Advice from the sub club elite society lol

[Jouissance]

@themadsexyscientist

|Dragon Reborn: Regeneration Core|
|ESSENCE: To Dream of Me|
|Experimental ZPU Anti-Recon|
|Free Pass|
|Illusions of the Mind|
|Love Bomb Core|
|Omnidimensional|
|Synergy: Venus Unveiled|
|WANTED Core|
|Wholeness in Connection|

I think you f’d up.

I have f’d up on 12 customs though so I get it.

But you just have to assess the strengths/weaknesses of this custom.

Strengths:

• Heavily healing focused

Weaknesses:

• Heavily healing focused

So… it’s generally advised to keep healing out of a custom so that you can choose when to vs when not to have healing in your stack.

It seems like you wanted Wanted/WDB/LB to shine as a unique self-loving seducer archetype that’s healed relationship trauma.

Regeneration kicks that into over drive.

It’ll be an interesting stack but the biggest weakness is that Wanted/essence: WDB will completely take the back seat.

But it’s certainly some stellar prep for when you do run wanted.

I think what I would do is run Wamted Dream Boy in your stack. The QTKS + Wanted Dream Boy would be the experience you’re trying to create. Then you run the healing mammoth once a week as a healer and expect to introspect. Run 3 mins max. Don’t force the healing if u wanna skip a week.

Long term u could trade out this custom for Wanted and WOW will Wanted SHINE when you finally do

[themadsexyscientist]

makes sense, that is a very heavily healing induced stack, I keep forgetting that LB is a healing sub too

[themadsexyscientist]

@Jouissance

Long term u could trade out this custom for Wanted and WOW will Wanted SHINE when you finally do

I’ve been running wanted for like 4- 5 cycles consistently

WDB I haven’t ran yet

[themadsexyscientist]

@Jouissance

It’ll be an interesting stack but the biggest weakness is that Wanted/essence: WDB will completely take the back seat.

I’ve never really got how essence works, so to dream of me be considered like a shorter version of WDB

[MAkh]

Because you’ve laid out what you need to do to get the results that you want

But you want to run Wanted and focus on many goals

There’s a huge difference between need and want

One is harder than the other to do

[Layman]

Well, the thing is, I have a dysregulated nervous system, and chronic fatigue (and autism and etc).
So the thing is, SaintSovereign has said at various times, DR: Regeneration is a title specifically designed for healing and restoring a frazzled nervous system.

I’d add that I seem to recall him saying somewhere that he doesn’t believe that DR: Regeneration will take over a stack in the way that other healing titles do.

So for these reasons, I’d wanted to run (and continue to run) DR: Regeneration at least.
And pairing it with Love Bomb just felt like a good thing to do (and I discussed that with SaintSovereign at the time, who recommended this custom).

Regarding Wanted, absolutely I want to run wanted.
But I have considered dropping my Wanted & Diamond custom and replacing it with something like Genesis: Ascension & RICH, once released (or C&C).

I’d also note that I’m (very) keenly awaiting the unveiling of the new Paragon suite.
I’m really hoping it will have a strong nervous system healing component, which might then mean that it would be fine for me to drop the DR: Regeneration & Love Bomb custom.
Because, although emotional healing would be great, my primary need right now (aside from financial things) is physical healing, in particular for my dysregulated nervous system.

So that’s kind of where I’m at.

[MAkh]

Apologies

I may have been poor in my explanation

I absolutely think Regeneration and love bomb would be great for you. It was what I was implying but may have worded it poorly

[Jouissance]

@themadsexyscientist

I’ve never really got how essence works, so to dream of me be considered like a shorter version of WDB

Yes exactly - ESSENCE: To Dream Of Me is like the best of Wanted: Dream Boy in a module format.

It’s described as equivalent to 1.5 - 5 modules, depending on the title, and whether it’s the entire title or just part of it distilled

[themadsexyscientist]

@Jouissance

Yes exactly - ESSENCE: To Dream Of Me is like the best of Wanted: Dream Boy in a module format.

Thats actually pretty cool

edit: I’m actually excited to run this title now because I believe that its an easier archetype to embody

[heartmadeiron]

@JCDenton

The result during those 2 months has been, that I got a lot of internal healing, but no external WANTED effects.
That must mean that the healing from Regeneration completely took over and the whole combination was turned inwards effects-wise.

So as healing titles can completely take over the stack and overpower other titles in the stack and turn processing inwards, that seems to be a super important rule to know. I forgot about it, but looking at my experiences it makes sense now.

