I came several times to the conclusion that actually women think very differently about relationships and sex than men.
It is still confusing to me many times cause I see the world, relationships, sex in a way and in my relationships with women I noticed that actually they have different frames which I dont understand.
What is your experience, your opinion about this? Any idea is welcome.
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For this to answer, we would first need to know YOUR perception of relationships and sex?
From what I observed women LOVE sex and a lot of it. Actually, the more orgasms, the better she feels about the relationship.
You know, oxytocin overload 
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Exactly. And in the right context they become very sexual and kinky and actually sexually “aggressive”. I think they are very sexual creatures, but maybe they need a proper context to express this.
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Oh so your confusion arises from how society paints it?
Yeah, well, this is intentional, but if I say this I’ll get handed a tinfoil hat.
Let’s just say, most of what you hear/see in pop culture/media/etc is bullshit, but SPECIFICALLY everything about what women want is straight crap.
You need to dig yourself.
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I would say don’t try understand too much.
You have the basic ideas in place about sex etc.
They love sex but society programmes you and them to think sex is evil.
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Yep. They want the right man to bring that sexually uninhibited side out
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Read the first book of the Rational Male series (by Rollo Tomassi). You will understand what women want.
But as the saying goes “the truth will set you free but first it will piss you off”. You will get a little angry. Anger over people not teaching this to you. Anger that most men in your life don’t know about it. Anger that even women can’t articulate it to you. This is okay. What is important is to get over the anger and learn.
You can use this knowledge to your advantage. Do that and you will succeed with women.
Remember to not drown in the anger. This is very important because a lot of men are stuck there when they hear the evolutionary biological truth about women. Men are simple. We want to spread our seed. But women have 2 aims. Will let you find out more from the book.
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Not all men think the same about sex and relationships. So I don’t think you can lump all women together in the same box either.
That’s true.
Explanation would be that we all have a dark side, but not everyone acts on it.
Does every man have had a thought about a threesome or laying 20 hotties? Probably.
Does every man actually WANT that? No.
Does every woman have had a thought about ditching her guy because a higher value male came around? Probably.
Does every woman actually ACT on that? No.
While the basic, primal instincts are still in place, some have learned to overcome them. Some haven’t. That’s pretty much it.
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Or you can run Wanted.
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Use all tools to your advantage. Whether it is knowledge or subliminals.
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All this is good and if you are feeling adventurous consider finding out about r/K selection.
Then, if you are feeling REALLY adventurous consider r/K selection and how it pertains to politics.
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It’s been years since I read the Anonymous Conservative.
The book was a great read. 
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Must admit that this is the first time am hearing of it. Will look into it. Thank you.
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What is r/K selection?
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Reproductive and carrying capacity.
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Do you know where can I find out more about this?
DuckDuckGo it.
…and, I have a couple new books on the reading list now. I love how knowledgeable this community is
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Hi guys. Yes we do think differently. Scenario or what normally happens to me shall we say - Girl meets boy, they like each other and start chatting. Gradually trust begins to grow between them. They go on dates, gradually the sexual side begins to raise its head. Next step happens- the bedroom. Suddenly the guy is like oh I don’t know if I want a relationship but I think I want FWB . Girl is like nope I want proper relationship. Ghosted. Oh but then a couple of weeks of no contact guy is like I still want to sex with you when I want. Girl’s reaction thanks for the compliment but err no.
So you tell me how this went wrong? Coz from where I’m sat I was thinking nice friendship until sex started. I have a couple of male friends who say that they will help do things in my flat like fix a leaky tap in return for sex. I’m not that desperate nor do I want that sort of relationship. So why do guys give the impression that they want a relationship then as soon as they have had sex ask for FWB? It makes me feel cheap and it hurts.
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You honestly just encountered a bunch of horn boys.
OR, the other option is you dress too revealing, so the only thing men think when they see you is sex.
That’s pretty much the only 2 options when you get constantly ghosted.
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