Running K3/True Social custom
I have a K3/Wanted custom as well, I tested tonight
I’m decided to add Wanted occasionally for the light healing, as I have some deep insecurity around actually ever being the person the woman I want most wants, although this has been healing a lot on Khan. Support recommend this or DRR for that.
ran a minute each and 10 seconds of WB before hitting the bar tonight.
Met a super cutie at the door, and we spent the whole night hitting it up -
Two of my female friends came later -one I used to date. This new chick and I joined my friends. (the group effect helped saftey but not sure about romance)
The new woman I was talking to was super engaged- and we just flowed and flirted the whole night. The silence was full of tension and hot but not awkward, and she asked me so many questions again and again and again to fill the gaps and reopen things. I was really social with everyone at the bar, and was ‘opening’ sets of people all night, just having fun flowing in and out. This woman bought me a drink and we made plans to go for drinks another night.
When my friends came things cooled off, she kept asking how I knew them. I just told her the girl I used to date- dated my brother years ago (which is actually true lol)
The kiss didn’t feel right to go for at the end of the night. She’s 10 years younger, and everything just felt really cool. It was so easy. There were moments when I had to push things consciously, but for the most part, things just flowed. It would have been cool if things got more physical at the end but at the same time- since she lives kind of close I think its better to go slower.
I drank a bit too much and could feel myself slipping into some old patterns at the end, but felt solid at the same time.
Then, on my way home, another woman was sitting on my stoop-she was very sexy and cute, but not my normal type. I felt like talking, so we just ended up shooting the breeze for like two hours vibing. She’s like 16 years younger, and at the end of the night, she asked for my phone number and asked me out. And was like I’m available on the weekends -hit me up and we’ll go out.
This really hot 50-year-old woman I got into a convo with at the bar was also pursuing me hard, but I didn’t take it anywhere because I was more vibing with the other woman.
I have not run Khan 3 solo, but so far the combo is pretty badass. Khan has me leading and doing what I want, Wanted has woman pursuing -buying me drinks, engaging, asking me out, and TS makes everything run seamlessly. I’d be curious how things would flow with one of those out of the equation, but so far, I’m digging the this. I’ve run similar subs without this level of flow before. Sometimes I think TS is too deep/strategic, so that it can have an anti-romance effect on me, but that might be recon.
I was attracted to all three women who were really engaging me; the woman who bought me a drink was way up there for my type…not like top top- but way up there.
At the grocery store earlier, I saw my PERFECT type. I didn’t have the courage -or sense of how to engage her. We eyed fxxx each other and then did full-body sweeps each time we walked past each other. It was really hot. But she was too attractive, I got in my head. The only thing I could do was find her in the grocery aisles, go back to her and do a direct open, and I was not comfortable with that. I didn’t see a situational entry.
I can see it being just a matter of time before the women I start to draw in like this are more and more my dream types, and it flows naturally.
I also think this is the effect of a lot of the intentional, healing work and coaching I’ve been doing. As well as the intention to become attractive. I know that sounds obvious, but having that intention has transformed my romance/ seduction sub results.
I’d say most of these results are TS/Khan, with Wanted pulling the dynamic for woman to pursue rather than just me lead.
While I’ve been really open to a relationship, I could feel that while speaking to them, I would feel totally comfortable telling them I’m interested in just romance and sex, just owning where I am and being fine with whatever the result, and the willingness to have what I want or let go felt like a gravity behind the scenes.
The woman I was crazy about, whose things didn’t work out with, -nothing happened between her and my friends, and now she is texting me every day again and sending pictures. Until she says she wants romance, or flies up to see me, I’ll just enjoy her sharing and encourage that.
As I become more rooted in myself and my life and see how valuable I am as a partner, everything is getting easier along the way. I’m getting that sense I had on OG khan, not like I’m better, but like no one is like me, no one…I’m the rarest there is. I don’t get this on Wanted or WB alone but they definitely help, on Khan I start to click into this sense that I am the best possible option, not from arrogance but from a certainty in my rarity as someone who will do anything to evolve and create
I also have a new attitude of pretending I’m normal financially, as I think that having fallen in love with business and wealth generation and sharing that with women is a really stupid idea. I’d been doing it the way I’d talk to any male friends but now I just steer everything away from that. It just sets the wrong precedent. Also so many people even with great jobs are just getting by so its weird to create such a delta between us. I just talk about loving work or being totally there for people.
), Completely off and not interested in that nowbut it felt like part of a larger healing I was doing.