I feel a little sexier each day. But I’ve noticed that I’m still missing some self-love.
I often see women on social media who radiate so much self-love and confidence that I feel a bit envious.
I want to be able to feel that lightheartedness completely, too.
Overall, though, I’m much more content with myself. My hair is great, my butt too, and the rest of my body is also (almost) in great shape 
And you? How do you feel about Seductress?
I feel myself making huge progress. Noticing subtle shifts happening in my day to day experiences.
I love my darker red hair. Feeling more comfy in my body.
I am responding more instead of reacting from old wounding.
I find that I am comparing myself less to others. People can do a really good job of appearing confident on social media. Meet them in person and see how they appear to you then. 
I’m really happy to hear that 
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The picture in your thread definitely shows a very beautiful feminine body
Yes, many people just seem confident or look like they’re the embodiment of self-love.
But often it’s just a snapshot of their life.
Regardless of that, I still want it 
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It’s inside me, waiting to come out, but something still says: “You can’t do that! What will people think?”
It’s not like I’m always like this. In some situations in my life, I couldn’t care less what others think of me.
But then there are still things that, for whatever reason, I want to hide 😮💨.
Reminds me of Internal Family Systems. Those are just parts of you that need some extra love. 
“A part of me feels this way and as my True Self I will lead them back into wholeness, free from their burdens.”
That’s why I put LB back in my stack. To provide all these parts of me with love 
I just wanted to drop an update in here with seductress. It seems like my internal perception of myself is lagging behind my outward. I have a very distorted self image of myself, very. I was trying on new outfits and sent a pic to my friend and she said I had a really nice waist line. I was like, I do? You’re not just saying that to help me feel better? And she was like no not at all.
So I’m struggling a bit to catch up to what other people might be seeing. Which is a weird concept to understand. It’s like there’s another me I’m not even aware of yet.
That’s some sort of a protector part. I’d spend some time with that part, giving them validation and extra love. That will help the part to reintegrate and bring more inner wholeness and harmony.
Always with my protector parts they’re very sneaky and do a great job of not even letting me realize when they’re protecting.
WANTED:
Gender and Sexual Orientation:
SEDCTRESS:
Gender and Sexual Orientation:
So, I’m a woman and I bought Seductress.
My intention was to attract more women, but I’ve had many experiences where I ended up attracting men, even without wanting to. That left me a bit confused about how the script actually works.
On the sales page of Wanted, it says clearly that if someone wants to attract men, they should go for Seductress. But on the Seductress page, it says it works for any gender. So my question is: is the attraction script in Seductress really neutral or not?
I ask this because, in my first experiences, I attracted many men, even though my intention was to attract women. It was only with ASBR that I started experiencing attraction from women more consistently.
This makes me feel a little insecure, since it seems like there isn’t an option to consciously “choose” what kind of people one wants to attract in relation to the script. Especially nowadays, when there’s such a wide variety of paths and orientations people are navigating.
I really like the Seductress script and would love for it to be enough to attract the people I want, without feeling like it’s subconsciously pushing me toward attracting men. Do you see what I mean?
I’m asking just to clarify and understand better what I can do moving forward.
Also, just as a suggestion for the future: it might be really helpful if users could select their focus of attraction (for example, men, women, or both) within any attraction script before purchasing. That way, it feels more aligned with each person’s intention and orientation.
When I saw this post, I raised an eyebrow, as I led the development of Seductress and I was very particular about the language being used (which was one of the reasons Seductress Dark was canceled and this version of Seductress took so long to be released) and I rushed to the script to see if we had made a mistake. The language is indeed quite “neutral” in regards of romantic attraction and expression and can be consciously guided. The script is geared toward attracting who you find attractive, but there are caveats due to the nature of the collective itself, which I will attempt to explain what we have observed.
I suspect the issue you’re experiencing is the result of Seductress’s inherent nature of enhancing physical beauty attracting men regardless of your personal sexual orientation. While the world on average has become more tolerant in understanding and accepting matters related to sexual orientation, many men still fetishize women attracted to other women as a “secret” heterosexual woman who can be “flipped” if they “get a good pounding” or whatever, and we’ve all seen these types of discussions on the Internet. One only has to look at the statistics of pornography viewing habits to see that “lesbian porn” is amongst the highest viewed videos (if not THE highest viewed category) regardless of the viewer’s gender.
