Do women think differently about relationships and sex?

Questions and Comments
#22

So we have lots of people in this thread sharing their knowledge on sex and relationships which is great. Can anyone explain to me how these two became a married couple

Keen to hear your opinions @AlexanderGraves

#23

Men’s dating strategy is to spread their seed while a woman’s dating strategy is to find the best option.

This is why women control access to sex and men control access to relationships. Meaning a man has to prove that he is attractive for a woman to have sex with him while a woman should prove that she is relationship material for the man.

If you are submissive, kind, cooks and cleans, a man will generally want to be in a relationship with you. For this, you have to be discerning and know the man. That’s why women withhold sex from men they want to have a relationship with until they are both committed.

If you say no, it is a no

Not a good idea to have male friends. All men require sex and are just waiting for the opportunity. This is why men and women can’t be friends. Also, if you need things fixed at home, pay to get it done.

There are many men who use relationships to get sex and many women who use sex to get relationships. Not a good idea if both of them can’t be honest with each other at the start of the dating.

A man’s honesty is when he tells her that he wants to keep things casual between them at the beginning. And if she says no, he will agree to that and moves on.

A woman’s honesty is when she tells him that she wants to have a relationship before sex. And if he says no, she will agree to that and moves on.

This difference is there because it is easier for a woman to get sex and easier for a man to get into a relationship.

Hope this helps.

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#24

They’re exactly like you but flipped.

You are attracted to submissiveness in a woman, sweetness. Her femininity.
Whilst she is attracted to dominance, strength of character and leadership qualities. Your masculinity.

Women will always hide this because it makes them feel vulnerable or whatever.

You’re welcome.

#25

Ahhh, the outlier scenario to explain the common ground.

Not gonna fall for this one, friend :wink:

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#26

Despite what we know about science and attraction. It baffles me how such a couple can be together. He is not rich, its not a publicity stunt it comes across as a geniune desire for one another.

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#27

If people cannot influence our own natures, and play around with ‘the rules’ somewhat, then what are any of us doing here?

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#28

Mate one day if you are ever in my neck of the woods contact me. We will chat over a coffee.

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#29

Mate, if the guy can trigger some kind of emotionnal reaction in her that no other guy can, then it’s done! :wink:

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#30

@GoldenTiger I think your right you have reminded me of an experience i had in my 20s which i will share with you when i have time. It goes against everything that seduction gurus talk about today.

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#31

Well, seduction gurus are talking about emotions and all… They just teach ways to generate emotions on a “overall” level, not specific related to “one person”.

There are two factors :

Success/Provider

Emotions/Hotness

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#32

I certainly don’t dress sexily unless jeans and tshirt are classed as that. I do try to keep fit and have an hourglass figure. I consider myself kind, helpful, caring but not over the top. I was a carer to my parents for 40 yrs. I’ve come to the conclusion sex confuses things a lot. Hey ho maybe one day I will get it right :rofl:

#33

It’s really hard to tell by forum, relationship, attraction and communication is mainly non verbal and the forum is only verbal :sweat_smile: