Okay damn, I’m a dumbass. So, I decide to go to my favorite bar, but it’s closed. So, I go to a bar nearby that I’ve never been to. All of a sudden, a hot MILF comes up, and we start chatting. Everything is going great, she’s super into me. But all the men around me keep giving me mean looks, and the bartender even tried to cockblock me. I got a bit overwhelmed and went out for a cigarette. And then she’s gone… The worst part? I see her going out and heading to the hotel across the road. I literally could’ve gone with her, but I wimped out and went for a cigarette. God, I feel so bad
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I did get her number before she left. But the point is that I could’ve gone home with her, and she was definitely down… for damns sake…I absolutely hate myself for this
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It made me realize a simple thing: I just have to be around girls who are just looking for a shag, and I’m sorted
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No worries, that is not the only opportunity that will come. It’s okay. Give yourself some grace man. It’s not a big deal.
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Yup, I will have more opportunities like this. No worries
Thanks for keeping up with me @Realitysmith
It’s night time for me now so ill try to go to sleep. Tomorrow is another day.
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Lol yeah I’m kinda following you cuz you’ve done a lot of the same titles as me, but now you’re running Khan which is what I want to do a few cycles from now.
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I’m enjoying Khan a lot, even though it can be a bit tough to run at times. I’m starting to think that it’s essential for every man to run it.
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Feeling much better about last night today. I really want to keep the bad vibes in this journal to a minimum, but sometimes I just have to let the emotions out lol. It’s also probably recon. I think I was pretty much right about what works for me when it comes to seduction. Staying cool, calm, and collected, while still being playful and flirty to keep the sexual energy between me and the girl. Just being myself basically. Cause I really wasn’t doing much, she was the one doing most of the seducing and initiating. It’s funny because I remember another guy trying to chat her up, but she was barely paying attention to him, I was her center of attention.
Day 5 of Khan Stage 3 (5 min) and WB (15 min) - Listening day
Alright so I finally did it. I finally made an approach! It was a very quick one so we were crossing paths, and I basically told her that she looked amazing today. She took it really well, and said thank you with a big smile.
I know it’s basically nothing, but I would have never in my life even stopped a girl to ask for the time or something simple like that haha. So yeah, I realized I was making a big deal out of it, and I actually felt awesome afterward. I noticed even more girls checking me out after that, so I think what happened is my whole vibe shifted to being more relaxed. I can see that creating a domino effect, making it easier for me to start approaching multiple girls in a day and eventually having a small convo with some to try to close for the number.
Anyway, now I can finally fall asleep peacefully. I’m telling you, last night I had trouble sleeping just because I felt bad about not being able to do even a simple approach like this. So I told myself that I absolutely had to do at least one simple approach today or I’m not coming home lol. I think tomorrow, I’ll try doing two approaches like that.
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I’ve noticed this too, even if the interaction went bad (back when I was trying to do like 10 “approaches” a day before SubClub). Interesting how this happens. Honestly I got good at getting numbers, but they mostly went nowhere. I’m not saying that’ll happen to you, but I think I’m gonna switch my strategy to the “Brent Smith way” of giving my number instead if I do any “approaches”.
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Yeah, I can see how getting the number might not always end up how we thought, I’ll have to mentally prepare myself for some disappointments lol.
Eventually I’d love to just take girls out on instant dates, or just go out into the nightlife sober and pick up girls there. Clubs and bars is where I know I’ll do good now, but I just don’t want to keep getting wasted lol. Anyway, I can see good things ahead of me!
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The way I think of it is just see every girl as “expendable” or as if she’ll wander off at any time until you’ve slept together multiple times OR she clearly 100% really likes you.
Yeah that sounds fun, unfortunately I don’t drink anymore so going to bars/clubs is difficult /: I’ve done it a few times but f*ck it’s hard. Was doing it more to get over the anxiety (and was doing it ALONE btw), never picked up a girl but I for sure feel like my balls grew from doing it (not literally lol). It was a program designed by “GoodLookingLoser” on Youtube, but it’s really hard to find now. Never finished the program, maybe I should though 
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Day 7 - Listening night. I might as well start calling it listening night cause I always listen before bed lol. Considering trying out day listening, though.