So, what we’re dealing with in this situation is very deeply ingrained societal habits of which we have little control over, even if we overtly made a “Seductress for LGBTQ+” edition. When we had Seductress tested, we asked a few willing testers to go to LGBTQ+ friendly districts in large cities (Hillcrest in San Diego and The Castro in San Francisco), and they reported that men (usually accompanying their LGBTQ friends) still made passes at them, though they did see increases of attraction from those they actually wanted to attract. And it should be noted that San Francisco has been rated by many research institutions as the #1 LGBTQ+ friendly city in the entirety of the United States of America.
It is the same situation as some men running strong sexual titles and reporting that women who were much older in age than them making overt passes, to which we explained that these women are simply more liberated in their sexual pursuits. They are not afraid of societal shaming, they know what they want, and they will simply go for it rather than repressing themselves.
So this seems to be the byproduct of just being an attractive woman in modern society. Regardless of your intent and open expression, if you are giving off a very attractive aura of beauty, you will attract EVERYONE to some degree. And if you’re in a country where members of same gender relationships are still oppressed (and sadly, via imprisonment and even death in some countries), a woman using Seductress to attract other women will be disappointed, as the fear of punishment will override any scripting in this title.
The best advice I can give is to use LGBTQ+ focused dating apps, events, city districts (I am not sure of your location, but in the United States, most large cities have these districts), etc. to focus your romantic efforts. I suspect your observations on ASBR comes from the fact that the script itself is highly intellectual, and you are attracting people intellectual people who – through the mechanism of mental control – understands these deep sexual-societal dynamics and are willing to accept them. Or, ASBR fits your personal archetype much better, and it doesn’t have this heavy focus on physical beauty that Seductress has.
I would recommend, if you want to keep using Seductress, to use stack rotation. Run Seductress for a period of time, knowing that you are going to attract everyone, then rotating it out for ASBR. The Seductress phase of your stack will provide you with all the benefits that comes with it, and ASBR will do the same, with the added effect of attracting the women you want. Also, try microloops of Seductress and ASBR, with more exposure to ASBR than Seductress. For example, 15s of Seductress, 30s of ASBR.
It is discouraging and frustrating to me that people cannot love who they want to love without these issues. At Subliminal Club, our goal is to help people find love regardless of these matters, but there’s only so much we can do against the sheer force of the collective and its narratives, even with auras and highly focused scripting. Even when we tested scripting that was incredibly focused (attract THIS type of person), users and testers STILL reported that those who didn’t fit those attributes showed overt attraction. With most people, sex and lust just overrides rational thought, and until the collective itself works out these issues, we will respond where we can.
@Akin - a name embedddd Seductress + Synergy: Perfection Manifestation or Gorgeous Manifestor could tilt this in your favor.
This one would be better.
Would this help her?
What should a masculine gay guy run?
It seems Wanted is very straight-oriented, and for those of us who don’t have or desire feminine traits, it feels that there isn’t a suitable title.
Primal or Primal Seduction?
Those are more for active seduction than for when you want to be pursued.
I did hope Wanted would be more inclusive, and not so locked into straight orientation.
And I don’t resonate with a title such as Seductress.
It does feel like gay fellas get a bit overlooked.
Nevertheless, I’ve made a custom of Wanted + MSF. Yet to run it — could be interesting
I think that @SaintSovereign said something about this kind of issues.
If you cannot trust your own mind and life journey, what scripting could we provide to make you do so? The NSE already has scripting to attempt to help, but ultimately, you are the Zero Point and the proper tool to handle this situation is honest self-reflection and taking action, allowing your issues to rise to the surface for conscious healing.
Might Khan Black with conscious direction fit the bill? Building and optimizing the flow of sexual energy is essentially supercharging your magnetism, and you in turn become highly attractive to the people/polarities you desire.
I’d recommend revisiting it once it gets updated in alignment with Fire’s initial vision. It’s an all around quality option regardless of sex, gender, or sexual/romantic orientation.