In a dream its also been made clear what im currently experiencing recon about and whats changing. It is, like i mentioned a while ago, my rejection sensitivity (and thereby also my jealousy as its heavily related) thats being worked on.
In my dream i was in a big screening of some movie. Almost every seed was taken so i had to pull some strings to get a seat, than i suddenly notice some people i recognized sitting behind me. We started talking and having a fun time while the movie was actually playing. This ofcourse got on the nerves of other people and soon i noticed every person in the bio looking at us and they all said at the same time “shut up”. A bit ashamed i turned around and started watching the movie. Than suddenly a specific girl that rejected me a while Back appeared in the bio. She started being really excited to see my friend (that she doesnt know irl) and they started reminiscing. I assumed she hadnt moticed i was there so i just continued to watch the movie, untill she quickly turned her attention to me, said “and you need to shut up” (in a bit of a playfull way) and than moved back to the other side lf the room to have a seat.
I remember this, somewhat harmless remark, combined with the fact that she didnt really play any attention to me at all and just my friend, made me feel completely rejected and made me feel awfull. It was quite an intense emotions and till the end of the dream i was just there feeling really bad about myself and hoping to get her attention.
As you can see what i describe above is an extremely different reaction than someone who is truly WANTED would have.
Im quite confident that this is exactly whats being worked on right now. this feeling i get when i dont get the attention from a girl that i desire, thats the thing that i need to let go off and change. This is very much the same feeling that leads to my fear of rejection and sometimes jealousy.
Because of how intense my reaction can be (on the inside) to something seemingly minor, im almost certain its something trauma related in some way. What type of trauma i have absolutely jo clue, most likely something when i was extremely small that wasnt that big of a deal, but little kid me for some reason took to heart and created a believe out of.