I can give that type of answer, but I need more information such as:
who is the stack for? what are their goals?
what do they want to work on?
where are they at in life? etc
Lol
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Okay I’m glad you still have your wits about you. My recommendation based on what I know still would be to talk to other people and forget about dating her all together. It sounds like she’s not into you sexually.
If I’m wrong and she is, then wake up and start making moves. Today. Tonight. Always be escalating. It sounds like there could still be ambiguity between you two, so you need to polarize her into either rejecting you or accepting your advances.
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I cannot say I will pray for you (OP) because it may be a violation of forum etiquette and/or rules.
But I will keep you in mind, brother.
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@Malkuth has shared some very useful Wisdom (yes with a capital W) in this thread. Perhaps I’m biased as it echoes my own sentiments, but nevertheless… 
My take on it:
In order to get the girl of YOUR dreams, you must become the man of HERS.
That doesn’t mean finding out what their hobbies and interests are and then suddenly deciding you love those things too; it’s far deeper than that. It’s about becoming the kind of person that fits their model of an ideal partner.
The upside?
There’s a huge amount of overlap in what this model looks like, among most girls. Starting with simple stuff like being in reasonable shape… maintaining proper hygiene and style… some semblance of financial stability (or the ability thereof)… but most relevant here… the mindset of an adult who understands that the only person truly responsible for their life is themselves… including not projecting the baggage of past relationships onto a new one.
Once these pieces are all in place for any individual, it’s EASY for someone to feel lucky to be with them.
Imagine if each person in a relationship feels as if they are the lucky one to have the other… How do you think that relationship would play out over time? Pretty damn well, I’d say.
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Q: What to do if you love a specific girl?
A: Masturbating always helps 
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One time I read something about what the difference between (romantic, specifically) “love” and “a crush” was. I’m paraphrasing, but the distinction was that true “love” is based on experience with an individual, whereas a crush is (usually) based on the idea of that individual. A mental construct, so to speak.
And I speak from very very personal experience when I say that in the situation, they can be very hard to distinguish. In my experience, a crush (which is not reciprocated, at least), is empty and lacking… whereas actual love is enriching.
Full disclosure: I’m actively avoiding something unpleasant I need to get finished today, so I’m spending time on the forum being introspective rather than just biting the bullet and dealing with it. So… while I do genuinely hope I am being somewhat useful here, feel free to take anything I say today with a grain of salt. 
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Fuck that. Get up now and tackle what needs to be done.
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Half done now; much of my reason for posting that was to light a fire under my own a$$ lol.
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I’ve seen ascension rec a lot, may I ask why not Emperor + GLM? sounds like Emperor is Ascension on steroids no?
Emperor is too dense especially for beginners. It’s takes a lot of time to manifest.
Ascension applies quick wins and establishes a greater foundation for titles like Emperor, Stark, and Khan.
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I’ll add to what @BLACKICE said. The best thing you can do to get a woman who wasn’t previously interested in you is to disappear from her life for a fairly long period of time. Months, years, depends on the situation.
While gone, do the intense work (and subliminal use) needed to change yourself into a better, more desirable man. Try to at least casually date others while you’re at it.
That works a lot better than gradually changing day by day where she can see it because the contrast between the old you she remembers and the new you will be shocking to her system.
I used this once, and it worked extremely well, but the thing I realized was that I didn’t think SHE was good enough for me when I finally returned to her circle.
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Exactly this, no joke 
… this gets me hype as I remember how well it worked in my past as well.
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