While embarking on the subliminal journey I’ve found myself researching more from my psychology background. Exploring around. Collecting data.
I’ve seen a lot out there relating to the narcissistic:empathic dynamic.
How to recover from narcissistic abuse.
How to stop being a victim.
How to break the codependent dynamic.
How to stop trauma bonding.
Why in the first place you’ve attracted this and what it tells you about your self concept/esteem/worth. Your own childhood trauma and inner programming.
I’m curious what can be done to help the “narcissist” for their own recovery and healing. They clearly had a traumatic childhood. They may have learned as a byproduct of their environment or maybe were born predisposed and then early conditioning lead to its formation. Many theories.
They say it’s incurable.
So much stigma on how the narcissist never changes and to run.
That sounds like avoidance and evading.
The endless cycle keeps repeating. Onto the next “victim”.
The victim continuing to see the narc in an unloving light. Continuing to feed the viscous cycle by talking about it and feeding the sickness. Focusing on problems but not solutions.
Where does it end?
It’s like a parasite of some form. A spiritual sickness of some form.
What’s the metaphysical cause behind narcissism?
When did it first become a thing in history?
If we can supposedly heal anything, then why hasn’t this been healed. Is there literature on any success stories of narcissistic people who actually recovered and truly healed? I’m talking actual NPD. Not just narc traits.
I understand there’s a spectrum and we all have some narcissistic qualities, but there has to be something here maybe not yet discovered.
Even mood disorders or all these other “chemical imbalances.”
If we get to the roots and truly heal that, wouldn’t it possible to not need medication and be able to explore the world of subliminals or other alternative modalities and have a fully balanced healthy life?
Hope my rantings are welcomed here & I am open to discussion.