Going through a lot of recon today. Yesterday and today I had some nice opportunities to approach but I just couldnt do it. Well, these girls were on other side of the street or walking to my side and it just felt weird to me to approach them that way. I did come to a realization today that the reason why I am afraid to approach is not even so much because of what girls are gonna think or say, but rather because of what other people might think of me.
Stage 3 is definitely not easy and I even had thoughts about including Primal because it deals with issues relating to approaching directly, but I think it’s just recon. I was having exactly same thoughts a few days into stage 2, but I ignored them and that cycle became one of the most transformative for me.
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So with stage 3 there is no other way, but to take action. I can see how Khan operates now because stage 1 and 2 got me to the level where I can feel ready to start taking action. I got my physical body to an attractive state, I can easily talk and flirt with girls when I have to. I feel worthy of having women in my life, so the only thing that’s stopping me is actually making that little step to approach. That’s it.
Day 12 - Listening night
Stage 3 is going really hard on me. This week has been pretty bad with recon and other things going on in my life at the moment. The desire I had to approach women is completely gone now, but honestly, that might also be because I fapped last weekend, so my motivation for sex has toned down a bit. On the bright side, I’m reaching great levels in terms of my physique, and I’m looking better each day.
I’ve also decided to ask for a raise at my company. This thought first came to me toward the end of stage 2, but this week I decided to man up and actually ask for it. It’s starting to dawn on me that I’m putting in much more than I’m getting back. That’s definitely Khan’s scripting at work.
When it comes to women, it’s interesting - whenever I do talk to girls, it feels so effortless. I’m relaxed and smooth, like I’ve always been this way, and I can see how it positively affects them. Last weekend I was at a pub, and a woman was flirting with me heavily, being touchy and giving me compliments. Too bad she wasn’t attractive, but that’s definitely WB helping me
There’s a big party going on in town tonight, and some of my friends will be there too. I’m thinking weather I should go or not. Might as well…
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I’m going through a lot of recon right now. Throughout this whole cycle of Stage 3, I can’t stop thinking about Primal. During Stage 2, those thoughts passed quickly, but with this cycle, I just keep thinking about Primal.
Tonight I went out with this one girl and her friends. To summarize, a month ago I went out with the same group, but I was completely drunk. That time, the girl and everyone absolutely loved me. Tonight, however I stayed sober for most of the time, and I could feel that neither the girl nor her friends were really vibing with me being there.
The point is, when I was drunk, I was being my true self my unhinged, primal self. Without a care in the world. I exactly know why they and she liked me, because thats not the first time that everyone gets attracted to the drunk me. And that’s how I genuinely want to be. Completely free from pondering about what others might think of me, just be my unhinged primal self. Not because some people like it or not, but because that’s who I truly am. But I can only express it when I’m drinking. But I want to be comfortable with expressing that part of me when I’m sober too.
So, now I’m seriously considering Primal. But the big question is: should I replace Khan with Primal, or should I replace WB? I really can’t decide right now. I gotta stick with Khan, but I feel like WB is helping me with so much, even beyond attraction. Idk.
Somebody just liked a couple of my posts on the Primal thread lol. All the signs lead to me running Primal
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In the situation you described, I could see Primal working better, but that doesn’t necessarily mean you should scrap WB as you said.
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I definitely want to keep WB, but I really don’t want to quit Khan either. Today, I feel better and think why should I even bother worrying about what those people think? It’s not like I have to entertain everyone I meet. I think what happened was “necessary” recon, so that I can make a bit of progress in my beliefs.
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Come to think of it, I’ve really made a lot of progress socially. I remember that Stage 2 made me feel similar to what Primal would do, but with more dominance. Stage 3 might not have as much scripting to instill beliefs, so I think I should’ve just stayed on Stage 2 longer to let those beliefs sink in deeper. Stage 4 includes the scripting of Stages 2 and 3, so I might gel with it better. I think I’ll wait until I complete Khan before deciding if I need Primal or not.
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