Best Program For Helping a Woman Mature

Oooh. That is a tricky one. But it makes sense. You can’t do therapy on yourself. Too much bias.

It sounds like she’s off to a good start. Maybe she just needs small stepping stones to give herself some more confidence.

I can speak from experience, knowledge and awareness only takes someone so far and in a lot of ways it can be a certain type of hell witnessing yourself do the very things you know won’t result in what you want. So it’s gotta be really hard for her.

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Genesis :100: :white_check_mark:

Genesis is like the perfect starter pack for her subliminal journey—minimal healing, maximum vibes! And hey, why not sprinkle some Genesis Mogul on top?

Ah hell, why not Ascension for Woman, that will do it.

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After reading what you have said about her and in consideration of her stack I would include only Lovebomb for at least a halve year to a year.

She needs love, lots of it. Specially as a therapist herself who had no father.

:heart: Is key

All the best to her journey

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Did you ask her to join the forum?
Would be much easier to help her, especially since she can be as open as she wants and can share whatever she likes to share, unlike you.

Ascension for Women paired up with Alchemist, bro.

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Hmm, say more. Interested in the rationale

I think Ascension doesn’t need any explanation as it’s about putting your life on the right track.

When it comes to Alchemist, it’s about clearing out the negativity and becoming immune to it, finding your path and learning how to cultivate not only your energies but your inner strength.

It was Alchemist that helped me understand myself and how I really relate to the world on the deepr levels. She seems to be still looking for her place in the world that is so much different to what she thinks it is. Alchemist it the best Pathfinder.

Another thing is people envy her her contentment the most and they see her vulnerabilty as a weakess. Alchemist also shields your from negative energies and toxicity. That lets your vulnerability breathe and thrive as it’s a gift, in fact.

The Alchemist makes you a “spiritual” titan who rules over his/her inner world.

Ascension would help with the outer world.

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Interesting take.

I like the suggestions @Viktor has given. If she’s a therapist it’s possible after using the free subs like LBFH/AoH that RoM could be an option to help her explore the belief structures and aspects of the mind that might be holding them back. At the very least it would help with the self analysis.

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Is she now “allowed” to explore the world, or is she still sheltered?


Ascension for Women + Sanguine would be a good starting stack.

Nothing too emotionally challenging, motivates one to build a life – make a list of goals & projects to accomplish, build useful habits, establish basic boundaries, and – have the courage & peace of mind to pursue this new life.

Plus, should attract more respect from people, thanks to the ascended confidence.

Heavier subs can be tested later.

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She’s “allowed” to explore the world, but her mother still helicopters constantly so she’s still pretty sheltered in most ways.

Let me put it this way, she just had her first sip of alcohol at a religious service about a month ago. During which she called me like 3 times to make sure she wasn’t going to get drunk off a single mimosa.

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She had boyfriends? Or is that too filtered through her mom?

This is a big reason I recommend a therapist. They can act as a surrogate of sorts to let her bring her decisions and choices back within herself. I would worry without that she defaults to her mom who reinforces the pattern of not trusting her decisions. Also if the mom is used to her being a certain way there’s a high chance of her keeping her that way, maybe without even realizing it. That pattern sounds like it has to be broken or the attachment disconnected on a deeper psychological level. Especially if it’s been that pervasive in life. That’s going to be some deep deep family conditioning and those are hard to break because of that sort of tribal threat mentality. She doesn’t even necessarily have to go to her mom or have her in her life, but the neutral patterns will fire which essentially mimics the same. DRLD has some pretty good focus points for disconnecting from unhealthy people. So that might be one to look into.

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She doesn’t care too. I showed her the forums and some of my posts as evidence and she’s still skeptical but willing.

maybe she could make friends or spend time around mature people. Thats how I found to change in terms of my personality the most. There isnt a sub for maturing. I think maturing could be just learning to be better at social aspect. And we learn that largely by seeing others do it.

For Men there is emperor Daddy.
I don’t know if it’s in the description, but a lot of users described the experience as one of becoming more mature.

I remember so clearly, because I and others asked for a maturity module mined from EmpD.

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Interesting, won’t it derail the focus too much into the spiritual?
I don’t have good experiences with “using a sub for its secondary effects instead of its main goals”.

E.g. using RM:UWX for storytelling or WB for only social fluency without getting too derailed into other aspects of the sub like romance, job opportunities etc.

But I wonder if Alchemist is different. I’ve never used a spiritual sub after all.
Is it like KB where you won’t necessarily need to partake in the energetic practise side of things to gain benefit from the sub?

There is a vast array of instances where Alchemist can be applied:

The sub is mainly about self-mastery as mental discipline. That’s real maturity.

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There are some good ideas here.

How about Sanguine: The Elixir, and/or Regeneration?

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