I’m naturally an energetic and excited guy, but Women seem to not be interested on me, when I’m being my self.
So instead, I just act calm, well behaved, maintaining my posture, I don’t talk too much, and they like me.
I don’t understand why do I have to do this. My father was an energetic guy like me, and he didn’t even need to approach Women, they would approach him.
Maybe this was inserted into my mind by the subs from the previous vendor, I don’t know…
Thanks
Depends what exactly you mean by “calm”. If you mean you’re quite and harder to figure out, I can see why they’d be more interested.
If you’re quiet and “mysterious” they’ll be more inclined to engaging to try to “figure you out”.
On the other hand, if you keep being your usual energetic self, then the ones not into that will self-sort right out of your awareness, and you’ll draw in the ones more into that energetic version of you.
a lot of times，it has nothing to do with you…some people at certain moment will just crave for sugar，other times for meat …it just suits the mood at the moment… 
When you are energetic and excited do you maybe approach people too aggressively?
It might have come too strong for some. Might wanna practice some more detached approach.
Also you gotta bring awareness into yourself at that times if you maybe come as needy or clingy.
This might take some brutaly honesty on your part and test your ego but gotta give this advice.
If your energy level is slightly above theirs they do find it really attractive but if it’s way beyond their level it may be overwhelming and mentally exhausting to converse with you.
Another thing is all those people, who say it’s all about being yourself to attract and seduce women, repeat the same crap. No. In order to attract women, seduce them and keep them enthralled you need to put work into it and craft experiences that will drag them out of and beyond the mundane. PS and WB help you do just that as their main modus operandi.
If being liked by women is what you seek then, fair enough, just play it cool. One can get laid this way, too, although your options will be severely limited unless you meet tons of women every day.
Your main issue may be that you’re too anxious about getting women. Keep it cool, dude.
Seems like you are experiencing a disconnect between your natural energetic personality and the way you perceive that you need to behave to attract women.
Do you feel confident and comfortable expressing your natural self, or do you experience self-doubt and insecurity?
The idea is to feel empowered to express yourself genuinely whilst also being mindful of social cues and context. Embracing your authentic self while also developing awareness and adaptability in social interactions can help you to strike a balance between being true to yourself and effectively engaging with others.
It’s possible that you have internalized certain beliefs about how you should behave based on past experiences and societal “norms”.
There’s no doubt that your natural energy and excitement are positive traits, but dialing them back slightly and adopting a more composed demeanor might align better with certain social contexts. It’s not about changing who you are but about slightly adapting your approach to different situations to maximize your effectiveness and sex appeal.
Also what @Sub.Zero says is good depending on your intentions. Are you looking for something quick and steamy or a soulmate?
If you haven’t already, pick up the book The Art of Seduction by Robert Green and give it a good read.
Actually I just tested it out again, and I feel more empowered by playing mysterious (as mentioned by @Trader) . I would call it almost emotionless, but if it makes me feel more empowered I’ll use it.
Yes, the social norms in my city dictate that people should “behave”. I hate that, but like @R.E.M.P.O mentioned, I have to adapt to the culture. People here don’t say what they think about others on their faces, people are not authentic and they criticize the ones who are, but I have to live with that.
I’ve been conditioned, you got that right.
As mentioned by @Bull_of_Shiva_999, yes I agree that sometimes when being energetic I can come as too aggressive or as needy. Or sometimes it is just that I look that I’m high, because being in a normal frequency is depressing for me, because I’m not healed.
That’s why I think after completing the Ascension, I should consider running an healing program.
Thanks also for your insights @Sub.Zero, I agree with them.
Yes, I am anxious about getting everything in my life. I think I will only be able to have peace of mind when I start working.
What are PS and WB? Why do you say my options will be limited by playing it mysterious (I ask this because every Woman that I approached so far in this way gave me a positive feedback)?
I already came across Robert Green on Youtube a long time ago, and actually Youtube keeps injecting me with videos from him. I watched a few and didn’t learn anything practical from it. Also the guy looks completely powerless by the way he talks, and he seems not to do self care.
But if you guys here say he is the expert, I believe you, and will take a look at the guy and to his book with other eyes.
Thanks
What I’m saying is that It’s not about conforming to societal norms, but rather understanding the dynamics of sexual polarity to create attraction.
What i mean by sexual polarity is that there is an attraction and tension that arises between masculine and feminine energies. So Iin order to generate this polarity you want to have an understanding of the woman your trying to attract and to adapt your approach accordingly. It involves embracing and expressing your authentic masculine qualities while also being aware of how they interact with the women your trying to attract.
As for Robert Green, i have not seen his videos nor do i know what he looks like. However the book i found to be very informative. You should look into reading it. It doesn’t mean you need to agree with it. It’s all about seeking knowledge from different perspectives and through different lenses. You will extract what’s meaningful out of it and leave off the rest.
then probably his personal style just not resonate with you at the moment…especially you said didn’t learn something practical from him……you could always try out something new….as a matter of fact，I believe doing something that resonate with you is much more important than something that others believe is good for you…
interesting ，recently ，I was reading it for the third times or fourth ？anyway，it is a good read with funny anecdotes…but for people with less experience in the field …it is best to take it with a grain of salt…there are certain principles /strategies could only work under some strict circumstances…like offering value ，proving your love to the targets…those could be really tricky…and definitely there is a better way to accomplish the goal without following the principle… 
Your absolutely correct
Robert Greene had a severe stroke in 2018.
He’s actually quite lucky to still be with us. Hasn’t quite been the same since.
@SuperSaiyan I have some other thoughts.
1 Why are you capitalizing the “w” in the word woman?
2 You mentioned about women liking you. What are your thoughts on the importance of women respecting you?
First, let me explain my definition of liking and respecting.
For me a woman liking me is empathy and connection.
Respect is to acknowledge my real value, and do not try to interfere with how I like things done when there is no agreement after a conversation. Is to not cross my boundaries and space.
Liking and respecting are both important.
By experience I’ve noticed that if someone likes me, they won’t necessarily respect me. And the other way around too.
I see liking more of an hearth thing, and (this is where probably I’m wrong) respect more of an ego thing (but maybe it should come from the hearth too).
I think respect is necessary for a woman to feel attraction towards a man.