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Day 18 rest

Today was good, things definitely seem way smoother recon wise with New Wanted so far. Once I start a conversation with a girl, there seems to be an undercurrent of flirtation/suggestibility. The cute cashier girl at In-N-Out, got a little tongue tied while talking to me, and was looking at me with interest. Walked around at a bookstore and women got pretty close to me, there was that gravity effect. Just reporting some results. New Wanted to me so far seems far more “under-the-radar” and persuasive than OG Wanted. It’s beautifully subtle, but definitely there.

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Day 19

1 min Wanted, 30 sec Rotnw.

Edit: went to the chiropractor today, afterwards went to a yoga class, the girl helping me was very nice, I talked to one woman after class who was very nice, I asked about her sunglasses and she said I could try them on if I wanted (which surprised me) and talked about the classes etc. and seemed very open, eager, and comfortable (New Wanted :100: :ok_hand:). I asked the yoga teacher after a couple questions about some of the poses, and so did this blond girl, the blond girl seemed to linger and maybe wanted to meet. I wasn’t trying to do anything though, at yoga places I usually keep it “professional” or friendly.

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Day 21

2:30 min Wanted, 30 sec RotNW.

Day 23

1 min Wanted, 30 sec RotNW.

Day 24 rest

Was having a crappy day (was rushing around, hungry, things getting in the way of what I had to do). Was feeling kinda needy (I think this is increased by hunger). Delivered to this old lady but the address was messed up so I had to go 4 extra miles. Was almost fuming when I got to her place. But once I saw her, I calmed way down because she was a frail old lady, and then I felt sympathetic. I helped her open one of the food items and she gave me an extra tip. After that, I went to a Target to get some body wash and stuff. Walked up to this one cute girl who was sitting in an aisle (which was unusual). Asked her if I could get her opinion on which body wash she liked more, she was happy to help, and she even kinda grabbed my hand to pull the bottle to her nose. She said “this one” and gave an explanation why, she said it smells like Creed Aventus and would smell good, specifically on me. I thanked her AND she seemed into me, so I probably could’ve taken that somewhere, but I was just hungry and tired and wanted food. I should’ve at least got her name. I was feeling this girl would’ve been down for almost anything, I think she might’ve been sad, lonely, or heartbroken, but she was happy and smiley when i walked up. She seemed like she wanted to keep talking, but I just left. AND she was very cute. Kinda young though. Maybe she was drunk? Not sure. Anyway, I was thinking about it and it and idk if I have the heart to take advantage of a girl who is feeling down/heartbroken. Then again, maybe it’s better I do vs some other guy who is an a-hole. Anyway, the comfort/connection thing New Wanted seems to create is out of this world, probably unlike any subs I’ve run so far. So basically everything started going well after I went the extra mile (pun intended) for that elderly lady.

Last night and earlier today was frustrating because I would end up in positions where there’s hot girl workers but I’d end up with a guy , and there just weren’t that many opportunities for approaches. On top of this I was hungry/hangry. One 18 yr old girl at a store who helped me though was playing with her hair like crazy while we talked, but I was just tired and hungry, drawing a blank and was kinda lame as a result lol, oh well, was thinking “should I game her?” but just didn’t.

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Day 25

1 min Wanted, 30 sec Rotnw.

Day 26 rest

Feeling recon maybe, or general badness due to getting bad sleep. I feel lonely and stuff, at the same time though, I don’t think a girl would make it better right now. Ah, has to be recon or bad sleep.

Oh I did drop food off to a sorority and had a funny and fun little interaction.

Man, I gotta say that I really admire the fact that you are so consistent with your journal, but forgive me if I’m wrong: not much has changed since you started it. It’s almost as if you are stuck in a loop, cause you keep journaling the same thing over and over again

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I’m only saying it because with your dedication and discipline, you should be conquering countries and sleeping with women haha.
Maybe try increasing the listening time. Maybe it will work for you

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Lol thx. I know, there is something holding me back (then again, maybe I should start saying the opposite of that :thinking:, holy shit, yeah I’m gonna start doing that). It could be that I switched stacks too much in the past, like I will do PS/PN or WB/SSX for a few cycles and right when I feel I’m about to start really dating, I switch to Wanted (in this case it was because New Wanted came out). But I’m pretty committed to New Wanted after seeing it in action. Yeah maybe, I think I’m already getting recon though even from 3 minutes, and maybe from running it more than the usual 21 days right now, as I’m on day 26 (because of the new instructions).

