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Tell me how well this copy is done, gentlemen.
I never wrote en email this effortlessly. It just shot out of me. One loop 3 minutes of TS.
Not exactly Safe For Work Newsletter
Headline: The Baseline of Wet-Dig-Success
Hey friend,
I know, I know.
Men want sex, a lot of it, in all the positions and whatnot.
Reality, however, is, that you’re just seeking an external cope for internal issues.
When I think back to the best sex-sessions I had with my wife, it was regular, “boring” missionary, but we both were REALLY into it.
So when you seek crazy positions, facials and whatnot, what you’re seeking is a cope for the real thing.
For the love involved.
But you’re thinking if she does whatever kinky stuff you think of for you, THIS IS A SIGN OF HER LOVE.
Because she does it for you.
Reality is, you’re trying to fill a hole (pun intended) in your soul.
And you DESPERATELY want to fill it.
“Regular” sex doesn’t cut it, because it’s no sign of her love.
But you’re approaching this all wrong.
You are being NEEDY because of it, and you should know by now how much women hate neediness. MASSIVE turn-off.
When our girl is NEEDY for us, sexually, it’s a turn-on. For women, the exact opposite.
After all, we’re opposite poles of the spectrum.
So your key to getting what you want is by not wanting it.
By letting it go.
By being non-needy.
However, you will now likely “let go to get it” from her. Which is nothing but a covert contract and not actually letting go. You’re PERFORMING to get her to do something.
But women sense this performance.
A new girl on the street might fall for it, hence the PUA guys. But your wife, haha, not so much. She knows you. She knows your bullshit. She won’t fall for it.
The solution, you ask?
There is only ONE.
You need to face the pain.
You need to dive deep into your soul and UNDERSTAND why you are seeking this validation through special sex acts.
I mentioned it above.
You’re actually seeking love.
Not the kinky stuff.
This comes naturally once you two explore each other.
But the first step is love, acceptance of each other, and VULNERABILITY.
You need to be OPEN to face your own lies. Your own shortcomings, your own validation through these sex acts.
ONLY THEN will you be able to let go of it, because your focus will shift.
Only THEN will you get everything you want by not wanting it.
As Dr. Strange said in his movie, “Letting go of control to gain control? That doesn’t make sense.”
To which the oldest one replied: “Not everything does. Not everything has to.”
Not everything can be explained rationally. And especially not women.
But how did your current, rational approach work out for you so far? 
Maybe it’s time to try something you, MAN THE FUCK UP and face your deepest desires, your inner demons, your TRUE self.
It’s a tough path.
I can help you with it.
Alone in the dark, you’ll likely wander around without a destination.
I can be the guiding light in the dark.
To find the glory of the light at the end.
Be illuminated: link to my coaching
Cheers,
Alexander
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