Advice for scoring from the penalty box! :D

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#1

Hi Guys,

I have been interacting with a woman at the gym through body language and eye contact for about 3 months.

She has been observing me a lot, she has been watching me training, she tried to impress me, she sent a friend to follow me and waited for me in her car, etc. Another day she was following me at a groceries shop, but I think it was not on purpose (it was a manifestation).

I would say she is obsessed with me.

She already tried to approach me twice, but I was afraid. So in other day, I approached her, and when I just said “Hi” she stepped back about 1 meter in an instinct of fear. A few moments later she abandoned the gym and I felt rejected.

I overcame that rejection, and that made her even more obsessed.

Last week I tried to approach her again, but as soon as I got close she stepped back again, but this time with the difference that I didn’t care and I remained positive because now I’m using PS and that sub fills me with positivity.

Today, I just went smoothly near her and stayed there for a while always with an humble and vulnerable attitude and it went better, but she still feels very intimidated by me. At some stage I just said in a nice way “Can I put this box here?” and she was frozen in fear. Anyway this was a good exposure to anxiety for both of us, but I think it was much harder for her.

Initially I didn’t like her (even though she is good looking), because initially I approached her because I needed to use the Squat Stand, and she was disrespectful to me. So initially I have been a very bad guy to her (all with body language), but when one day she was waiting for me at the gym exit and she was crying, I arrived home and my heart was hit. I felt she loves me and I love her too now. And all of this happened without us having ever talked!

I have an idea to bring post-its to the gym, so that I can write some jokes there about her fearing me, deliver the post-its to her, and start communicating through post-its. Or next time I see her I can just point to a wall and say “Look, a plane!” :smiley:

But this is being really hard and complicated for me, because I can’t even be close to her for too long. She is psychologically strong, it’s just that I hit her core deeply.

I’m also obsessed with her now.

I’m running PS + Asc (Ascension).
I’m running PS for about 1.5 weeks and Asc for about 6 months.
I run LB in the past just for 1.5 cycles. I had to abandon it due to huge recon and laziness, but since then I healed a lot, and I’m stronger when dealing with recon, so maybe I can handle it now.

I’ve tried running only PS for a few days and I felt much more positive and was able to lift much more weight at the gym. Yesterday I re-added Asc to my stack and today I felt more negative again, I let negative people affect me, and I lifted much less weight at the gym.

So I think it’s wise to stop using Asc. Asc might conflict with my personality because I’m not a quiet and mysterious guy, I’m more of a social guy, or it might just be that I need more and proper healing.

I also noticed that a week after I started listening to PS, some people started getting really aggressive or negative towards me without a good reason. It looks like I got an ascension after the initial ascension, and at this stage I have to be showing people that I’m not there to harm them, but the truth is that people are trying to put me back into the boxes that I had freed myself from some months ago (and to some new boxes). PS also fills me with positivity and is allowing me to become the social guy I was in the past before getting sick.

Another aspect that leaves me sad, is that I wasn’t able to build muscle mass since I started on Sub Club, even though I practice CrossFit 3x times per week. I’m still a fit but skinny guy.

So I ask for advice to the experts about what can I do to score this shot from the penalty box concerning the woman, and good changes to my stack.

I have my own ideas, opinions are welcome, and I’m open to new suggestions:

  1. Run PS + LB. I didn’t go for this option before because I would like to try some long term relationships and have fun before getting married. Is it possible to experience that even if I run LB? I’ve used LB for 1.5 cycles in the past and the current woman might be a late manifestation of LB. She is very similar to me physically like I asked my subconscious to manifest (even though mentally I’m not sure about how she is).
  2. Run PS + HS. I have no idea about this one, because I didn’t read all of the HS description.
  3. Run PS + Rebirth or PS + SE to heal properly. To stop feeling negative when listening to Ascension. I also feel a little insecure when near this woman, and this might mean because I need better and proper healing.

I know that for building muscle mass I should use EF, but the priority now is to start this new relationship. Even though I ask if Emp (Emperor) would also be good for building muscle and to stimulate HGH.

Thanks,
Super Saiyan

#2

What? Bro just say “hi I think you’re cute, what’s your name.”

Be direct damn this may just be something in your head, if I said hi and someone freezes I’d get the hint

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#3

The lady is someone who has her own issues to deal with. Not worth pursuing after you directly communicate with her one or two times and she reacts in this strange way.

Please drop it and move on to some one else more healthier in their psychological makeup.

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#4

No man.

I have to be smooth with her. She is very afraid at this point.

#5

Yes, but now I’m obsessed with her too and can’t detach. I also have my own issues.

#6

Actually in the past when I was feeling an healthy love inside me she tried to approach me.
I try to put responsibility on me about how people behave around me. That brings great power.

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#7

Haha! Exactly! Now that you see this, run a relationship healing title in your stack. Something like HS should help.

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#8

But then wouldn’t HS make me want to marry her? I would like to have some long term relationships before (sequentially, not at the same time) and have some fun.

#9

It can be used for any kind of romantic relationship.

But if you don’t want to run it, it is fine.

Am sure PS has some healing aspects but I would encourage you to move on after trying a bit. Else it will just end up being a huge waste of time and she will be enjoying your attention and you will end up with nothing but developing feelings and bad habits as you are trying to get her and that you could carry to the next woman you find interesting.

Try to get her on a date. And if that doesn’t work, find someone else.

Casual relationships shouldn’t take this long to develop.

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#10

Thanks, I’m going to run HS and then decide if I want to move on.

I think I explained well this is not casual and that I don’t want a casual relationship. I want a serious relationship, I just want to have some long term relationships sequentially before getting married.

But with HS I think I will be able to think and see things differently about moving on.

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#11

How do you know it was fear?

#12

I can feel by the energy and body language like for all the other emotions and feelings.

#13

Maybe give her a paper/card that has your instagram account written on. This way she could add you when she muster up the courage. If she has anxiety for the direct contact.

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#14

You need to cut the fantasy stories in your head, from what you write it seems you are way too confident about what you think you know than what you actually know.

It seems you are not even in the penalty box, but in the locker room watching the match through a broken screen, time to get on the field and start playing with your balls, there’s tons of girls out there, you are obsessing with this one chick that you haven’t even properly talked to after 3 months!!!

Let go of this obsessive behavior and start reflecting on what is holding you back from expressing yourself and interacting in a healthy way with people you are interested in.

I apologize for being so blunt, it’s painful to see what you are going through, I hope someone else has better more constructive advice.

Heartsong is awesome and will pair amazing with PS because they were updated at the same time, I feel like Daredevil or Primal could help with cutting the bullshit stories and negative victim mentality projections on other people and actually getting you to act and take charge of the situation.

I sincerely wish you to be happy and find the love you desire!!

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#15

Running Heartsong since 3 weeks. It has brought healing to me that I havent imagined was possible. Lovebomb also gives me crazy recon. Heartsong somehow has a better approach for self love healing.

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#16

now THIS is an interesting read : )

#17

@Spartan I read the first post without edition. That phrase made me curious…

#18

if a girl rejects you move on bro. This shit is creepy as fuck. Leave her alone.

#19

She is not rejecting me. She keeps coming near me. She looked at me in the eyes showing love and desire many times.

Actually I already moved on in the past, but she kept pursuing me.

When I go to talk to other girls at the gym she gets mad with jealousy and one time she even got furious and abandoned the gym.

Either way I’m moving on again. It’s tough, but I’m moving on.

#20

Sounds like mind games to me, your much better off without such hf people…too much drama

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