Also, it might partly be my “job” (Uber Eats). Like it’s very solitary, only little interaction with people, so I’m in a position where I have to force myself to approach women while kinda being annoyed waiting to get an order, know what I mean? Oh, also one of my main goals right now is to use a certain system of approaching or “pickup”, but lately I’ve been avoiding it (out of nervousness/not sure how to implement it into conversation), and apparently the only way to get good at it is to do it. So I may have to clumsily do it anyway. Anyway, sry for the long-winded “answer”.

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I feel like you are being more reflective and honest now more than ever which is really great man. Journals are here for us to be as honest with ourselves as possible.

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I would like to point out a few things though:

The way you say that you have to “force” yourself to approach women - that Is already going against wanted man’s mindset.

Also, I would suggest to completely let go of all of the pickup systems and all of that. Just stop looking them up, stop learning them. If you think about it - would a wanted man spend his time learning pickup? Lol I don’t think so. Would a wanted man even consider applying “techniques” or anything of that sort? Hell nah bro.

What worked for me is just putting myself into the shoes of a wanted man. I can’t explain it but it works.

Also, one of the biggest limitations of wanted for me was always the fear of coming across as an a-hole or a fboy. Well, when you start getting with beautiful women there’s gonna be someone calling you an a-hole or fboy. Just accept it. Rather you getting with women than the haters haha

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The pickup stuff is actually largely for fun, and I also want to get good at this “system” so I have it if I need it. I’ve actually kinda already learned it, now I just need to exercise it.

I hate to be negative, but idk if that’s gonna work for me. I could sit around somewhere all day feeling wanted, but not talk to a single girl. I do get looks and sometimes proximity, but women rarely approach, and it’s often older women who do.

Yeah I think we still need to approach, no matter what. But anyway, I’m sure you’re making progress regardless, kinda hard not to on these subs haha.

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Day 1

1 min Wanted, 1 min RotNW. Took 5 day washout. Felt good.

Day 2

30 sec SSX. Now a 2 day washout.

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Day 3 rest

So I go about my day and I’m not feeling like approaching. Like I know I could walk up to a woman and probably generate some attraction or intrigue, or at least have a pleasant little interaction, but I generally just haven’t been finding myself caring much. I just feel chill doing it or not doing it. Maybe I subconsciously feel like I have other priorities right now. I actually almost find it boring now. Like I’m not feeling jealous, like sometimes I feel it, but it’s a tiny bit compared to before. It’s been replaced more by indifference and feeling like I don’t even want that right now. I hope I’m not depressed lol.

There was a change a week ago or so, ever since then I’ve felt… like I see women as way more human and imperfect than before.

Day 4 rest

So I think I know what the “problem” is. Since it’s been such a long dry spell for me, I’m afraid to be vulnerable. The idea almost disgusts me. Like it almost causes me to feel sick to the stomach.

Day 5

1 min Wanted, 1 min SSX.

Since yesterday, “attraction generation” seems on point. Strangely, since this cycle, it seems some guys get pissed off at me/test me kinda. Last Thursday a kid at a stoplight wanted me to get off my phone and was just kinda mad at me for no reason, as if I’m the only driver who sometimes uses their phone while driving in LA… Another guy last night kinda made fun of me at a place I dropped off at, I was more surprised than angry. Today I think a guy behind me in line at a weed place said something like “just shut up kid” as I was talking to the female budtender, as in he was being impatient or whatever.

I’ve read of other guys reporting similar things here in the past, like when running a status sub, when your status (real or perceived) starts to rise other guys start doing weird stuff like that. Honestly though, I might’ve done weird shit like this too in the past when I was feeling insecure, so I actually am not angry about it. I get where they’re coming from and see it as a good sign that the subs are working :man_shrugging:

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Day 7

1 min Wanted, 30 sec SSX.