Yeah I know the disconnection thing entirely due to people not seeming aware of some deep stuff. Interesting suggestions here of Stark and Inner Circle. I’d be more interested in the Inner Circle because charisma can make you attract more people you don’t fit with.
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What you are experiencing in your late 20s I’m experiencing in my late 30s, what an advantage you have 
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I’m kind of finding that for me it seems to be just a symptom of still having my own things to work through. Like if I was fully loving myself then I wouldn’t be that concerned with meeting people. I would be much more present and in the moment and fulfilled as is. Like I like when things go smoothly and harmoniously, I get truck loads of that when I’m by myself, but getting back around people and it can seem like chaos again. But then again it’s just learning to not react to it and still flow with life because the flow is always here.
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I’ve always been an introvert, but I was also always hypersocial. I could only be alone for only so long, then I had this burning desire to be amongst people. I craved adventure and was always finding something new and exciting to do.
In the past few years, however, I’ve turned into a straight up hermit, particularly ever since COVID and the political nonsense that went with it. Regardless of what “side” you fall on, the amount of vitriol and hatred people spewed at each other just had a very profound effect on me, and I decided to pretty much walk away from it all. I have no desire to be “out there.” I’m just very content with being alone, taking care of my family and friends and working hard on my inner mentality, cultivating my spirit and the such. And to be honest, I see nothing wrong with it.
I’m learning to find peace with the fact that the majority of the world prefers to just go along with their day and not think of “higher” things. And, that’s okay. Society would collapse if everyone just became philosophers and “explorers.” We need those who would help maintain the traditional foundations of society.
Find an outlet like a blog or website to discuss your thoughts and beliefs and let the other seekers find you. Turn your focus inward and develop the self. Just my two cents.
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@Melody You’re definitely going through a challenging phase, and many of us have felt disconnected at times. It’s crucial to recognize that your unique interests and perspectives are strengths, even if they make you feel isolated.
While your interests are valuable, try to find common ground with others as a way to initiate deeper conversations. Meeting people where they are and gradually introducing them to your perspectives can be effective.
Your depth of understanding about different topics sets you apart in a unique and exceptional way. While it’s true that sometimes you might feel like an outsider, remember that pioneers and visionaries often stand alone in their insights before the world catches up.
Your ability to engage in real, meaningful discussions is a gift. It’s a guide that can lead others toward deeper understandings. Instead of seeing your interests as a barrier, think of them as a bridge to connect with people on a profound level.
Embrace your wisdom, and know that you have the potential to inspire and uplift those around you. Your authenticity and willingness to explore unconventional topics make you a leader. As you continue your journey, you’ll attract kindred spirits, like-minded people, who appreciate your unique perspective.
Patience is key in building meaningful connections. It may take time, but the right people who appreciate your uniqueness will come into your life. Stay true to your values and interests while remaining open to new experiences and friendships.
Keep shining, because it’s individuals like this who often lead humanity toward progress. Your path may be less traveled, but it’s one that holds immense value. 
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Thanks for writing this, had a lot come up from reading! I’ll save you the emotional dumping but very insightful. Had major recon the past few days (but profound) and realised I’d been denying truths about how I operate.
I agree it is a paradox, balance is the key. Theirs a time and a place 
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It is a possibility in the future once I master reputation. Fame is a tricky one personally but everything else is a great match. Thanks for the recommendation 
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Great reframe. You can’t be for everybody but there are people who match is the take away from this!
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I’ll keep on PCC for 3 months and give it a go as it seems like a natural progression as it seems to be working. Appreciate this.
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Feeling safe with and around people maybe an important step towards this.
Yeah letting people go can be difficult but if it’s for growth and overall fulfilment then it’s okay to not be guilty is what i get from this! Thanks.
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Too true, it’s easy enough in the UK to stay sucked in with that but you make a good point, sometimes the right path can be lonely for a while.
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Yeah it’s a tricky one. Society seems designed to keep you sucked in. There’s no going back really once you open your eyes enough. People seem okay with a safe life and if everyone around you are, then you’re the odd one out, fighting to get away from it all. You weren’t born in the wrong century, you value a richer experience than what people have been brainwashed to believe is the best it can be. Appreciate the support!
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Brilliant wisdom, and helpful mindset. People don’t have to be exactly like you, just enough through at least one commonality. Realised i tend to lean towards looking for differences far more!
Think I’ve made my mind up with PCC as it has charisma scripting. But they are great choices as I evolve. Social skills and particularly being able to relax because I know how to defend myself seems like a step to master before inner circle. (Genesis mindset)
I see your point, better now at 23, gratitude is something to work on! All the best with your journey, at least you found subs at some point in your life, most may never.
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Seems like we share a similarity with this. If you don’t need to be a people person to succeed and get everything you want out of life, then it’s not really an issue. However most of the new doors that can open in life are somewhat connected to people. If you avoid everybody and you get along with no one more than small talk, the potential for large growth is dampened. Personally my only choice is to improve this area, especially for collaborating.
With Stark, it will push you to go out in a gentle, natural way that doesn’t feel awkward at all. But if fame scares you, give True Social a try.
Better yet, have you tried the Life Charger app on Android yet?
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Same. That’s why I’ve been struggling with wanting to do True Sell, and PCC, and even S&S.
I was ready to suggest a beefed up version of Inner Circle and True Social but make it more of a platonic version of Heartsong for meeting the right people for like those one or two true friends and just being around the right kind of people for whatever our goals are.
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Thanks for sharing Saint, you make some good points too. Let people be and focus on continual improvement. Seems like COVID made you re-evaluate what you deem important in your life which is profound.
Your outlook has brought a lot of questions to reflect on (and with that more recon, god damn it! haha) All the best
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Never really thought about true social actually, good shout.
Now funnily enough I haven’t… I’m curious what is it exactly?
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