Ascension is amazing, sounds like it brought you a lot of inner power! Incredible change already! Keep going!
Perhaps take a look at this situation from another perspective, all this spark is coming from your body, and you communicate that to her, this social thing and attraction is coming from that place, not from only your mind. Now you got all this amazing power, try communicating from that powerful place and don’t be afraid showing more attraction to…mixed with this power is very attractive…but this might be a learning curve as you have learn to ride the wave with all this power. You can do this!
Imagine if you were in her shoes, what would it be like talking to you? How would you feel if you expressed enthusiasm and joy, and you got a non-expressive, stoic response? You might find it hard to read the other person, not knowing what they feel, nothing will change. You want to be jelly to that delicious peanut butter sandwich
all the best!