Not necessarily. New wanted has a lot of internal building during the early cycles. Some folks didn’t see hits in the first couple months but were growing internally

@MAkh

Not sure about that

I rearranged most of my stack to focus inwards

Which it’s doing

What I’m noticing is the more inward focused I do, the more it starts to flow out into my external reality

Mood. Wven seduction scripts like Wanted I run for the internal development. Attracting women is a result, not the goal.

[Michel]

@JCDenton

The result during those 2 months has been, that I got a lot of internal healing, but no external WANTED effects.
That must mean that the healing from Regeneration completely took over and the whole combination was turned inwards effects-wise.

Like @heartmadeiron said. Not necessarily.

I ran WANTED for 4 cycles, no obvious outward success but a ton of neediness, shadow work and inward self worth healing took place instead. Then at the end of cycle 4 the mysterious persona started to take over, which I didn’t like.

No results means a crucial element of the sub is being worked on inside you. Self worth issues mainly.

[Layman]

@Michel eh? I may well be misunderstanding something, but you’ve been regularly posting really good results for a while now haven’t you? Loads of IOI’s, girls coming on to you, altered responses and so on?

I found these accounts joyous to read and was really happy for the changes you were seeing, especially since nothing much seemed to be happening for you in the beginning.

Hoping this will happen to me too lol, and I’m only on my 2nd cycle of Wanted, so who knows?

Or was this on WDB or something else, rather than Wanted?
And even then, it could be down to the foundation of running Wanted for 4 cycles first?

[heartmadeiron]

@Layman

eh? I may well be misunderstanding something, but you’ve been regularly posting really good results for a while now haven’t you? Loads of IOI’s, girls coming on to you, altered responses and so on?

Those are recent developments.

@Layman

Or was this on WDB or something else, rather than Wanted?
And even then, it could be down to the foundation of running Wanted for 4 cycles first?

I’d say foundation building was key for me. 4 months with Love Bomb, GLM and new wanted made dream boy a smooth process.

[Michel]

What @heartmadeiron said. Results came after 4 cycles, then after switching to DreamBoi.

[Benny]

@heartmadeiron

Love Bomb,

Maybe that’s the foundation needed for seduction? I’ve never used this title…
I’m not sure how it feels and what happens on it
Can you share more?

[Andythegreat]

Just posting this here, and if I am not wrong even @Jouissance had better results with HOM while using sanguine.

@Evolver

I am getting faster results from other subs ever since I added sanguine. Whatever that was blocking the results inside me seems to have calmed down.

[Jouissance]

After the new sanguine I had dramatically less recon, permanently, across all subs.

Recon used to be a huge problem for me and then sanguine fixed that

[themadsexyscientist]

I’ll be honest, I’m thinking of dropping wanted and run WDB…but I don’t know if this is just recon or something else.

I mean dropping wanted would make my stack very synergistically perfect with

QTKS: PS/emperor + WDB + regeneration

I think the strong sexual mystery vibe might be kind of throwing off the women at my workplace(I work in a female dominated space) and all of them are married too…so there’s a lot of deliberate avoidance, it seems, like they avoid me…same thing happened when I attended a friend’s wedding when I ran wanted black(heavily sexual)

I think I’ll try the romance route

might try WDB first by itself though I’m wondering if I need to take another 5 days in addition if I’m just running WDB to see how it affects me

[heartmadeiron]

@Benny

Maybe that’s the foundation needed for seduction?

I couldn’t tell you to be honest. I used love bomb to overcome a self sacrificing, people pleasing nature. The goal was accepting that my value came from within me not from how people saw me. It worked.

For me, external results are distance second to personal development. I use every sub with personal development in mind, even Wanted. Wirth wanted I want to feel more comfortable in my skin, and feel more comfortable seeing ‘sense’ and ‘with’ people. The more comfortable I came within myself, the eaiser it is to attract people.

If anything, foundation building starts with personal development. Focus more on you than if women notice you.

[themadsexyscientist]

I can attest to this

I’ve only been using my custom with LB + Regeneration + wanted and its only when I added LB and ran it for 30 seconds, did I feel like more grounded and stable in love…its hard to explain

like today and yesterday I had something that normally would cause me extreme anxiety to the point where my body is anxious physically…roll of my shoulder. It came, stayed for a few seconds and left the same way it came and I wasn’t even ruminating about it.

When someone said that LB is very underrated, I believe them now…wow…just 30 secs and this…wow

I’ve only been using this for a day

edit: the inner work is way more worth it than the external results…whats the point of getting attention and sleeping with tons of women if your inner world is in chaos. Seriously, I’ve blown a couple of dates because I thought that A.) how can this attractive woman be into me or B.) she must want something from me or she’s just using me or c) if I meet her online, she must be fake or D)if its someone I know, I will miss all the signs that she’s coming on to me

basically self sabotage