I’d say at least 2 cycles.
As long as your financially save, your marriage
Is probably your Number One priority. So as long as needed.
For finances you could later rotate in HoM since it has daily scripting as well. Probably not as intense as Lineage, but once the biggest problems are dealt with, maybe it could even replace it.
Hey jshep23,
Your journey with your wife through these challenging times shows immense strength and resilience. The arrival of your twins and the loss of her mother undoubtedly left profound marks on both of you, but it’s inspiring to see your determination to overcome these obstacles together.
In times of turmoil, it’s crucial to remember that healing and growth are possible, even in the face of seemingly insurmountable challenges. Your willingness to seek help and explore various avenues for improvement speaks volumes about your commitment to each other and your family’s well-being.
Remember, every relationship faces its share of challenges, but it’s how we navigate through them that defines the strength of our connection. Embrace this opportunity for growth, and approach it with an open heart and a willingness to learn and evolve together.
keep communicating and never lose sight of the love and commitment that brought you together in the first place. With patience, perseverance, and a shared sense of purpose, you can overcome any obstacle and emerge stronger than ever before.
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From my own journey in navigating relationships, I’ve learned that when your lady speaks of separation, it’s actually a call.
She’s not just blowing steam; she’s dropping a truth bomb. It’s a cry for a stronger bond, a deeper connection, and more love.
She’s telling you she needs you to step up, show her you’ve got her back, and dig into what’s really going on inside her. She wants you to understand her fears, her dreams, and her heart, and to be her rock through it all.
So grab it by the horns, show her you’re there, and let her know you’re not going anywhere. It’s about being the man she can lean on, the partner she can trust, and the love she can count on.
This is your moment to shine as her rock, her confidant, and her partner. Take the lead in rebuilding your connection. Show her that you’re committed to understanding her, supporting her, and loving her through it all.
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I agree.
That must’ve been 90% of the issue.
This is actually the best post and advice I’ve been given. Everyone has helped immensely but this one, yeah. This one really made the most sense to me.
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This sounds like a perfect situation for Heartsong and Lineage to me. Like that combo was custom designed for it.
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My wife points out that exact thing to me. Though this version doesn’t seem to cause me to look down my nose at others like previous ones did.
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This version still has it a bit, and to be fair I am running my Ecstatic Emperor custom (pre-new Emperor Core and EoG4 core).
I use a 10-min loop of that. Ever since I added in a 1-min loop of New Emperor to “filter” the older one through NSE, the dickhead effect is less pronounced, and I still have the productivity and increased mindset of confidence from it.
Planning on updating that custom once EoG is updated.
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You think that’s part of it? I listen to Emperor every week, 2 times a week
Maybe I j should do Stark instead
I don’t know. I could be wrong, but I think you need more alpha not less at this point.
I noticed an effect on emperor before. When I’d start using it, my wife would try to “push me back down”. Eventually she got over it and accepted me as the leader. There was just a rough patch before that happened. A partner will often react to changes by trying to put things back the way they were:
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You know what I’m wondering?
If there were times that she was able to hear me listening to it even though I was in a different room.
Maybe I will have to solely do Ear buds
So you think we should both listen to it?
She’s pregnant so she can’t I think but I can.
Listening now in fact.
My wife was more worried that I still had love for our friend, and I do not.
The other thing is she doesn’t feel listened to at all.
But not to nitpick her but when she tells me to do something, I do do it but the way that I do it, like the steps that I take, she doesn’t like and is always like you should’ve done it this way!
That’s kinda too much. We both think differently. I’m not a robot programmed by her
She doesn’t even need to. You listening to HS is going to leak into her too. It’s as if she listened to it as well. Same effects.
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Getting a woman and keeping a woman are different things, focus on what is important to you right now.
Heartsong. Have you read this product reviews on this forum? ALL are great in the realm of relationships.
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Really?!
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I haven’t yet. Not fully
duh youll see it works wonders she will feel a shift as well
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I’d like to add some input that I haven’t seen posted yet. The first question I’d ask yourself is what type of man does your wife need you to be, to feel secure, attracted, safe etc. For some, it might be that she needs to feel cared for, supported, trusting. For others, they might need to feel that they respect you, sense that you are on the top of your game, that you have a strong masculine core.
I really strongly noticed this in my relationship. Awhile back I took some time to really focus on inner deveopment, building relationships with family, putting more time and love into the relationship because I thought that’s what it needed, and it actually had the opposite effect. I was walked all over, she wanted to spend less time with me, etc. As I reflected on this, I remember her telling me towards the beginnign of the. relationship that she was really attracted to me because I was more masculine, that I would go after my goals regardless of what anyone thought, and live life on my accord regardless of what she thought and those were her favorite things about me.
Funny enough, since switching to SB as my primary sub my relationship is probably at the best point it’s ever been in. We spend more time together, and she actually wants to spend that time, I feel respected, my boundaries aren’t crossed, and on top of that career progress is better then ever.
Just wanted to give an alternative opinon here, sometimes going all in on yourself, and what you need the most, is actually what’s going to make them feel the most secure in the relationship.
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What’s SB
A stark black reality, in short Stark Black
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