That “detached coldness” is exactly what I was looking for. As someone who has always been overtalkative and social to a fault (bordering on people pleasing), that detachment and coldness is heaven-sent. C&C is giving me that balance and gravitas that I didn’t find on the regular Emperor or Khan.
Take it from someone who was a social person and a great networker: you won’t build an empire by being a people person. You need to be a ruler, not a leader. The difference is explained in the copy of the regular Emperor. To navigate complex dynamics or high-stake negotiations, gravitas and an aura of seriousness are mandatory. Being the “social guy who is fun to be around” is one of the things that could put a lid on your empire-building efforts. No emperor tries to be friends with everyone or even be liked by everyone. Building an empire is serious work. It requires a person with an aura of seriousness. From how you carry yourself. To how you talk. To how you dress.
What do you want people to think after you left the room? “Wow!!! That dude is serious and can’t be fucked with” or “that was fun”?