Not much context beyond I am curious about how many haters each of the people here has (in present moment or in very recent past - 1 / 2 years)
Also what did you take away from it?
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Not even sure. Don’t care 
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Not sure I actually care whether I have haters or not. I’m too busy chasing goals that are so big that they require 100% of my attention. Haters will have to until I’m available.
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i have a personality trait where people don’t like me when they meet me or have glancing interactions with me, then once they get to know me tell me how much they misjudged me and how i’m awesome. This is a regular thing for me. One person said it’s because i look like I’m going to talk and act like a “bro” but i’m actually not.
I also find i get haters from people who are extremely unconfident in themselves because my confidence seems “fake” to them as they can’t possibly imagine someone is just naturally confident without it being some ploy or deception. People who are emotional wrecks often tell me they don’t trust me because they don’t “feel my pain” when it’s like bro… if you need me to be a sob story to be friends with me… no… just no…
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what makes you/made you so confident?
Edit: How did you become so confident?
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i’m loud and actually confident
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I used to get haters just for being self-contented and minding my own business, the quiet type. So the polar opposite and it’s just that it stirs up other people’s own insecurities, but we humans tend to make them the problem instead of finding our own unbothered place within.
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Hahahahaha doesn’t everyone have haters?
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People dislike/hate me in the past because I shown to much good vibes. Somehow most people can’t share a good vibe here in Switzerland,maybe for a minute but not longer.
I try something different since 2 days and I have success.
I don’t provide any longer a good vibe for others, instead I have my good vibe for myself and talk normally about the boring stuff I would normally avoid.
I still need a lot of finetuning, but the way people treated me today was what I expected when I throw happynes around.
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I’m sure I have a few or several dozen haters but it’s OK. I hate everyone anyway 
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That’s interesting, how did this develop?
And how did they act today
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Haters serve the purpose of getting clicks and views for one’s social media content 
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Haters are the reason some of the youtubers and influencers are even popular 
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Please shift this thread to the Emperor’s Lounge 
. Thank you.
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Oh, you have no idea. 
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Everyone loves me 
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No one knows about me. Zero idea if I have haters. Couldn’t care less.
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I get compliments for my play (Foosball) all the time ( normally I feel the dislike of people)
I get invited to play with a top 1st league player
I get one on one coaching lesson from the first league player
I get an invitation to private parties, also to pick me up from home.
All because I didn’t enter the club and startet to have fun and be happy. (that’s what I normally do) normally everyone is happy when I go. So they can be confortable again in their static life and have no more someone around who is really happy and in a good vibe.
Swiss people make no sense to me.
I would love to meet people who are on my level or better
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I do not know and I would prefer not to know.
Such a simple question but such a difficult answer.
Simplest way to put it is I spent years and years successfully solving my problems.
Couldn’t hold a relationship - fixed that.
Couldn’t keep a job - became an entrepreneur, then a really talented sales person, then a sales manager for an amazing company
Even just those two things took let’s call it 7 or 8 years to genuinely fix.
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