair, I spent the entirety of 2021 running through Dragon Reborn. This is more intense, a lot more, but I’ve crossed the abyss before and I can do it again.
I think that the key word in what you said there is pro active. I couldn’t really bring myself to write about this during the week or so I was going through it, it REALLY sucked when the unexpected feelings hit. A while into it though, I realized that if the situation was making me that uncomfortable, I had better do something about it rather than just sitting there in misery. That’s when I really started communicating with the wife told her I was having a major problem with this, that it was likely being amplified by Khan, and we worked some things out to where I had less of an issue.
So this event not only gave me insight, but spurred me to take action and let me practice being assertive without being a douche nozzle about it. So far Khan is bloody awesome if painful.
I’m doing four cycles for the first three stages and six for stage four. I think this’ll be worth the time spent.
Could you elaborate on this please? Do you mean time spent finding an efficient way, or that I should try to log the hours doing cold approach, ect?